Bus 5-ttc for what feels like an eternity, so well and truly in the donkey club. No judgement here, just well wishes and advice on endo/ivf/MFI etc.

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Our regular riders on the donkey train 🚂
@Annny27 29, no1 since June 19
@RobinRose 27, no1 since Oct 2019
@Motherofkittens28 39 no 1 since aug19
@Yutes 34 no1 since aug19
@Crazydoglady123 32 pregnant 🥳
@Marvellouslymadmum 42 no3 since April 18
@Tofu35 35 no1 since sep19
@Hayley19835 38 no1 oct18
@Narwhal88 32, no1 since jun19
@Theawkwardblonde pregnant 🥳
@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker 15 months ttc ivf in June, ov 8th April
@2020mission pregnant 🥳
@Sjhigs 37 no1 since sep18 ivf consult mid April
@crazycatlady1981 39 no1 since Oct18, ivf in May
@PeanutButterBrownies
@Juno231 33 no1 since jan20
@clolo 31 no1 since jun19
@Aimzie 28 no1 4 years NTNP 22 months ttc
@VenusStarr 37 no 1 since nov17 ivf started in May!
@paintfairy ttc no 1
@polejunkie
@MIW0

@sjhigs fingers crossed it gets darker!!!

I am waiting for laproscopy to remove endo andthen probs try naturally for a few months and then maybe ivf (have been ttc 2 years 1 month and have had two miscarriages)

@narwhal88 they said it was 50nmol (last time it was 61) so fairly consistent! When will you test?

@annny27 let's hope you get caught before treatment 🙏🙏🙏

@Sjhigs @Annny27 my OTD is Monday but I will test this weekend, probably Saturday so I have time to process. I'm so scared to test though! That is a great progesterone level, mine was only 34 and my clinic told me they like to make sure it's over 50 when you have a transfer (mine was 105).

For people wondering - progesterone should stop AF from coming but if it isn't high enough it won't. Lots of people bleed before OTD, really it means you need a higher dose of progesterone. I never bled at all until 3 days after I stopped it.

@narwhal88 everything crossed for you lovely ♥️♥️♥️

@Narwhal88 when will you be testing? 9dp5dt is good going without caving! I’m only 5dp5dt so definitely not testing yet as much as I want to lol. Why are you feeling like it’ll be a negative? Anything specific? X

@Narwhal88 just saw OTD is Monday 🙂 crossing my fingers for you! And good to know the bleeding and progesterone x

@polejunkie when is your OTD? Every clinic seems to have different ones!
Nothing specific just have a feeling and no real symptoms, boobs don't hurt at all still and they did when I had my HCG trigger. I know it doesn't mean much but I'm generally a pessimistic person - I think it's just to try and protect myself really.

@narwhal88 my boobie pain has totally left me too xx

@Narwhal88 I get it, I feel the need to protect myself too. What tests will you look at if unsuccessful, out of interest? OTD weds, I’ve booked the day off haha
My boobs are hella sore but that’s so normal for me and happened when I started progesterone x

@Sjhigs there's definitely something there! 4 days post transfer is super early for anything much though right? You're in good company POAS-wise. Last month I tested from 4dpo and then this month I kept using the dodgy cheapies I'd got from Amazon even though I knew 50% of them have a faint line every time. Somehow I find them strangely reassuring, pregnant until proven otherwise or something when it's too early to test 😅

@CycleGirl20 I would just rather know than wonder I never have patience for anything but definitely going to be a nervous wreck if I do get a positive tomo incase I have a chemical it's all a constant worry hurdles everywhere xx

@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker I can’t remember if you’ve already said, but how many frosties did you get in the end?

@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker ooh that’s great! 5 Frosties is a fab number to have! 😊 Hope you get to have an FET soon! 🤞🏻x
I’m not too bad, just a bit crampy, could be preggers, could be af, who knows!! 🤷🏻‍♀️😂 Just gotta keep hoping and praying!! 🙏🏻

@Sjhigs ah I see! So just waiting game then. 😬
@Narwhal88 when are you testing hun? I did at 9dp5dt and got a blazing bfp so best of luck for when you do! Oh just seen you said Saturday! Will be rooting for you 🥳
@polejunkie weds for you, eek! Wishing you so much luck!
@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker congrats on the embryos! When will FET be?
@crazycatlady1981 when are you testing again hun?
@clolo do you know when FET will be yet?

Good morning ladies we have a positive still very faint though but more noticeable still want to give it just the one more day to be sure but hoping this is it I'm both excited and nervous at the same time I'm just happy I can see it 😭 nearly 3years of trying for our firsr and this is the closest I've ever got let's hope this is the start of a sticky little one xxx

@Sjhigs I see it! It’s early days - it will get darker over the weekend, you must be feeling all kinds of emotions! At least you’re getting away, keep nice and busy X

@polejunkie yea very early let's just get to this time next week before we get too excited lol going for a big supply of frers today 😂😂😂 stick baby stick 🙏🙏🙏🙏 xx

@Sjhigs woohoo!!! That’s really exciting!! 💕But totally understand you feeling nervous! Fingers crossed it just gets darker and darker and you have a wonderful sticky bean!! 😊🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@becarefuloutthere I haven’t decided when I’m testing yet! I wanted to test at weekend really so DH can be there, but not sure I can hold out that long!! I might try and get him to take a day off next week maybe!
Is it your scan next week??

@crazycatlady1981i also tested on my cheapie strips there's a faint time in it too gives me a bit of hope as they are 10mlU I think I've a little spotting again today its so hard to tell with that crinone what it is x

@Sjhigs ooo that's super! Fingers crossed for next week and sending positive thoughts for a sticky little one your way🤞