🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

@sweetbabydust1989
I think it's went now lol xx

@Babyghirl it sure did I replied ☺️ xx

I'm here. Having a month off TTC it would seem (not my choice but it's a partnership afterall) so not much to report. I'm CD16 today so fertile period over. AF usually comes on day 24 but cycles been out of whack since miscarriages. Roll on next month!!!

@Babyghirl sorry you are feeling down at the moment. I really do believe you will be a mum. I feel like you look after everyone in the group here, your always here to offer support. You deserve this so much. Xxx

@PeanuttyButter
Awwww Thank you just over my date of my first loss and it knocked me for 6 tbh, 3 years ago and here I am still waiting hopefully this is your month 🤞🍀💚💐

@Babyghirl Sending you so much love ❤️ stay strong xxx it’s so hard to stay hopeful isn’t it!
My pregnancy felt like such a miracle - we saw the folicule prepping to release the egg on a baseline scan and got told to BD on my birthday and the day after. We had booked a weekend away then so it felt perfect! And we actually conceived on my birthday! After over 2 years TTC it felt like it was meant to be!
Losing that baby just felt like the biggest F. You from the universe!
I’ve been struggling so much to find hope again.
Praying I’ll be one of those that get pregnant quickly after MC but DH is worried about trying too soon, he’s scared it’ll happen again if we don’t find out what caused it and he’s worried I’m not ready because it’s totally changed me, he thinks I’ll change back and then be ready - I can’t get him to understand that this has made a new version of me 🤷🏼‍♀️
MC is horrific! Especially coupled with difficulties TTC 😞
I’m sending out little prayers for each and every one of you cxxxx

@Kelb79
Sorry only getting a notification now, so sorry your going through the same struggle, it's an awful thing to go to go through your moods be up and down for a while so don't be pushing yourself to feel yourself to quick, you never forget but just learn to cope with it.

Look after yourself be kind to yourself and sending you all the baby dust in the world. 💚

I need to read through the pages that i have missed!

I have just ovulayed (FINALLY) - it was like cd23 so the operation must have delayed my ovulation I guess

@babyghirl sorry that you are feeling low and a bit out of hope 💗 its such a difficult time for us and with heartache month after month:( xx

@kiwi17 how are you doing now?

@27donfin must have just been because of the hsg - i had spotting after mine for about a week :)

@sweetbabydust1989 sorry it looks like AF is arriving :(

@sunnysideup2020 have you moved yet or still in process? And yep breastfeeding will do all sorts to your cycle so best just to try take it easy or do opks everyday!

@elm7 how are you lovely?

@peanuttybutter we have a month off when I had the operation and it was nice not to constantly be thinking of pregnancy symptoms tbh!

@Annny27 hello lovely how are you doing?? Yeah it was af I am honestly fine about it my body wasn't ready this month I having a month off then will be back in December for round 2 dp is having surgery this week so he needs to recover xx

So I got two lines today... not for pregnancy but for bloody Covid! Had a really weird period last week so thinking this is what messed it up

Oh no @apwilso 😑 that's the worst. My husband has had it this last week and I've done so many tests but no positive yet which I'm thankful for but quite surprised by! @Annny27 yeah not much to report really 7 weeks on weds and so far feel pretty grotty which I didn't ever get with the mc at this stage so I'm hopeful! Glad you've now ovulated hopefully you'll get a normal cycle again now 😁

@kiwi17 wish it was in ovulation week🤣 hope your husband is okay x

@Annny27
Picking myself back up again thankgod how have you been💚

@apwilso no coughing on me nw fs that's all I need is to catch covid 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@kiwi17
Can't believe your 7 weeks glad your feeling grotty sounds weird writing that thou but you know what I mean I hope 😂😂😂😂😂.

Well got a call today got an app with my rmc consultant on Wed must be for the mri results.

@apwilso Hahaha I know the feeling 🤣 thanks @Babyghirl time is passing so slowly though. I've been stalking a pregnancy group on here but still don't want to commit in case something goes wrong 🤦‍♀️ so will still hang out for a while as I like to see your news :) hope it's a good app on weds!

Hi Ladoes hope you are all doing ok.

@Annny27 are you all recovered from your op and able to DTD around ovulation?

@apwilso sorry you’ve got covid hope you aren’t feeling too poorly.

@Babyghirl I have an appointment with RMC on Wednesday too. This will be our first appointment so will see what they have to say but have already had an MRI scan so at least they will have that information to review.

Im assuming we will also get details about the testing done from our last miscarriage. Know it’s going to be an emotional appointment just really hope we get some answers.

Haven’t really been TTC since the last MC although haven’t prevented either. Haven’t done any OPKs but think it’s just ingrained in me that I always know roughly where I am in the cycle - Currently CD11

@kiwi17
Can't wait to it to c what they say but I'm nervous 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

@ELM7
Oh maybe it will be goodluck for you 🙏🤞🍀💚 bot getting r mri results on the same day mine is 3.20. 💚

@Babyghirl mine is 3.40pm so just a little bit behind you.

No one has really talked through my MRI result all I know is it showed I had a bicornuate uterus (where they originally thought I had 2 separate uteruses) so all I can assume is that I have one hell of a dip and I wonder if that’s why we keep miscarrying - so will be good to actually talk to someone about it.

@ELM7
I had an ultrasound and it showed up on that I had one to so mri to see how bad it is hoping he says progesterone might help as app the side the egg does not implant on can still bleed so thinking maybe that can cause losses.

Good luck with your appts ladies @Babyghirl and @ELM7

@Annny27 we are moving at the end of the month, still on holiday in the sun for now 🌞

I have given up on daily opks after going through like 40 of them!!!

Sorry you got covid @apwilso

Are you vaccinated?

@Babyghirl you're telling me!

@ELM7 it's quite mild at the time being so hoping it stays like that!

@SunnySideUp2020 nope I'm not vaccinated

Well app over my urters is a norm shape but got some old ADENOMYOSIS just a wee bit and said it should not cause me any problems, so have to phone the ivf clinic and set a date but thinking of waiting to after Christmas what yous think take a break and enjoy Christmas before going for it xx

@ELM7
How did you get on x

So Appt was ok - just no real answers. So last MC was due to a chromosome issue of Trisomy 16 - which is just “one of those things” and doesn’t mean it would happen again, and he was on the thought that the first MC was because it was twins so always a higher risk of ending in MC so that just leaves the middle one as an unknown. Got to go and have blood tests first week of next cycle (so should be beginning of Dec) and will then have a follow up appointment to discuss results mid Jan. He didn’t look at my MRI but said whilst a bicornuate uterus can increase MC they don’t really have any stats and people with a bicornuate uterus do have successfully pregnancies.

I dont know about you @Babyghirl but I feel torn that whilst it’s good that he doesn’t see any issues (and isn’t expecting any from blood tests) it doesn’t give answers and just feel lost that not having any answers as to why we have gone through all of this means there’s nothing to do to try and stop it happening again (hope that makes sense as feel I’m just rambling now)

Glad you got some answers @Babyghirl I think you should get the ball rolling as soon as you can xx

Sorry you're feeling deflated about it all @ELM7 I can understand your frustration as if there was something identified it would be fixed. Have they mentioned genetic counseling? Friend had a baby with trisomy 16 and they got offered it after that, turns out it was just a fluke thing. Went on to have 2 healthy children afterwards with no issues x