Anyone 9dpo

[90mamabear]

Hoping for a test buddy 🙏🏻

@ShellUK09 I know I’m new to the thread but I’m so sorry for what’s happened. I had a miscarriage last year before I started IVF with my DD and it was horrible. 💐

@Hope18 of course you can ask! I have low AMH so my egg reserve is very low for my age - not call it quits low but we needed to get a move on. We went privately so basically the consultant said that we could keep trying naturally and risk maybe never getting pregnant and then it being too late (I’m 30 but menopause will most likely be here for me around 34) or to go for it with IVF and see what happens. My DH and I decided that we desperately wanted a child and weren’t prepared to risk not having one and our first round worked! They say you’re more fertile after having a baby and I do ovulate according to OPKs (just with low AMH some months might be low quality eggs etc) so we know it’s a super long shot but I don’t want to go into more rounds of IVF just yet as my DD is still so little and it takes it’s toll on your mental and physical well-being! Hoping for a miracle really but one thing I’ve learned is that ttc often makes no sense and anything is possible! Xx

@MrsMo21 wow what an amazing story, thank you for explaining! I'm so pleased for you both you have DD..❤️ I can imagine it must take a toll on you both during the IVF.

It's amazing but at the same time scary this whole entering this TTC again isn't it.
We had MC 2017 followed by DD born 2018 and now ttc #2 but I always worry now I'm that few years older etc what my body is like and if it will be possible etc?! You just never know what's going on in there do you!
Wishing you all the luck..
I'm going to test Sunday if I don't cave tomorrow.. 🙈 I really know i shouldn't cave..
I've had alot of cramping today tho which is a boooo.😩 Xx

@MrsMo21 amazing story ❤️❤️*@Hope18* fingers crossed for you let us know 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@MrsMo21 @Mama500 @MissLB @Fairy45 what's everyone's next test days :)

I’m pretty sure I’m out BFN today and I’m due on in 2/3 days x

I'm 8 dpo and been so busy this week with work that I've totally forgotten which to be honest has been great! Though I'm shattered. But glad my mind has been on something else. Probably won't bother testing until weds maybe which will be pretty accurate at 13 dpo. What are you planning?
@ShellUK09 I'm so sorry for your loss it's an awful thing to experience x

Hope you don't mind me jumping in . I'm 10dpo and nervously starting testing. Does look like the start of a line or have I got major line eyes already🙈

Hi guys do you mind if I join you? I'm 7dpo and trying not to symptom spot or test! Had a major dip in temp at 5dpo below cover line but last two days it's been back up again... god knows what that means!

@90mamabear@ Mine is 2nd October but I’ll probably know before then due to spotting etc. I didn’t have any symptoms apart from vivid dreams with DD and I don’t sleep long enough nowadays with her being 3 months and up twice for feeds to dream 😂😂😂 so I don’t think I’ll have a heads up before OTD!!

@MrsMo21 I think I'm due on oct 5th I'll try and not test to 3rd 2nd very earliest with frer!! Csnr wait to hear everyone's results girls we got this !!! I had vivid dreams too wirh my dd and I'm wakening every night to pee ! But I think it's coincidence xx

Also as a little bit of hope here…when I was ttc DD I was on a board like this of 5 women and within 6 months we were all pregnant. One lady had been ttc for 2 years, got pregnant third cycle on the chat and I was IVF. Hopefully this thread will be equally as lucky! ✨

@90mamabear
My AF is due on 30th and I'm trying to hold off until then. I had a bit of heartburn this morning but no symptoms other than that so I'm not hopeful! I've also had that awful cold that's probably taken my mind off testing! :)

@Bridgey8 @Melabells welcome to the club !!

@Mama500 you aren't out until it comes !!! What did u test using ? U may have ovulated earlier that u think. With my daughter that happened me
!! X

thanks @90mamabear - due on the 3rd - going to try and hold off testing until then!!

@Bridgey8 I think I'm gonna say the 5th for being due on . It's that or the 4th gonna say 5th - I'm just 2 days behind you 🤞🏻🤞🏻xx Great little group we have going here girls

I'm due on the 2nd. Driving myself mad! Hope it goes quick for all of us. First time trying properly had a mc in July so feeling all kinds of anxious.

@Ladylou17 same. ! Fed up any just want to know . The thought of starting all over too - ugh :(

@90mamabear me too it's a bit soul destroying isn't it. Trying not to keep thinking about it but it's so hard!

@Ladylou17 literally can think of nothing else or concentrate on anything else !x

Thanks for all your kind words, I feel strange now as I’m waiting for a negative test rather than a positive! As then I will know I can start trying again after the early loss and things will be clearer. In the hospital she said she wouldn’t count my bleed when I lost the pregnancy as a period so I’m really confused now but will give my body time to readjust, we aren’t going to DTD for at least a week so I won’t have much to report for a while. Good luck to you all 💕

@ShellUK09 you should have a period in the next few weeks . And then u will have a starting point for when you feel you are ready to try again whenever that is for you both. My heart goes out to you. I have been thinking of you. Make sure you are kind to yourself and look after yourselves and don't put pressure on yourself . Early or not early a loss is the same loss. Lots of love xo

@ShellUK09 I totally understand how you're feeling I had a miscarriage 2 months ago nearly now at 9 weeks.
Hospital told me to wait a full cycle and period before trying again so this is our first month though we'll be properly trying from our next cycle if I'm not bfp. Sending love your way I understand how horrid it is x

Hi all just a quick update but I took a digital this morning.. AF due Wednesday.. and BFN..

Wishing you all lots of luck in the next few days/week!
Xx

@Hope18 there's
100% time yet!! Get a first response early result and test again closer to wed it will give u def answer ! With my daughter this is what happened me ! Xxx