🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

[Annny27]

Hello ladies,

Time for a new thread for us dinosaurs and for any newbies that find themselves ttc after miscarriage ❤

Tagging those who I remember from top of my head and them will add the others in later 🥰

@Elm7
@babyghirl
@27donfin
@kiwi17
@sweetbabydust1989

@ELM7 I am so so sorry that you're going through this right now. This year just seems to be a massive shit show for us for baby making, and it's so hard when you can see successful pregnancies everywhere, why can't it be us?! You're doing so well, be angry as long as you like and take all the time you need to be furious and sad.
As for me, I think my positive test is now a no go!
I took another test this morning and it was the faintest line, it's there but so faint. So I think this one is a chemical, I'm assuming something wasn't right or my womb lining isn't thick enough or something. If I don't get a period by Wednesday I'll take another test to see if anything has changed but it could be that this time around hasn't been a success, which is a bit sad, but it's ok. I'm going on my honeymoon in 3 weeks to Barbados and I think I just need space to get my head right, but I want my rainbow baby so much!
Hopefully it will happen for all of us as soon as possible, this whole thing is so hard! X

@HOpeing
That's all he could c but could be more cause she a big dog lol but 2,500 a pup 6 not bad lol 💚

@H0peing it sounds like you are being taken care of and have everything to make this work. 🤞

My pregnancy was a bit weird at the start. Until 7 weeks i didn't have much symptoms if any... maybe some sore ish boobs. Time was going wayyyy too slow. Anxiety peak. Then morning sickness kicked in and that was hard. I was miserable... all day and all night. The morning sickness i could not wait to experience made me feel so shit. Looking back i should have asked for medication but i was so worried to take anything. Never even had a paracetamol during the pregnancy.
Boobs were ginanormous and painful, i was exhausted!
I had some spotting at around 9 weeks. Went to hospital all was good.
I had private US at 7w, 10w, 16, 26w. And the normal ones at 12w, 20w, 34w. So i made sure to have regular checks especially at the beginning for my own sanity! Also got to hear heartbeat with the midwife via the the doppler at every appointment.
Overall i had a very easy pregnancy. No issues... all tests came back lowest risks we even did harmony equivalent and found out gender through it at 12w.
Morning sickness subsided at around 11weeks and i was back to normal until i had a bump.
I got married when i was 17w wasn't big and felt good!
But then it was SPD at the end of second trimester. I just learned to live with it and rested a lot ... bit too much! I piled on weight. Far too much! 20kg.
But i didnt care i just wanted to rest and eat and cook my baby 😄
I was always super impatient to meet her especially after we started to feel her kick properly at around 20w(anterior placenta) Was definitely counting down the weeks... then due date passed and my little lady came 10 days late! the day before scheduled induction at 41w3.
So yeah i would say pregnancy after MC just made me overthink everything and be hyper aware or every little twinge. Googling stuff all the time. Being worried that we wont get to meet her, worried about the birth. This was definitely just anxiety taking over. But i cannot complain... both baby and I were healthy 💓💓

@Babyghirl £2,500 a pup!!! What kind of dog is she? I never knew pups were so expensive! That's great news for you then!xxxx

@SunnySideUp2020 Thanks so much for sharing! I find it very encouraging to hear success stories! I'm not surprised you paid for extra scans! I probably would too but I qualify for extra scans on the NHS because I'm 40 and have had recurrent miscarriages. So pleased to hear that overall it all went well with your DD. Xxxx

@HOpeing
The bitch is the one with the white chest she's an American bully xl 💚

@HOpeing
And face lol

@Babyghirl what a cutie 😍

@babyghirl congratulations on the pups. I bloody love dogs they are just so loyal and loving

@Babyghirl awwww lovely photo!xxxxxxx

Thanks girls well update set in hospital for ten hours yesterday only to see a doc to be told he was on the phone to gyno and they will be down to c me but could be waiting another ten hours well I left to sore sitting on the chairs. 💚

I had a mmc back in May and have been ttc for the last three months. Since the mmc my periods have been on an extremely regular 29 cycle. I am currently one day delayed and I am freaking out. On one hand I want to know if I am pregnant, but I also really don't want to see a negative pregnancy test. So I am torn between taking a pregnancy test or waiting a few more days. I think I am also a bit terrified of being pregnant and it not being successful again. Anyone had similar feelings?

@Unarosaes
It's a worrying time but take a test weather you find out today or nxt week the worry will still be there, if its a nagitive test chin up and on to nxt month you got this and it will happen 💚

I agree @unarosaes whenever you get the BFP post MC you are always going to be stressing. Your stressing now without the result so having the result won't make a difference. Pee on a stick and know where you are and then you can work on feeling better about the outcome whatever it is x

Argh @Babyghirl that's awful!! How you feeling today? Can it be self treated? Also do we need a new thread?? @Annny27 you're the new thread lady 😂

New thread :

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/4341151--The-dinosaur-crew-part-8-ttc-after-mc?watched=1