4dpo any one want to join??

[Jely123]

Hey everyone so this is my third cycle ttc again, I'm so impatient and these cycles can be so lonely sometimes so wondered if any one wanted some company this TWW.

Just abit of back story. Im 22 from Kent. I have a 2yo girl and have had a few chemicals and miscarriages since having my little girl.
I'm also a poas addict so faint lines more then welcome here tooo!! X

I thought I’d posted a picture of the one step but it’s not showing - here it is again - it’s a lovely thick something but it ain’t very pink 😫 @Rugratree thank you for your long reply I really appreciate it.
@ChillyBon95 how have you got on this morning x

Oh @Kinickynicky it hasn’t come through!! Try again..was the one step done with FMU aswell?!

What about all the other ladies testing again this am..fingers crossed for yous too

I keep trying to upload these but it keeps failing - spotting is getting heavier

@Kinickynicky this has be definetly seeing a test line..the way it’s supposed to look..what is going on with the bleeding though..did you bleed with 4 year old?

Ugh what a rollercoaster for you @Kinickynicky, I really hope you’re able to take your mind off it a bit today before testing again. There’s obviously something going on isn’t there with your body acting so strangely. Do your periods usually take so long to get going?

BFN for me this morning, the packaging says it should be 85% accurate this far before my period is due so not looking too promising for me, I’m ready for AF now so I can try again! Bit annoying as I’ve the week off work and my birthday on Tuesday and it’s forecast to rain all week, plus I’ll likely get my period (usually pretty heavy). Will try make the most of it anyway!

Let us know how you get on all those testing this morning!

Yes I had a full on “brown” period from 8dpo-14dpo tested positive whilst bleeding on test stick I bled (bright red) all the way to 6 weeks.

Morning ladies! BFN for me. Apparently staring at it the entire 10 mins didn't help 😤
@kinickynicky so confused with you. Like the others have said - clearly something going on. Can you ask docs to do some bloods or will they just tell you to keep waiting?

@PairOfPears I’m sorry to read about your BFN this morning..onwards and upwards though as you say..new cycle is around the corner..happy birthday for Tuesday lovely..glass of bubbles defo at the ready. A week off work is still nice..rain or no rain. Be nice to yourself birthday girl xxx

@SaraSS sorry for you too this AM..how many dpo are you?

@Kinickynicky aw well that changes everything..I’d say this is it for you then!!! Can I say it???...CONGRATS Mama!!!!!! No wine with your roast lol

@SaraSS @PairOfPears I’m sorry for
Your bfn’s guys :( xx

@Rugratree I wish it was but I just don’t know I think the spotting is going to turn into af

@Kinickynicky your update also completely changed my take on this, all sounds really promising!

I’ve just fished my test out the bin after two hours to look at it again and can see a line...how stupid was that as now I feel really hopeful again but there was literally not a sniff of a line after the ten mins so trying not to think about it!

What does everyone think does it look positive? I feel so sick and also v.guilty I had a blood test recently and my folic acid is so low the dr has prescribed a supplement what it if it bfp but I’m losing the bean because of that 😫

@PairOfPears ooooooooooooo!!

@Kinickynicky oh god, what a morning you're having. I can definitely see lines on your tests and with you having similar bleeding in another pregnancy and all being well I'd say it's looking really promising for you x

@SaraSS sorry to hear about the bfn x

@PairOfPears that's exciting! Are you going to do another?

@Kinickynicky AF arrived this morning, booo! But that's okay roll on the next cycle!

I see your lines! First response seem to be soo hit an miss though cus mine looked positive on some but they were white I only ever had a vvvfl that was pink but evidently I'm not pregnant, I guess only time will tell I'll keep crossing my fingers for you! X

@GlowUp have up tested this morning xx
Sorry for the drama everyone.
Popped a pad in thinking it’s af, only very very light brown stuff now xx

I've done a couple of cheap tests this morning and one of the ones I bought yesterday - all bfn 😔 I guess the line I got yesterday must have been an evap?
I'm driving myself mad now staring at tests, trying to find a squinter of a line when I'm pretty sure there's nothing there.

Ah @ChillyBon95 wishing you lots of luck for next cycle xx

@Kinickynicky don't be apologising - it's what we're here for! X

@ChillyBon95 sorry lovely I’ve just seen your af started this morning. What a rollercoaster- I just don’t trust frer anymore! X

@kinickynicky still some hope for you with your history of early bleeding in your last pregnancy. Sounds positive still to me 🤞 have you got any digital tests to try in a few days per so?

I'm only 7 or maybe 8 DPO (I think) so still very early for me. I'm too impatient to wait to test though 😂
My cycle is messy as well so DPO could be wayy out 🤷‍♀️

Sorry to hear of the other BFN this morning. 🤞 for some CLEAR BFP's soon!!

@glowup so annoyed and disappointed for you..and alittle shocked..yesterdays test looked like a clear BFP to me..I’m still hopeful for you though. Chin up sweetie..you got this

Aww @PairOfPears I am a frequent bin hoker too..why do we do it to ourselves. I agree that it is exciting..query do a long hold and try again??

@ChillyBon95..aw I’m disappointed for you but just think..your only a couple of weeks away from ovulating again and then back in with another shot. That’s a big thing that always comforts me..that ‘go’ time is never too far away again.

@Kinickynicky don’t dare apologise we are all in same boat and here to listen/encourage/advise. I really really really think you have your wee bean. Don’t overthink the folic acid issue..try and remain relax to help a sticky bean

@SaraSS still plenty of time then for you..very exciting

Just something interesting..I use those Accu news test strips..3 for peanuts price in home bargains..I redid an old negative test and it gave me a faint positive..not a strong one but thought it was interesting..may help someone who’s ran out of tests ....I really really really need to re-evaluate my life lol

@ChillyBon95 Sorry about AF 😔 like others have said, not long until you can try again.

Got it all crossed for you @GlowUp, when will you test again and when are you due?

I’ve only one test left and won’t be able to get any more until tomorrow afternoon so I’m thinking I’ll save it for the morning? I’d hate to get another bfn today and not be able to test with fmu tomorrow! Also I’ve literally never heard of anyone going on to be pregnant following a positive plucked from the bin after 2+ hours so a bit pointless getting my hopes up 😂

@PairOfPears yes keep it for the AM. Well I always try to prepare for the worst but hope for the best. So keep your mindframe in the zone of not being pregnant..anything other than that will be a huge bonus.

Oh and you could just be a complete lunatic and repee on tests like me 😅

@Rugratree that made me laugh redoing old tests 😂 Was this today? Do you think it could mean something?

Good luck for the morning @PairOfPears!

I don't know when I'll test again to be honest... maybe this evening but I should wait until tomorrow morning really. AF isn't due until Wednesday but I'm not feeling too hopeful as I had clear bfps by now with my other dc. I thought after the faint line yesterday that I might get something clearer this morning so it was really disappointing not to. Sorry for the moan 🙈

Hope everyone is ok and not too down about their tests. A new cycle is around the corner and we just have to see the positive sides to that (hard I know)!!

I did a test this morning on a strip and can't see a thing!! I feel like my period is about to start as well so I'm not too chuffed

Do we like the strips for testing?! I'm not sure whether to see it out until Wednesday and test then with something else.

One confused mama