Bus 5-ttc for what feels like an eternity, so well and truly in the donkey club. No judgement here, just well wishes and advice on endo/ivf/MFI etc.

[becarefuloutthere]

Our regular riders on the donkey train 🚂
@Annny27 29, no1 since June 19
@RobinRose 27, no1 since Oct 2019
@Motherofkittens28 39 no 1 since aug19
@Yutes 34 no1 since aug19
@Crazydoglady123 32 pregnant 🥳
@Marvellouslymadmum 42 no3 since April 18
@Tofu35 35 no1 since sep19
@Hayley19835 38 no1 oct18
@Narwhal88 32, no1 since jun19
@Theawkwardblonde pregnant 🥳
@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker 15 months ttc ivf in June, ov 8th April
@2020mission pregnant 🥳
@Sjhigs 37 no1 since sep18 ivf consult mid April
@crazycatlady1981 39 no1 since Oct18, ivf in May
@PeanutButterBrownies
@Juno231 33 no1 since jan20
@clolo 31 no1 since jun19
@Aimzie 28 no1 4 years NTNP 22 months ttc
@VenusStarr 37 no 1 since nov17 ivf started in May!
@paintfairy ttc no 1
@polejunkie
@MIW0

@Sjhigs oh that seems long! Mines weds? I’ve somehow managed to hold off testing so far lol, I have the fear too - you’re definitely not alone x

@polejunkie don't think it'll ever leave will you rest early or wait it out you've got this far x

@Sjhigs going to try and wait xxx

@polejunkie just right o feel a little more positive today but still weary I'm back to work on Wed so won't have the same time to think about it xx

@Sjhigs great to hear your test is a bit darker! 😊 hope you are having a good weekend!

@polejunkie yeah I’m keep flipping between positive & negative too! 🙄 One minute I’m convinced it’s worked, the next I’m balling my eyes out because I know it hasn’t!! My emotions are all over the place!! 😂 x

@crazycatlady1981 same!!! Emotional wreck 🤣 when will you cave and test, or are you waiting until OTD?

@crazycatlady1981 @polejunkie I dunno how yous are doing it 😂 x

@Narwhal88 really sorry to hear that, the speed of all this and the not knowing is horrible. Good luck with the follow up tests.

@polejunkie @Sjhigs my clinic OTD isn’t until next Sunday, which would be 14dp5dt, but everyone else seems to have earlier dates, so I’ll probably test before that, but not sure when yet! Maybe 11dp5dt?

@crazycatlady1981 that was my places otd and I tested on 9dp5dt so I'd defo go for it on 11dp5t! Good luck 🤞🏾

@crazycatlady1981 mine was the same not a hope was I going to stick that out x

My OTD is also 14dpt. I’m on day 6 so far, but caved this morning and got a BFN. Wished I’d waited!

@Sunbird24 I think 6days is still early xx

@Sunbird24 how you feeling? It is early to test, still time, especially if OTD is 14dpt.

I don’t know why I’ve been told 11dpt, seems strange, not that I’m complaining lol - I really want to test now, I have work mon and tues so don’t want to do it then, it’s either today 8dpt, or leave it til OTD - going a bit mad today not gunna lie, obviously don’t want to see a bfn though 😣 argh! Plus it won’t be fmu today…

@polejunkie you were the same as me. I think I tested on a Tuesday in the end as I just couldn't wait anymore. Was weird then having to work all day. What does Dh think?
@Sunbird24 was there a faint line do you think? Hopefully if you give it a few more days you might see a bfp! 🤞🏾

I tried again with a more sensitive one (25 vs 10)…

@becarefuloutthere he is happy for me to test if I want to… I think I’m scared, pretty sure I would be pretty confident in the accuracy if it was bfn at this point and obviously not wanting that as the outcome as we have nothing frozen and would have to start the whole process again, kind of don’t want to know 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Sunbird24 there’s definitely a line!!

My rona test has come back negative - thanks goodness, that’s one less thing to worry about x

That’s a relief @polejunkie!
Yes, it’s definitely there, now I’m going to be checking every morning for progression. Fingers crossed, I really hope at least one of the two beans isn’t just sticky, it’s superglued!

@Sunbird24 ooh there’s definitely a line there!! Fingers crossed it gets good and dark over the next few days!! 😬 x

@polejunkie great news on the covid test! 😊 keeping everything crossed for you for Wednesday! x

@Sunbird24 exciting welcome to the Real anxiety train 😂

@polejunkie that's great you're covid clear... I'm the same as you and I tested everyday 🤦‍♀️ we're like chalk and cheese lol x

@polejunkie I'd hold off if I were you, stay in the bubble a little longer! Glad you're rona free!
@Sunbird24 defo a line there!! Hopefully it gets darker each time you test 🤞🏾

Congrats @sunbird24 :D

@polejunkie yes try and hold off!

@becarefuloutthere best of luck lovely for tomorrow - what times the scan?

Do it weds if you’re not in work then @polejunkie.
None of my family even know I’ve had another transfer yet, so not telling them for a while.