🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

[Annny27]

Hello ladies,

Time for a new thread for us dinosaurs and for any newbies that find themselves ttc after miscarriage ❤

Tagging those who I remember from top of my head and them will add the others in later 🥰

@Elm7
@babyghirl
@27donfin
@kiwi17
@sweetbabydust1989

So had my scan, no retained products thank God. She said structurally everything looks ok. She couldn't see any cysts on my ovaries which is good. She mentioned that my endometrium was about 9mm which puts me mid cycle which is good as that's where I think I am. She also said there was a 1.5cm follicle on one of my ovaries. So I don't know if I'm about to ovulate or this was just the left over follicle post ovulation? As I had peak opks for the last 2 days. Il attach a picture of my LH chart to show. I don't know if we should bd more (not tonight DH refuses haha) or just cross our fingers and hope

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@Babyghirl I tried to get some info from the consultant and he didn’t really give me anything other than a link to an article on Tommy’s which I’d already read (felt like he’d just googled.

But I did listen to an IG live with Tommy’s last week and they mention it but say that there is no real research to say whether it increases risks or not. (I’ve put the link above) But that if they looked at the people who had had miscarriages they quite often had a uterus deformity so it didn’t fill be with greatest of hopes - sorry 😣

Thank you @27DONFIN if I can have an early scan I might tell my Mum afterwards but only want to tell her if things are looking ok.

@PeanuttyButter that's all good news! Least you can relax and not worry about retained product and reassuring all looks OK. Lol about your DH, mine is always the same and glad when my fertile time ends haha. But given your peak I'd agree it suggests maybe you are post O.

@ELM7
Will have a wee watch of that the girl that done the scan had one and went on to have a healthy pregnancy so I'm holding on to that lol xx

Thanks @EmiGoiko I just hate getting to the end of the week thinking I could have done more. We have DTD 4times in the last 6 days, I'm just worried that the follicle they saw was the one for this month in which case it will only release in a few days based on size. But my lh has dropped now to 18% so makes me think I've had my peak. It's so hard. DH may be persuaded tomorrow...maybe.. but he's had enough lol I'm only cd 13 though and seems too early!!

@babyghirl where are you now in your cycle?

@ELM7 I recall having a scan about 15years ago and they said bicornuate uterus to me but not been mentioned today or since but they didn't give me any more information.

Nice to meet you @27DONFIN

@PeanuttyButter
I'm cd15 so ovulation here and gone I norm ovulate on cd11 to cd13 norm CD11 though I did ovulate cd8 last month so early ovulation is quite common so maybe you have ovulated early 💚

@Babyghirl how long is your cycle usually

@PeanuttyButter I've also ovulate on day 13 or 14 so possible you already did. I know what you mean about worrying about it. So if you have any doubts it can't hurt to convince DH to have another go!

@PeanuttyButter
Norm 28 days but last month was 24 cause I norm have a 16 day lh, so CD16 today lol, have a day of work today so house getting it bed an Al stripped lol keep my mind busy.

Finally got my US appointment through and couldn't make it so they've given me a cancellation slot on Saturday! Hoping that it will show something before we go into fertile week anyway. Worst part of it is trying to have a full bladder for it.. how's the tidying going @Babyghirl?

@kiwi17
Just finished lol dinner sorted I just drunk a 4 bottle of water before I went and one wile I was there lol, needed to pee bad then had me empty my bladder for the internal ask them to check ur kidneys while there I'm stupid I never have read a percentage of people with it only have one kidney 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈.

Ooh ok @Babyghirl kind of assumed I would know by now if I only had one kidney?! Is that something that can affect things?? Oh man! It's at 9am as well so I'm going to have to drink loads arghh

@kiwi17
I was just reading threads on it and a lot say they never knew until a scan also read 'Thin Basement Membrane' app if you always have blood in ur urine you could have this and people with heart shape wombs have it I don't know if it would effect it but when I tlk to my consultant again going to ask the questions to him I'm also taking aspirin aftet ovulation to help with blood flow to c if that helps lol 💚

@Babyghirl that's interesting, I hadn't heard about that. I know I have a tilted uterus and it tips backwards from my last pregnancy so never quite sure if that's going to affect it either although they claim not. I've wondered about the baby aspirin thing but guess you have to be recommended it by gp?

@kiwi17
How interesting I have a tilted urters aswell, I have read up even thou my doc told me to take it after my last 2 bfp I have started taking it after ovulation hoping it helps blood to the dip if that makes sense to me it's worth a try I'm up for trying anything.

Definitely up for trying anything! I have to admit when they say oh the tipped uterus makes no difference to fertility i think well surely it should because the boys have got to go a different way?! Haha!

@kiwi17
Lol I think it's more of where the baby implants that can be a prop, as if it implants on the dip blood might nt flow to that part and it can be dead tissue.

Oh yeah that's true!

@Elm7 so sorry to hear about your mum! When you get good news from your scan I am sure it will be a big boost for her to find out ♥️ and great news about the uterus being heart shaped vs two separate ones!

@babyghirl glad the horse riding is over for you haha! My period finishing today so I will be taking over the jockeying tomorrow haha 😂

@kiwi17 mines tilted too! Looks like we all have tilted uterus......maybe the sperm dont actually make it to the boat because the boat is upside down and they can't get in 😂😂😂

@Annny27
You can take over for sure c if any of us win the race 😂😂😂😂😂 think my boat departed ages ago lol. Glad the bitch is nearly gone for u fingers crossed its r month. 💚

My horse riding is over too for this month, I think we failed on the last lap though as I'd like to have done it once more for luck but DH wasn't up for it. He's been a star to be honest, there's nothing less sexy than someone saying do me now, even if you're not in the mood!
Already planning next month's attack hehe
Hoping the wait goes quick, I'm on annual leave from the day before AF is due so no doubt next week at work will drag as it usually does before a holiday. Just hope if AF comes it's normal/heavy so I feel as though I've made progress. Testing 22nd

@peanuttybutter I am going on a work trip for a few days so I have told DH that I need him to report for duty at lunch time today before I go. Very unsexy haha 😂

@babyghirl yep it's alot of effort haha! Whens your next appointment- did they get back to you in your 2nd bloods?

@Annny27
Very unsexie lol but gota be done 😂😂😂😂😂, not yet he said he will be in touch so hoping nt much longer to he does,
@PeanuttyButter
It's great to step of the horse and only dtd when you want to not because you have to lol.

@Annny27 hahaha I think you're right - I think our guys need scuba diving gear instead of a boat!

Anyone else had sperm analysis done? DH has called but went through to answer phone. Saw there was a Rhod Gilbert programme on BBC last night about male infertility which was interesting.