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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Give my my bfp!!! 🙈🙌🤞🤞

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Skl2021 · 24/07/2021 13:28

New thread for us ladies trying to conceive baby #3!!!

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Nikkic2123 · 02/12/2021 16:19

[quote Skl2021]@Nats7504 if he could have it all year round he would 🤦 I have to put my foot down somewhere 🤣 then he gets it in the kids head that we need to do a Halloween tree so I can't win 🙄 the only problem is with it so early the kids think it's Christmas like straight away and they constantly ask when it is 🤦 I'm like nope another 8 weeks away 👀 stupid decorations. Haha they will definitely know when he's here can't deny that newborn cry all night 🤣 oh no hope it's not delayed too much more u don't need the stress!! Hahah blue balls 😂 I think we only DTD around 3 times when I was pregnant due to the stress of bleeding so I think he's making up for now 😬 hopefully I ovulate next week so he only gets a good weeks worth 🤣👀 can't keep this up for weeks poor vagina will be battered 😱 xx[/quote]
😂😂😂 battered - blue waffle I think it’s called 🙊

Nikkic2123 · 02/12/2021 16:20

I tested today just for fun, I’m going to be a tester this cycle I think. Might test again, I’ll see what happens x

Skl2021 · 02/12/2021 16:40

@Nikkic2123 blue waffle that's hilarious never heard that before 🤣 oh yes please keep us updated 🙌 love a good test and line eyes piks 👀 xx

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Nats7504 · 02/12/2021 16:45

@Skl2021 Mine needs to get the stuff out the loft, he’ll need at least another week of nagging before it’ll happen 🤦🏻‍♀️

Oh I don’t miss the shaggathons at all. I completely lost my sex drive TTC as it took all the fun out of it. I hope I get it back at some point. Weeks worth sounds like torture these days. The month I got my BFP I think we did it every night and until 2dpo. So DTD a few extra times for safe keeping 🤣

Yep, they’ll know when he comes 🙈 the cries will make locating him easy. I’m due in March so it’s shit regardless but I’d rather be in the new house, surrounded in boxes than him being a few days/weeks old and moving.

@Nikkic2123 Ahh happy birthday to you both! Fingers crossed you get your Christmas miracle ❤️ Have you tried pre-seed? It’s gross but I got desperate and tried everything!

Skl2021 · 02/12/2021 20:16

@Nats7504 oh yes if I ask him to do anything else it would take weeks but oh no not Christmas decorations 🤣🤦 oh no I'm hating the ttc shagathons already and I'm just starting again 😩 hope it doesn't take as long 🤞🤞 have u got a big bump yet? How much stuff you got left to buy? Xx

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Nikkic2123 · 03/12/2021 09:51

I'm thinking I'm out girls
Bad mood, head ache and tiredness, suggest progesterone drop- if only drops off your not pregnant!

Pretty sure af will be here 4 days from now, Tuesday, like clock work.

😭😭😭😭

Nats7504 · 03/12/2021 10:02

@Skl2021 Good to hear, he was making mine look shit 🙈 I don’t miss the nightly sessions but needs must. Hopefully you’ll get your BFP quickly as your body knows what it needs to do! I have got a little bump coming along, it’s starting to look less like I’ve eaten all the pies. He’s measuring a chunk so dreading having to give birth to him already 😩

@Nikkic2123 You’re not out until she arrives!

Skl2021 · 03/12/2021 10:17

@Nikkic2123 don't give up just yet 🤞
@Nats7504 I hope it comes quick I think it will destroy me if it doesn't. Don't know how much more trying I can take now. Awww love a chunky baby 😍 I found birth easier with my heaviest than my lightest! Xx

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Nikkic2123 · 03/12/2021 10:30

I’ve given up this cycle, I’m on the wait for the 🧙‍♀️

Nikkic2123 · 03/12/2021 10:30

When you know….. you just know x

TheCloudsHavePassed · 03/12/2021 10:31

Hello, can I join? Also TTC #3, I have a 4yo and soon to be 2 yo. Wasn't exactly sure we'd go for number three but here we are! Period finished Wednesday and started DTD yesterday as I ovulate usually quite early in the cycle. Woke up this morning feeling scared, worried, excited, and googling how soon you can fall Pg in a month 🤣 so officially in the crazies already.

Congrats to all those with the bfps and little bumps. I can't wait to see some more, and hopefully before the year is out ☺️

Skl2021 · 03/12/2021 13:24

@Nikkic2123 I will be positive for you and hope she doesn't show up 🤣🤞
@TheCloudsHavePassed welcome ✨ is this your first cycle trying? We wont be far apart cycle wise I'm on cd 9 today. Don't know when ovulation will arrive tho 🤦 haha don't worry we all get a bit crazy ttc 🤣🙌🙈 x

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Nikkic2123 · 03/12/2021 13:39

Thanks @Skl2021
Welcome @TheCloudsHavePassed

Good luck every one x

TheCloudsHavePassed · 03/12/2021 13:54

Hello @Skl2021 and @Nikkic2123 and thanks

Yes it's first month for me. I am on cycle day 6 although I've continued tracking ovulation through cm for the past few years out of habit and have usually one day of tonnes of ewcm around day 10/11. Let's see what happens though as I'm sure all predictability will probably go out of the window!!

Skl2021 · 03/12/2021 13:56

@TheCloudsHavePassed well good luck with this cycle ✨🤞 let us know how u get on I'm hoping ovulation comes next week for me but it's unpredictable so we will see 🙌🙈 how long did it take to conceive your other children? X

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TheCloudsHavePassed · 03/12/2021 14:06

Thank you @Skl2021 and good luck to you too!

We were really lucky with ds1 first month and ds2 fourth but had a MC of unplanned Pg at the beginning of this year. We decided it wasn't meant to be but I guess the thought of another didn't go away so here we are. Second pregnancy was really hard, I was off work for the last four months due to illness so I'm really nervous tbh but I'm trying to think of the end result!! This would be third c section too 😬

Skl2021 · 03/12/2021 14:12

@TheCloudsHavePassed sorry to hear that. This is my first cycle since my miscarriage so don't know what to expect and I'm scared to do it again. 🤞 We get lovely bfps and a nice easy pregnancy!! We can hope 🙈🤣🙌 xx

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TheCloudsHavePassed · 03/12/2021 14:15

Oh gosh @Skl2021 I'm sorry to you too. I'm just working my way through rtht and trying to catch up on everyone's journey.

Fingers crossed!!

Lozzie118 · 03/12/2021 14:16

@TheCloudsHavePassed

Oh gosh *@Skl2021* I'm sorry to you too. I'm just working my way through rtht and trying to catch up on everyone's journey.

Fingers crossed!!

We also have a WhatsApp group you can join x
Nats7504 · 03/12/2021 14:58

@Skl2021 Really? That’s reassuring to hear. My biggest was only 7lb so that’s quite the difference! What goes in, must come out and all that! 🙈

So what’s the plan on DTD - everyday or every other?

@Nikkic2123 Sorry to hear that you think you’re out. How long have you been TTC? It’s bloody tough going mentally isn’t it?

@TheCloudsHavePassed Welcome! I hope it’s a quick journey for you and number 3 is cooking away before you know it. 😊

Skl2021 · 03/12/2021 15:04

@Nats7504 my first was 8lb 9 and that labour was easy! However my second was 6lb 6 and that was horrific and had every intervention going 🙈🤦 would rather have a big one 🤣 I'm quite tall tho so maybe that helps with big babies 😅 I'm sure u will be fine! Well upto now we have been DTD every other. But yesterday I had a tiny bit of pink cm After and now it's freaked me right out. Took me right back to when I was pregnant. Hoping it's not a bad sign never had blood after sex. It's gone again now but I'm a bit wary of DTD again. I know I need to obviously 🤣 but maybe when I'm closer to ovulation. Funny how things set u off again. The closer I'm getting the more scared I'm becoming if that makes sense 😩🙈 xx

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Nats7504 · 04/12/2021 10:56

@Skl2021 I’m hoping he’s had a growth spurt and will settle down a little 🙈 I’ve got a growth scan at 32 weeks so we will see! I’m 5’6 so not short and OH is 5’8 so isn’t tall.

I used to get a bit of pink CM, your body is probably getting used to shaggathon’s again 🙈 Have you started to see your OPKs getting darker yet?
I can imagine your anxiety is through the roof. Fearing it happening again. You need to have faith lovely xx

Skl2021 · 04/12/2021 16:14

@Nats7504 I'm 5 10 so not much bigger 🤣 I hope so it panicked me when I saw blood keep thinking something is wrong and it's going to happen again 😩 I have started opks but I'm only cd 10 so hopefully next few days should get darker 🤞🤞 I don't want to be waiting for weeks 🤦 xx

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TheCloudsHavePassed · 05/12/2021 08:30

Morning all, hope everyone's weekend is going ok. Just about caught up with the thread. @skl2021 I'm sorry again for your loss. I can understand why you're panicking abit but I have everything crossed for you. How are you getting in this cycle?

Day 8 here and still making an effort to DTD as although I don't do temping I feel I ovulate abit earlier than average. Worked out I will be testing on boxing Day 😅 which is funny after I told everyone that I would have my first proper Christmas drinks etc this year after either TTC, being pregnant or breastfeeding for over four years!! I am not expecting to fall Pg first month but I can dream....

My ds2 has a cold so spent most of last night getting up and down to him 😴 early night tonight I reckon !

Skl2021 · 05/12/2021 10:49

@TheCloudsHavePassed I'm a nervous wreck feel like I'm on a rollercoaster. I was so confident before this cycle started I was positive hoping it would happen straight away and now I'm getting closer all the doubts are creeping in. I don't think I will ovulate on time as my tests aren't really dark yet and I'm cd 11. And the pink cm is throwing me I'm convinced something is wrong already. Just having a wobble. Some days are better than others. Think reality is hitting me and I can't go through what I went through again. It hit me harder than I thought and I'm obviously not over it. Aww that would be a lovely Christmas suprise wouldn't it! You never know it could happen 🤞🤞 I need to start DTD more but don't know if there's any point yet if I'm not ovulating 🤦 haven't got ewcm yet 🙄 hope your little one gets better soon ❤️ x

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