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4dpo any one want to join??

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Jely123 · 05/05/2021 13:32

Hey everyone so this is my third cycle ttc again, I'm so impatient and these cycles can be so lonely sometimes so wondered if any one wanted some company this TWW.

Just abit of back story. Im 22 from Kent. I have a 2yo girl and have had a few chemicals and miscarriages since having my little girl.
I'm also a poas addict so faint lines more then welcome here tooo!! X

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PairOfPears · 20/06/2021 08:41

So sorry to hear that @purpleskyssssss. I know you were expecting it but it’s still a bit of a downer sometimes. Hope you enjoy your weekend away! (And the red wine 😁)

Poppet2021 · 20/06/2021 09:31

@purpleskyssssss
Sorry it came!!
At least you know... and you can really just relax (and drink lots of red wine) on your break!! Enjoy yourselves x

SaraSS · 20/06/2021 21:48

Ahh sorry to hear the witch has arrived @purpleskyssssss & @pairofpears 😣
I think I'm not far behind, period pains today so maybe tomorrow.
I'm still testing (three IC today!! Lol) but all BFN.. even keeping busy today didn't stop me testing 😂
@Poppet2021 keep us posted with your tests ☺

Poppet2021 · 20/06/2021 21:55

@SaraSS
How many DPO are you? Hehe with the testing. It’s hard not to think about doing it...
I’m 10dpo and bfn on cheapie with fmu. So I’m guessing I’m out too. I feel like I’m about to get my period. Period pains, my legs are hurting. All the symptoms I get just before AF comes.

SaraSS · 20/06/2021 22:18

@Poppet2021 I'm 13dpo, my app says AF due tomorrow but that could be a few days out as I've not been tracking long. Feels like it will be arriving soon though!
So bloated today.. Feels like I'm preparing a pillow for my non existent embryo! I'm sure I get phantom pregnancies, like a dog does!! Is that even a thing for humans?? 😂
I mean it could be all the crap I've eaten in the last week i suppose.. 😝 but I'd rather blame the hormones haha

Poppet2021 · 20/06/2021 22:34

@SaraSS
Well some ladies do get their bfps late. It’s not unheard off.
I’ve got a CB digital which I could do to just find out. But I’ve got a few days until AF due so will just try wait it out.
But I do think she’s on her way... I’ve been eating jammie dodgers and choc digestives this evening - so think that’s more AF cravings

PairOfPears · 22/06/2021 11:43

How’s everyone getting on? Any news @SaraSS and @Poppet2021?

Poppet2021 · 22/06/2021 12:08

@PairOfPears
Hello :0)
I’m 12dpo but BFN on fmu. Getting loads of AF pains and go lots of CM. So think that’s AF on her way... most probably!

Poppet2021 · 22/06/2021 12:08

How are you? @PairOfPears

PairOfPears · 22/06/2021 22:23

Eek keep us posted. I’m good just wishing the days away for ovulation to roll around again!

Poppet2021 · 22/06/2021 22:38

@PairOfPears didn’t test today. Didn’t see the point as the last couple days have been bfn. Will wait to test either tomorrow or Thursday and see... but these pains I’m getting and the feelings I’m getting are very much like AF is on her way. Cervix position is low ... which is sign of AF too. Ahh well... just need to wait it out and see ....

Poppet2021 · 22/06/2021 22:39

Sorry for TMI 😐

PairOfPears · 23/06/2021 07:26

Ah don’t apologise, if we can’t overshare bodily functions here, where can we! 😅 Sorry you’re feeling like AF is on the way. I know you’re not out until you’re out but we know our bodies and it’s hard to stay optimistic when it feels like all the same signs are there.

How long have you been trying? x

SaraSS · 23/06/2021 11:50

Hello! Well AF arrived today 😣😣 although it was well expected after my temps dipped yesterday.
On to another cycle!
How's everyone?
@Poppet2021 any luck today?
It would be great to keep in touch with you all for the next cycle?

Poppet2021 · 23/06/2021 12:51

@SaraSS
Hello... sorry to hear Af came... at least the waiting game is over! Treat yourself!!
I haven’t taken a test test. Was rushing about this morning. But my legs are hurting like they do before AF and cervix medium height and lots of CM when checking cervix (sorry tmi!!!)
So think Af will be here tomorrow or next day

purpleskyssssss · 23/06/2021 14:23

Sorry to hear AF came @SaraSS hope your not feeling too bad! Onto the July train 😀

Keep us posted @Poppet2021fingers are crossed for you!

PairOfPears · 23/06/2021 19:54

Sorry to hear that @SaraSS! Definitely keen to keep the thread going for next cycle ☺️

Everything crossed for you @Poppet2021 xx

SaraSS · 25/06/2021 13:54

Any updates @Poppet2021?

Poppet2021 · 25/06/2021 14:35

@SaraSS
Sorry been super busy. Had some spotting today. When I go loo, little blood on tissue. So I think that’s my AF. which was due to start today! So I’m out... I’m pretty sure!!
Onto next month!

How is everyone?

SaraSS · 25/06/2021 15:05

Ahh looks like it wasn't any of our months last time! Roll on July and lots of BDing 😂😂 then hopefully some BFPs next time!!
I've told myself I'm not doing early testing this time.. we will see if it lasts but I'm hoping if I chill out more it might happen - you hear all the time people getting pregnant the one time they aren't checking everything?! Maybe in could be one of those people ha ha

PairOfPears · 30/06/2021 14:20

How are we all getting on? I’m quite surprised to be round to CD 13 already! I’m on the opks but trying to be a bit more relaxed than last month 😂 It seems like I ovulate around day 17/18 and SMEP had us DTD from day 8, we were knackered by the time I actually ovulated! So we’ve only DTD once so far and will pick it up in a few days.

Other than that just trying to relax as to be honest I found last month quite intense!

Does anyone else have a game plan this month? xx

Poppet2021 · 30/06/2021 15:40

@PairOfPears
I’ve decided I’m going to give it a break this month.
Goodluck to you all... hope you all get your BFPs ... sending you lots of positivity x

PairOfPears · 30/06/2021 18:03

I can understand that @Poppet2021. It’s a real rollercoaster. Hope you are able to get some space from it all if that’s what you need! Please check back in though when you’re ready and let us know how you’re getting on x

purpleskyssssss · 30/06/2021 19:35

Hey ladies, I have taken a little step back from all things ttc so not been on MN much!

@PairOfPears I'm not doing anything this month - this first month of doing nothing since starting TTC

@Poppet2021 I think stepping back this month for myself has really helped, I don't think I realised how much I was CONSTANTLY thinking about ttc!

Good luck all of you for this month, fingers crossed we get our BFP @SaraSS

SaraSS · 30/06/2021 20:42

Hi all! Hope you're all doing well 😊 I've been nicely distracted arranging a birthday party for my dp on Saturday so hardly thought about ttc which has been a nice break.
Back onto OPKs but just when I remember. I've taken the decision not to buy a tonne of IC pregnancy tests this time and force myself to wait the actual 2 weeks rather than obsessing!
Sounds like we are all at a similar point with having a more chilled cycle.
Will be lovely to hear your updates when you do feel like posting 😊
Fingers crossed for BFPs this time round 😁