🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

[Annny27]

Hello ladies,

Time for a new thread for us dinosaurs and for any newbies that find themselves ttc after miscarriage ❤

Tagging those who I remember from top of my head and them will add the others in later 🥰

@Elm7
@babyghirl
@27donfin
@kiwi17
@sweetbabydust1989

Wow that's quick in terms of surgery time @sweetbabydust1989 mine wont be till new year unless we go private! Is it a hysteroscopy you are having done or a laproscopy?

Cd8 here and haven't dtd yet as too hot 😂😂😂 literally cba @kiwi17 @babyghirl

@Annny27 it's fast because my gp referred me to a bmi hospital but the nhs pay kinda fast track I have been under the same consultant since October but had to have my first lap cancelled due to my ectopic... I am having both a lap and hysteroscopy according to my clinic letter xx

@Annny27 I feel you! 😂 also anyone get to the point where they're not sure if it's ewcm or just sweat?! 🤣🤣 luckily or unluckily I've yet decided dh has gone away til tomorrow night so it's a good thing I'm not tracking anything this month it'll just happen when it does!

@sweetbabydust1989
Wow that is quick it will fly in my scan tomorrow can't come quick enough tbh💚
@Annny27
Cd16 for me today the heat is getting to much nw I want. The winter to come nw lol💚
@kiwi17
It's hard to tell 😂😂😂😂😂😂 💚

Well a letter came today telling me all that is going to happen for ivf so wonder if it will be soon if they sending a letter out like that 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

@Babyghirl I no it's crazy isnt it I am so lucky my gp have backed me all the way and to refer me to private and get the NHS to pay I am so grateful and no how incredibly lucky I am so my legs will be closed no pending positive pregnant tests for me for a while and my consultant is also amazing didnt fob me off and has decided to go above and beyond to fix my insides.. so scared about the tube removal I hope it doesn't come to that I really don't going to continue with my castor packs and pray they help... I have had everything crossed for your scan tomorrow hun keep us updated xx

OMG Babyghirl, I really hope so!

I hope nobody will mind me discussing this here, but I think I may be loosing this pregnancy! Had some bright red blood when I wiped early afternoon, and now having it every time I wipe! Ironically, I felt quite positive this morning as my breasts were much more tender. Will call GP in the morning, but I kind of just know 😔

@MrsF111 Welcome! I think I'm 3dpo so I really hope that we will have an exciting BFP journey together!💖xx

@miscarriage39 Thanks! Will let you know how it goes. Do you think you'll try calling your local EPU to beg for a 6 week / early scan? I hope you enjoy the whole 9 months as much as possible. Xx

@PeanuttyButter how many dpo are you now? I think I'm 3dpo so maybe we'll get our BFP'S around the same time this monthxx

Our EPU doesn’t accept direct requests from patients unless you have had either three consecutive miscarriages or an ectopic pregnancy, unfortunately, H0peing. They wouldn’t even speak to me three weeks after I’d had surgery and been in the ward, because I’d had a negative test, so my GP has to get involved and speak to them for advice. I’ll call my GP tomorrow, although we have so many lights, I doubt I’ll get to speak with anyone I’ve actually spoken to before.

@Miscarriage39 you should definitely be able to get an early scan with what you're going through! There are lots of women who have some red bleeding in early pregnancy and go on to have healthy babies so I hope you can try to stay as positive as possible. Easier said than done but I'm sending positive thoughts your way! Sending loads of love xxxx

@miscarriage39 I think I was typing whilst you wrote a response! Sorry! Hope your GP can help to arrange an early scan when you call them tomorrow. Xx

Yes, I’m hoping the GP will refer me H0peing. The challenge will be getting past the receptionist, but I might get my DH to call for me. He’s better at pushing the point and doesn’t go all passive when they respond to the request for an appointment with, ‘is it an emergency’.

Just putting this out here! 😂

@Miscarriage39 sorry you are bleeding. Really hope you or your DH can get through to a Dr tomorrow and that they will get you referred to EPU.

@Annny27 hope it cools down before Ov - I was lucky ov was last week so not quite so hot for DTD! But now another dreaded TWW!

@Babyghirl hope scan is ok tomorrow and interesting that you’ve had a letter about IVF

@miscarriage39
Awwww sorry your going through this, got everything crossed that is nothing bad girl 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 do get on the fone to doc tomorrow and hopefully he will get u a scan xx

@Miscarriage39 Yes, from what you've said it does seem like a very good idea to ask DH to call them whilst you're with him. Xx

@ELM7 how many dpo are you now? Hope you get some good news soon😊Xx

Oh no @Miscarriage39 that's crappy I hope it's nothing sinister - definitely see if you can get an early scan if possible. Everything crossed for you 🤞

@H0peing only 4dpo so it’s next week that I’ll be driving myself crazy waiting for AF and hoping it doesn’t arrive!

@Miscarriage39 fingers crossed it's just a blip and your pregnancy continues. Staying positive is the only thing you can do. We are all here xx

@H0peing I am either 4 or 5dpo based on two different tracking apps. I'm not planning on testing though until AF is late. How about you?

Thanks for all the positivity ladies, but pretty sure I’m miscarrying. The bleeding has got heavier over night.

Have everything crossed for you that AF doesn’t arrive ELM7.

@ELM7 @PeanuttyButter I think that I'm around 4dpo too! I really hope that we get our BFP's soon!

I was planning on not testing until the day after my period is due but part of me wants to check earlier in case I need a progesterone prescription straight away. I've got my 21 day progesterone check this afternoon so I should know by the end of the week if it's low or not.

Also, I was drinking ginger tea to warm up my body on the advice of the lady that I've been seeing for Chinese herbs but I've since read online that ginger tea isn't recommended if you have a history of miscarriages, which I do, so I've stopped drinking that now just in case that's true although you can't believe everything you read online! X

I'm so sorry @Miscarriage39 😞 everything crossed for you.