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Is that Greek yoghurt CM in your pants🩲 or are you just pleased to see me? Knickerwatching TTC bus 43

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Minster2012 · 15/06/2021 07:19

We are back in business & trundling into summer with weight loss galore & hopefully some promotions! 🥳🥸 Yesss ladies though there’s quite a lot of injuries lately 🤒🤕so be careful, don’t fall off the bus!

Welcome to the knickerwatch brigade 👀be it for spotting spotting 🩸, Aunt Flo or even pesky progesterone leakage 💊even after BFP many of us here know the knickerwatch needs to be maintained so we operate a strict rotation policy of participants (partici 🩲maybe 🤗)

Here is the bus where anything goes, and chat isn’t just TTC it’s anything. Ranting very much encouraged to her things off your (are they sore boobs?!) chest

The price of your bus pass is an embarrassing story please, doesn’t have to go be TTC related and nothing is TMI here so let’s hope the ride (bus not banging) doesn’t take long 🤞🏻🙌🏻

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

minstermusings.co.uk for the blog that’s where the full stuff happens
& minstermusings on insta - some of our ladies have made special anonymous accounts so we can link up via me 🥰
If you want to sign up & get updates please do, please note your username if you comment shows up to others so maybe make it anonymous I won’t be offended 😂🤣(unless you are mean)

Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs
jan 7 BFPs
February 8 BFPs
March 5 BFPs
April 5 BFPs
May 4 BFPs

And we’ve gone bumper with a twins section...
@madeoftea
@crazydoglady

Roll on the summer

June 4
@haiyaa
@tornados2inc
@Amy00
& sneaking in at the end of the last bus ….
@notyetamumbuttrying

🤞🏻💓😘🥳🙌🏻

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2020mission · 17/06/2021 18:07

Hey ladies thanks for the good luck messages this morning. Thankfully all was well! We were sat in shock finally seeing a baby on screen as we've had no scans ever before and we really didn't believe it was real after the 16 months of trying, 2 chemicals and the 5 days of light bleeding/spotting at 6 weeks in this pregnancy. So so grateful to be at this point and I hope many of you get here soon too - everyone deserves it! I won't post a scan photo unless anyone wants to see as I know it's not nice to push in everyone's faces here when things aren't easy. Hope you're all doing ok and sorry I've not been keeping up so well this week I've been so busy with work and was worried all week about the scan too.

@Juno231 Damn NHS keeping you waiting. If it makes you feel any better I was stuck in a packed waiting room sitting waiting for an hour and 45 mins today to get my bloods 😑 it ran over lunch time too I was starving! I hope you hear about the job soon and you can figure out which route to take but whatever happens you'll not be too far from IVF!

@blackcurrantqueen aww sorry you're feeling rubbish but I always tell myself it's worth it! I was never too bad but anytime I was feeling sick and had a migraine I kept reminding myself. It will pass eventually.

larrythelizard · 17/06/2021 18:39

Fantastic @2020mission so pleased that it went well for you today 💕 when have they given your due date? X

Vil10 · 17/06/2021 18:56

@blackcurrantqueen sorry you're feeling so ill!! I hope you start to feel better soon x

@DKDK123 here's hoping he's secretly psychic!!

@2020mission so so pleased all is well! So happy for you!x

@larrythelizard have you tested?🤔

bez91 · 17/06/2021 19:11

@Juno231 shocking they were that late for you but that's fab there's some kind of plan in place, great news and progress!

@DKDK123 maybe DS is psychic 😆 when I was pregnant with DD, very very early and we'd told no one my cousins DS who was about 5 at the time said auntie B have you got a baby in there so I said no darling I haven't and he said yes you have you're lying 😂 think they have a 6th sense

@2020mission fantastic news, really happy all is well 🥰 I don't mind seeing scan photos not insensitive at all.

Job opportunity has come up at work, sideward step in the same department so salary the same but it’s more my bag, have loads of experience in that field and I think I'd be able to make an impact (they’re stuck in the 90s with a lot of their processes, mainly because a lot of them are dinosaurs themselves 👵🏼🧓🏼) the stress would decrease tenfold, my mobile wouldn’t constantly be going and I’d be able to actually have dinner breaks 😆 but I’ve only been in my post 6 months so don’t want to seem like a journey woman and I am enjoying every day being different at the moment - got time to ponder over 🙈🤔

blackcurrantqueen · 17/06/2021 19:18

@DKDK123 I'm going with psychic DS!

@larrythelizard POAS ALREADY!

@bez91 that job sounds like a no brainier to me? Less stress has got to be better all round?

Thank you girls for being so lovely 💞

@2020mission excellent news, so pleased for you xxx

larrythelizard · 17/06/2021 19:21

@bez91 I've come to the conclusion it's not really the length of time for each role on your CV (within reason anyway), it's the story you tell with it. Sounds a bit of a no brainer though...?

Will test at the weekend if no AF @Vil10 @blackcurrantqueen I'm fairly sure it's covid jab related and mainly trying not to think about it!!

Franklydear · 17/06/2021 19:39

Today has been branded disaster day, everything that could go wrong, has, so hot dogs for dinner!!

becarefuloutthere · 17/06/2021 19:56

@2020mission so glad all went well! 🥰 Very gracious of you not to post the scan pic, it can be triggering for some.
@bez91 well done you getting another opportunity after 6 months, defo one to mull over. Can you ask anyone in the existing team for their views on the role?
@Franklydear oh no hun, good job the day is nearly done! Hope it's nothing long lasting.

Franklydear · 17/06/2021 20:02

@becarefuloutthere no, just took too long getting ready this morning, got to work just on time, then a last minute customer got complicated, so left work too late, then the traffic was bad the bus took double normal time, so asked DH to pick me up from a bus stop, and then took half hour to get there, so lazy dinner at 7.30....

becarefuloutthere · 17/06/2021 20:07

@Franklydear ah I see! Hot dogs sound yummy tho 😋

Haiyaa · 17/06/2021 20:11

Wow! I’ve missed a LOT!

Congratulations on the OTD BFP @becarefuloutthere!

Glad the appointment went ok @Juno231 even if it was a lot of rehashing old results. And what is this IF you get the job?! Pfft! WHEN you get the job 🌟

Great news on the scan @2020mission you must be so relieved! I wanted to see the pic so snuck onto the graduate thread as suspected you might have put it there! I’m going to guess girl 💕

@larrythelizard could be the covid jab but I’m really hoping it’s a BFP!

Sorry you are feeling so shit @blackcurrantqueen, totally get where you’re coming from. Hopefully it will all settle down soon, just take some time to relax and rest.

Oh no @Franklydear what has happened?!

@DKDK123 100% psychic child, don’t suppose they have a prediction for the lottery jackpot? Asking for a friend… 😂

Haiyaa · 17/06/2021 20:11

Ah! I hate those kind of days @Franklydear but yay for hotdogs!

Franklydear · 17/06/2021 20:43

Also ewcm at cd5 is just weird, right?

larrythelizard · 17/06/2021 20:52

I love an old school cheapo hot dog @Franklydear but they often hide milk on them so don't really have them! Better get on it just in case EWCM is meaningful!

Minster2012 · 17/06/2021 21:16

@2020mission whoop whoop so pleased for you 🥰🙌🏻🥳you actually got a baby in there!! 🤣

@bez91 I think this bus is the one for new jobs & you had me at "stress decrease tenfold" and surely it would still be variety by the sounds of it?! Plus as an ex headhunter a different role in the same company is not a worry bout job hopping, if you were to do it & want to leave you could always say "you were cherry picked to move into the (dinosaur) team to help update the processes 😉"

@larrythelizard I vote test, every pregnancy is different ppl say so you wouldn't necessarily "know"

@Franklydear hot dogs heal everything

Inspired by @Vil10 I've just done a 20min legs bums & tums then a 12 min arms resistance band workout! Booommm 💪🏻

@Dollybird89 have a lovely (non murderous) holiday!

CDmillionand20 here, I started wiping brown on Monday after a big spot of bright red blood, since then every day there's only been the slightest bit of brown blood only when wiping but it's up there when I've done a CM check. Only had cramps Sunday/Monday. Seriously? Argh just want this cycle done

In other news I had appointment for my oncology ct scan & mri results today. All clear 🙌🏻but they phoned me 1.5 hours early (not an @Juno231 delay here), and I was in Aldi waiting AT THE CHECKOUT with DS then playing up & I had to explain all about the miscarriage, the dates etc. Made me upset again in Aldi of all places throwing my food in the bags!

Oh and my smear next week cancelled after my doctors also phoned me & said "we've just realised you can't have a smear for 3 months after a miscarriage" so even if we wanted to do ivf again we couldn't as you can't do Ivf for 3 cycles AND have to have an up to date smear

Where's flo when you need her?!

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Vil10 · 17/06/2021 21:28

@bez91 I feel like a job with less stress would be all it would take for me to say yes!!

@larrythelizard oooo that's exciting!!

@Franklydear oooo I love a good hot dog!!

@Minster2012 yassss girl! Get in💪🏽 sending hugs to you for the phone call and upset in aldi, that can't have been easy! However very glad your mri and ct results were all clear!!x

So I used to squat and hip thrust quite heavy but since my back got worse and my knees started getting bad I've steered away from them, today in my pt we decided to go for it again, I forgot how uncomfortable thrusting heavy can be when you havent done it for a while!! All across my hips and pubic bone is so so bruised and sore to touch! If that hasn't put a downer on my day, I should've been flying to Mexico today, and another downer, found a house that we lovedddd, amazing features and character inside, booked a viewing for Saturday morning, OH went to drive round on the way home from the gym to have a look and said that around the house like the street really wasn't what he expected and it's put him off a bit, I was so excited about this one but suppose I'll get more of a feel of it when we go and look!

larrythelizard · 17/06/2021 21:36

I find myself bruised quite often from the bar @Vil10, usually front squats and then get bruised collar bones/sometimes boobs! Really annoying!

@Minster2012 🥳🥳🥳🥳 for all clears!! Excellent news! I'm sorry to had to go through all your miscarriage story in Aldi though, that's tough. Come on AF...3 cycles will fly by as that'll take us through the summer and you'll have summer things to do and a new house to play with!

I did an IC and not even the faintest shadow. Will test again on Sunday if nothing. Deffo blaming Mr Pfizer (tbf im all for the actual jab just not a fan of limbo land!)

larrythelizard · 17/06/2021 21:39

Also I just consulted the now not used apps and last cycle was 30 days so if that's the case AF due tomorrow so not even late! Apologies all for any tiny stirrings of excitement on my behalf...!

paintfairy · 17/06/2021 21:49

@Kirky658 oh god that's insensitive. I personally wouldn't have but that's my choice. And I wouldn't expect people to start giving opinions. And neither should people if you choose to. Its up to people to do what is right for them.
@Juno231 omg useless. But yeah get on that list early!

Good luck everyone else with things happening! I have read through.

The good news is - I had my arm pinned and plated today, and so hopefully on my way to recovery! 🥳
The bad news was - the nerve block wore off before the operation had finished, and it was the most horrific experience of my life. They did try throwing all sorts at me but it was less than ideal. 😫 Which also meant we weren't on top of pain relief properly afterwards either, and i actually thought my arm was going explode. Nearly ended up staying in! 🙈 They just couldn't get the pain relief under control. To the point I was crying. They have sent me home with proper painkillers though now. Got to go back in 2 weeks to have it checked.

I definitely do not recommend it. Get a general anaesthetic! 🤣
I don't think I'm having a lucky week? 🤔🤪

They also xrayed me 1000 times. They asked if I thought I'd be pregnant and if so would test. But I'm only 6dpo at the earliest. So nothing would show. So I just said no and hoped for the best 🙄

Kirky658 · 17/06/2021 21:53

@paintfairy great news on the arm! Exactly, I don't begrudge anyone's decision in the end of the day for me with DH's job and my health issues it was mine and my GP's decision.

@minster2012 great news on the scans, sorry you had to have the call though in aldi with the speedy checkout brigade!

@vil10 just try and keep an open mind on the house, DH and I didn't like our house at all till we saw another 5 mins away and we then realised we loved this one!

Franklydear · 17/06/2021 21:56

@Minster2012 @Juno231 I love that I can have appointments by phone but I hate they get you wherever, the bus anyone? Hoping time will resolve everything
@Vil10 see how you feel, the street is important
Bruising, ladies? That’s just wrong
Loving how a hot dog can resolve a bad day, and the sympathies, tomorrow will be a better day

Cheekymonkey3112 · 17/06/2021 22:11

Hi everyone hope you are all well, just checking in. 11/12dpo today and another BFN, no show of AF and a slight temp increase on my bbt chart 🤷‍♀️x

Minster2012 · 17/06/2021 22:43

@Vil10 that's a right shitter bout Mexico, but just think how hot you'll look for next trip! Bruising though! What is it with you ladies & exercising & bruising!! Leave the thrusting to OH 🤣do f write the house off yet

@paintfairy I just need to 😳😱it wore off?! What??? But pleased you got it done

@larrythelizard oh well you aren't even late then🙄might as well pee on another stick!

@Cheekymonkey3112 damnit it's not changed on the 30th stick? 😬are they ICs?

@Franklydear im loving the telephone appointments instead of driving for 3 hours to get told the same stuff but yeahhhh could you stick to the time please Cos that's when I'm in the right place & head space 🙄

I've just jumped DH hoping that a good old rogering might bring on flo, we'll see!

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Dollybird89 · 17/06/2021 22:50

@minster2012 thanks! Almost packed ..last few bits in morning.. anyone would think I was going for 2weeks not 2nights 🤣 my cycle lasted 75 days so a lot shorter than 114 just hope she's not here for 4weeks this time. I hope she arrives soon for you. Great news on the results being all clear too shame about the timing in Aldi.. hugs x
@paintfairy I can't believe it wore off that's my worst nightmare! Glad you got the right pain relief now and your home xx

Nails all painted and finally ready for bed . So excited for weekend getaway and bonus.. oh has a full week off afterwards too.. bring on the 🍆😁😈

Is that Greek yoghurt CM in your pants🩲 or are you just pleased to see me? Knickerwatching TTC bus 43
Cheekymonkey3112 · 17/06/2021 22:55

@minster2012 nope bloody FRERs. I have one left, I clearly have nothing better to spend money on 🙄🙄 not! Next month when I feel the urge to buy a test I'm going to put a fiver in a tub and at the end of the month buy ONE test and spend the rest on something for myself if its a BFN 😂

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