🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

[Annny27]

Hello ladies,

Time for a new thread for us dinosaurs and for any newbies that find themselves ttc after miscarriage ❤

Tagging those who I remember from top of my head and them will add the others in later 🥰

@Elm7
@babyghirl
@27donfin
@kiwi17
@sweetbabydust1989

Thanks kiwi17

@miscarriage39
Virtual hugs from me, xx

Well scan done she did tell me it's a heart shape uterus she seen on screen, but on the front of being tested for diabetes still waiting but my sugar levels where low today so would nt surprise me was 3.9

@Babyghirlwhat did they say about how that will affect you?

I've had cramping today although it could be my bowels easy enough, I've constantly got issues on that front. Trying to just stay neutral and not look into every little thing because when AF comes it will just make me feel worse. Surely 5/6dpo is too early to feel anything anyways.

@elm7 @H0peing looks like we are all in the dreaded wait together. Didnt used to bother me the tww, used to just be glad the fertile week was over and I can relax but now I'm on edge. Don't want to test early incase of CP

@PeanuttyButter
One of the girls there said she had one and went on to have babies just have to wait on my consultant phoning me nw to c what they say 💚

Thanks Babyghirl.

Good luck to all of you in the TWW

@Miscarriage39 I’m so sorry. Did you manage to speak to your GP?x

No SLCxxx, typically they were shut for training yesterday. I did speak to 111 and they said that at this stage, as long as I didn’t my have serious pain or very heavy bleeding I didn’t really need to speak to the GP. I was just advised to monitor symptoms and do a test in two weeks. That has fed pretty well into DH’s decision to think of this as just being a late period (because that helps him deal with it, or at least, pretend it’s not happening). He’s very hung ho, and has said we’ll just start trying again as soon as the bleeding stops. We are now arguing, because he insists he never knew I wanted a baby several years ago, and Imm angry because she did know, but he was too busy with his career and wanting to do things that weren’t my compatible. He always insisted that he knew loads of women like who had a straightforward time having healthy babies in their 40s, and that I was just being pessimistic when I said time was running out. Anyway, sorry for the ramble and moan.

@miscarriage39
It's so tuff when men really don't understand how we feel as the women to go through all this shit, it's ok for them there body's aren't clocks like rs when ttc, xx

@Miscarriage39 @babyghirl they have no clue do they. They just carry on as normal it doesn't alter anything for them until it's here, the fact our bodies are under so much pressure and we feel emotionally drained doesn't register. DH just says 'try again' ' we have a plan', but they don't realise we think about where we are on our journey every single day

@Miscarriage39 I am shocked by the advice from 111! Several women bleed in pregnancy and then go onto have healthy babies. I know this from friends and family of mine. I'm guessing that you're not experiencing any serious pain or very heavy bleeding? If not then can't you exagerrate the amount of pain you're in if you call 111 / your GP again as everyone has different pain thresholds anyway? They could offer you a scan then. I really hope that you can see someone soon rather than be left for 2 weeks! Yes, men usually don't seem to understand what we have to go through in moments like this! Xx

@PeanuttyButter @ELM7 Yes, I guess we're in our TWW together! Sending love to both of you...hopefully this is our month! Xx

No, it’s more like a heavy period than anything awful H0peing. To be honest, I dinky really want a scan as I don’t want to see nothing again. I’m sure I’ve lost this one, so it all feels a bit pointless. Had I just kept spotting, it might have been different.

PeanuttyButter it’s so frustrating when they say that isn’t it?

Last night (about 7dpo) I had cramp/pain on my right overy same side I had ovulation pain from, then this morning a little blood when I wiped. Praying this was implantation 🤞🤞🤞🤞 really hoping this time will be my rainbow

Hi ladies can anyone explain what a hysteroscopy is and what it actually does?? I am reading my clinic letter and was trying to work out what he is actually doing 🙈 I no I am having a lap done and he will check my tubes if left is fine right is coming out I guess he will use the dye thingy for that then I read about the hysteroscopy and was like what is that I no it's a camera up my moo moo but that's about as far as I have looked into it 🙈🤣 xx

@mrsF111
Omg fingers crossed for you it ur bfp 💚

@sweetbabydust1989
It's a camera they use xx

@Babyghirl thank you! Trying to wait until next Wednesday to test 🤞🤞 I had this with my first pregnancy last April, ended in mmc sadly but hoping this will be 3rd time lucky and the end of a dreadful 15 months

@mrsF111
Looking very positive 🤞🙏🍀
I got my pre ivf letter the other day said I should get a date in 3 to 4 months hoping things happen on there own before then I do know some people who have got like letters may it be for ivf or rmc and its like a weight lifted of there shoulders and it just happens 💚

@Babyghirl I’ve read so many stories of people that’s happened to! Fingers crossed for you 🤞🤞

@MrsF111 sounds promising fingers crossed for you. Sounds like we are at similar points, what day is AF late for you? Pre MMC my cycle was 24 days so don't know now. But I did O on cd 12/13 so hopefully it's the same and I can test Tuesday if AF doesn't come

I'm 7/8dpo today and I couldn't resist poas and it was bfn and I was expecting it.. so why did I do it haha

@PeanuttyButter AF is due next Tuesday/Wednesday. My cycles are long! They were 38 days but seem to be getting a couple of days shorter the last 2 cycles. It’s so hard to resist isn’t it! I’m going to hold out at least until Monday (or try too...!). Fingers crossed and lots of baby dust for both of us

I really hope it does happen naturally for you, Babyghirl, but also so pleased that you are so close to getting the IVF if not.

🤞 for those of you waiting to test. I really hope this is your lucky month.

How is keeping DH tied to the sofa going Kiwi17? My DH is a runner and he doesn’t cope well with having to take breaks from it, so I can imagine this may not running so much may be a challenge for your man.

@Miscarriage39 so far so good although he did break out to go mountain biking on Monday evening 😂 think we're nearly done with fertile week for now so will dtd tomorrow then he can go running again haha! How are you doing with everything? Has the bleeding stopped?