🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

I don't think so before my hsg I had to give a sample for them to check I definitely wasn't pregnant. I had my test Monday last week and was ovulating 2-3 days before we didn't dtd at all that week as we'd been told not to. Iv called the hospital waiting on a nurse calling me back. Just it's been a few days now snd I'd say it's getting heavier

Oh yes of course - hmmm maybe it's just a really slow way of starting af? Or related to the hsg? Sorry that's not much help! Hopefully the nurse will give you better answers

Where everybody at the thread seems very quite these days. 💚

@Babyghirl I thought that too how are you doing?? Xx

@sweetbabydust1989
All good on cd4 now period just leaving on her broom stick lol, just got abit of brown now got my fertility reading back how sad am I to even get it lol, how you doing xx

@Babyghirl oh brilliant least she is buggering off now we need AF repellent 🤣🤣 I am all good 12 DPO I think I tested this morning BFN so not testing no more don't want the heartache and those pee Sticks cost more than a cheap take out 🤣🤣I have been having the worst cramps and boob pain going been feeling a bit queasy the last couple of days oh and have a massive bloated stomach don't think it's linked and to top it all off my smear test letter arrived through the door.. I tell ya the amount of doctors that have rooted around my lady garden this year I should start charging 🤣🤣 xx

I'm on a confusing spell. So I was 8 days late then started bleeding. Bleeding last 1.5 days and al been negative until last night got a vvvvfl on a cheapie. So seeing if I ovulated late and I'm actually pregnant. I will update after the weekend as it should be clear then x

@sweetbabydust1989
I feel like my fanny not my own anymore 😂😂😂😂😂 everybody and there uncle been down there lol. Xx

@apwilso
Omg how exciting hope it gets darker for you 🙏🤞🍀💚

@Babyghirl I'm hoping so too! I hope it isn't a faulty test!!

@Babyghirl mine is no my own at all see more of the gynaecologist now that it never has 🤣 right I need some advice ladies I am 13 DPO had a bfn yesterday and just started spotting 4 days before my period I also have cramps i have put a pad on just incase.. could my lap and dye have knocked my cycles out of sync xx

Hey everyone 🤗
Can I jump aboard your band wagon?
I’m 42, TTC since July 2019, started fertility investigations in Dec 2020 but all held up by Covid 😩 Started again in April this year and miraculously got a BFP in August 3 days before a laparoscopy (actually conceived on my birthday!!) it felt so perfect!!
Viability scan showed heartbeat at 7 weeks but scan after a little bleed at 8 1/2 weeks confirmed MC 😞
Had D&C on 29th September and finally on CD10 after first AF

Have massively struggled mentally and emotionally. Feel like that was my last chance. All of our tests came back clear so there was no diagnosis for the infertility. So where do we go from here?? 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

I’ve got an appointment on Tuesday for a baseline scan - trying to psych myself up for it all again is so tough!!

I had a few weeks ago that showed large blood cells so they tested my folate and b12 levels - I really though that was the answer! Either of those deficiencies can cause infertility and MC…I take supplements but thought maybe I had an absorption issue. But I’ve just had my results back as satisfactory 🤷🏼‍♀️ It’s totally messed my head up!! 😩😩😩😩

@sweetbabydust1989
Yea could of done prop just a good clear out or could be ip bleed fingers crossed xx

@Kelb79
Welcome to r we family so sorry you find yourself with us thou, miscarriage is so hard but don't give up your wee rainbow is just around the corner, I have had 4 miscarriages and 1 cp ttc num 1 had all sorts of tests had an mri scan for a heart shape uterus to c if it is one or how bad it is, only thing my bloods showed up was low vitamin d so doc put me on high dose and will have progesterone from my next bfp.

@Babyghirl sorry dozed off I feel shattered grr had so much to do today well cramps have died down had a towel on since I posted went to pee and when I wiped nothing completely clear not sure what's going on but will keep an eye out for a few more days xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Oh fingers crossed its good news to come 🙏🤞🍀💚 xx

@Babyghirl I think I am out looks like a light flow starting I am ok about it was only a month ago since I had my lap and dye so my cycle might still be out of whack xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Well hopefully next month is your lucky month, now you know your body is getting back to norm and getting ready for that rainbow baby xx

@Babyghirl Thanks lovely I am actually a little relieved been very stressed this month I think that might be why it didn't happen.. I won't be able to try now until end of December my partner is having an op xx

@sweetbabydust1989
You can relax and enjoy Christmas and hopefully will get you ready to catch that egg in Jan xxx hope your dp op goes well to xx

@Babyghirl oh me too he has been waiting far too long for it its been cancelled 3 times. Yes I am going to relax I stressed so much even though I got the all clear from my op just a little disheartened but it wasn't meant to be xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Just think of it as your body getting ready and preparing for the nxt baby to grow and nourish and it will happen when the time is perfect. Xx

@sweetbabydust1989
I'm starting to get fed up with ttc and thinking it never going to happen, I don't think I could go on with life if I can never be a mum so my life is kinda down at the moment xx

@Babyghirl I am sick of it too after 2 ectopics and surgery I think this year my body is screaming no!! I am actually quite depressed too I thought after my surgery I would be one of those girls that catches first time but I think I put too much pressure on my body with pee sticks that it fucked my cycle up like I am 3 days early.. We spend years trying to avoid pregnancy and when we want it so badly our bodies shut down.. have you had any tests done?? Xx

@sweetbabydust1989
All the tests had an mri done to see if I have a heart shape uterus just waiting on results now, but at 38 I think it's never going to happen for me awww sorry your feeling so down to its awful like I know ppm out there and they r having baby after baby and don't care about the 4 they already have and r pregnant again xx

@sweetbabydust1989
I think I sent you a pm don't know if it has sent thou lol let me know xx

@Babyghirl I didn't get anything you can send again ☺️ xx