Anyone 9dpo

[90mamabear]

Hoping for a test buddy 🙏🏻

@90mamabear aww thank you. We are both gutted but we are supporting each other and we will be okay. It’s a huge shock when it happens and it can be hard to be strong but I am focused on looking forward. We do want to try again as soon as we can really, although I want my body to get back to some normality first too. I still have very vivid dreams every night, although I enjoy that symptom as they are entertaining! x

@Ladylou17 aw I’m sorry to hear what you have went through too and I hope things work out for you this cycle. One of the hardest things is trying to act normal at work or when you see people, we haven’t told anyone we were TTC and definitely didn’t tell anyone I was pregnant and then had an early loss, so I really appreciate having people here who understand and who I can talk to x

@Hope18 it may be too early for the digital test to pick it up, there’s still hope for a BFP if you test later in the week x

@ShellUK09 it's really hard, I didn't tell work either or have a day off sick so it's been quite rough. It's a nice relief to talk about it here with people who understand. Pretending to be normal is the worst thing isn't it. Thank you, I hope we have our rainbow babies soon x

I don't want to be excited as every time I am it's pms and I'm wrong . But I'm 200% extra tired the past few days . And I distinctly recall this with my daughter . Please let it be a sign 🙏🏻

@90mamabear ooh sounds promising, fingers crossed for you 🤞

Did a test this morning 12dpo bfn feeling deflated :(

@Ladylou17 that sucks. I’ve been there many times. I’ll probably be there at the end of this week! I just repeat mantras to myself - I will be a mum, I will have my baby, my body can do this, I trust the journey.

I know that makes me sound INSANE but it gave/gives me comfort on bfn days. I think unless you’re ttc people don’t understand how sad it can be at times!

💐

@Ladylou17
I took a test yesterday at 10DPO. BFN. Also feeling deflated. I felt like all month it wasn't going to be this month. Do people get a feeling that it's worked when they are ? I've never been pregnant before so I don't know

@Ladylou17 sorry to hear :( but do not give up! Test again the day ur period is due if it doesn't come or before that grab a first response early result and try at 12dpo! Remember ovulation can be out a day or two and implantation is later for some !! Honestly I wouldn't give up at al although I know how deflating it is - I cry every time ! When I was having my daughter I felt every single second that my period was coming . I felt like complete pms. I kept running to the loo to wipe and expect my period. I didn't get a positive until it was due ! Xx hang in there !!

Hi all, just an update AF arrived Last night!

Going to try ovulation tests this coming cycle, never used them before but we're going to give them a go! X

I tested with frer today at 10dpo and got bfn 😪 I'm not testing now till 30th, feeling deflated again.

@Hope18 I bought a Mira machine it has literally changed my life !! Stick with us next cycle 💕 hope you are ok sending hugs x

@Fairy45 is so deflating isn't it because you feel all these symptoms!

@90mamabear thanks hun, ❤️ defo going to stick on here.. Got to be our time soon aye!
Why is the bloody window so small lol.. Annoyingly so my cycle seems to have changed itself this month.. Because AF started yesterday and I wasn't due on until 29th. And it's now set my cycle this month at 24 days?! So short?!
Usually 28..although did have a 24 in July.. I don't know why?
Xx

Attached my this months cycle.. And next cycle too..
Were Away with family as of 9th so won't be much going on so not holding out any hope.. But worth a try.. So going to do days leading up to 9th and Saturday 9th too..
What do you rekon? X

[quote MissLB]@Ladylou17
I took a test yesterday at 10DPO. BFN. Also feeling deflated. I felt like all month it wasn't going to be this month. Do people get a feeling that it's worked when they are ? I've never been pregnant before so I don't know [/quote]
@MissLB sorry lovely, it is very frustrating sending hugs
@MrsMo21 thank you I will definitely be saying those mantras we all deserve to be mommy's :) fingers crossed for all of us 😘
@90mamabear thanks lovely I will wait another couple of days. Symptom spotting but could be just usual pms if not am planning to start ovulation tests this month and see what happens.

@Hope18 me too! Hopefully I will get more of an idea if I don't get a bfp this cycle
I've bought the one step ones and fertility friend to track with bbt

@MissLB @90mamabear I've been using one step for pregnancy tests would you switch to FRER? Thanks 😊

@Fairy45 I hope ur ok hang in there 💕. I tested like an absolute idiot today at 6/7dpo wirh frer bnfn why did I do it to myself ugh idiot :(

@Ladylou17 we've been looking at clear blue 2 day ovulation ones or something?! We literally have no clue what we are doing with that though 😂🙈

I use Ovia app to track cycles.. Have done since DD was born.. But finding things really hard.. X

@Hope18 ur wee chart looking good! And as for next month remember the swimmers love for a few days :):)! I have realised regarding the app - I was using it to track ovulation . On e I started before I got Mira , using the clear blue ones that tell u the extra peak days , the advanced that I ovulate later than the app was telling me and I was flipping missing peak time to dtd! X

@Fairy45 @MissLB*@Mama500 @Hope18* @MrsMo21 @Melabells @Bridgey8 @Ladylou17 girls this group is awesome really keeping me going !! X such an active group love it. Helps so much !!

This is such a great thread and kept me going when I was so uncertain. My light lines which I was convinced were Evaps on 11 and 12 dpo have today been confirmed as a positive. I'm 13dpo and no denying it's positive I'm so excited! Will do a first response tomorrow to confirm and probs test again day my period is due which is next Wednesday. 😊😊feeling fine apart from tiredness and backache .

Girls seriously why do I do this to myself . I'm either 7 or 8 dpo this morning . And I've yet again fmu took a frer and of course bfn. Anyone else told me this I would be able to reassure them . Now I've spent the morning sobbing . I have got myself so worked up. It's just such an emotional roller coaster . I've ended up too with cystitis probably from dtd so much . I wish I could be one of those women just enjoy dtd forget about ttc and get pregnant super fast and it's a lovely experience. But I know in comparison to having dd who literally happened after one time a decade ago this time around it just isn't happening like that and never did I think I would become so stressed and so hard on myself . So Sorry for the rant . I try not to talk about my worried at home as dh is 100% fed up with the entirety of the topic of ttc . 🤣 xx

@Melabells oh my god !!! I'm so sorry I didn't see you had posted wowwww!!! I am absolutely over the moon for you !!! This is amazing !! Look at that line !!! Congratulations 🎉🎊🎈 !! I'm so glad this thread helped ! I hope you are doing something lovely today to celebrate! Lots of love ! I'm so sorry for my big rant haha ! I didn't see u had posted or I would have congratulated u ! So fab girl xx

@Melabells was af due tomorrow wed ? That's a definite positive

@Ladylou17 I would really recommend frer for early detection :) 😚