4dpo any one want to join??

[Jely123]

Hey everyone so this is my third cycle ttc again, I'm so impatient and these cycles can be so lonely sometimes so wondered if any one wanted some company this TWW.

Just abit of back story. Im 22 from Kent. I have a 2yo girl and have had a few chemicals and miscarriages since having my little girl.
I'm also a poas addict so faint lines more then welcome here tooo!! X

@Kinickynicky

@GlowUp that’s just like mine but even darker than it was- looks pink too!!

@babyboybluex how have you got on today? Have you tested again x

@Kinickynicky Literally just came on now to catch up!! How are you feeling? Did you test again?

I did a test this morning and it's still the exact same (squinting eyes and really not sure)!! Will test tomorrow but I'm really not convinced at the moment. Ahhhhh

4 days until AF is meant to arrive... still got tender boobs and feeling a bit sick but that's about it! x

@Kinickynicky it's so confusing isn't it?! Have you done any more tests today or are you waiting for your frer?

@babyboybluex I'm sure it takes a couple of days for hcg levels to double in early pregnancy so hopefully you'll get a darker line by tomorrow 🤞🏻

I've just been to buy a frer but the shop didn't have any 😒 Bought some other tests instead but I've just read the instructions properly and they're nowhere near as sensitive as my cheap strip ones so figure it'd be a waste to do one just yet! I'm going to do another cheap one soon instead, will report back 😊

@GlowUp well I held my wee for quite a few hours and this looks like a bfn can't even take picture it's non existent. Feel a little disheartened after yesterday's looking promising x

@GlowUp Yeah you're right! Will test tomorrow and see what happens.

Hope your test goes well - drop a picture I've got a good feeling about it! x

@ChillyBon95 Sending you hugs. Hope you've got a yummy dinner ahead! x

@PP202 Wow!! A huge congratulations to you lovely! I am delighted for you.

Mummy to be x

Ah @ChillyBon95 it might just be too early and you might get a result with fmu in the morning? Keeping everything crossed for you.

Good luck for the morning @babyboybluex - make sure you let us know!

I've just done another test and I think there might be a squinter of a line this time in the right place? Will post a picture...

It's so faint it barely shows up in a photo and I can't even tell if it's pink or not?! 🙈
It's the closest I've had to a bfp so far though so I'll take that for now!

@Glowup I see the line! Very promising 🤞

I'm holding out to use a FRER tomorrow - although likely too early for me but still worth a go!

What's with hardly anywhere stocking FRER? It seems to just be pharmacys near me - when they have stock in! I managed to pick up a few 2 packs last time so I have them in.

Frer was a total waste and I feel like a total idiot for even thinking I could be pregnant :(

Oh @Kinickynicky don't say that, you still might be. And even if you're not you're not an idiot at all - you want this so much and there's nothing wrong with hoping at all. Maybe try again tomorrow or even Monday if you can wait until then? Hope you're ok and can relax tonight. It's not over for you yet x

@SaraSS good luck for tomorrow 🤞🏻
I've struggled to get hold of a frer too - wish I'd just ordered some from amazon now.

@GlowUp I can see a faint line! I pray it gets darker for you.

@SaraSS Keep us posted! Superdrug normally always have FRER in. Do you have one nearby?

@Kinickynicky Don't give up hope! We're still early It's deflating seeing nothing but it doesn't mean we're out. I hope you're ok!

xx

@GlowUp @babyboybluex thanks guys. I was so sure that those cheap tests had lines and the frer jsut was impossible to tell if line smudge or indent but I’ve still got red/brown spotting. Af isn’t due until Wednesday it’s far too early I just don’t understand what’s going on

This was my test this morning (I know, a blue dye...)

Will get a FRER on Monday and see. Such a waiting game!

@Kinickynicky Keep testing. AF is a while away still xx

Ah @Kinickynicky please don’t feel disheartened, it’s frustrating and confusing I know but you’re not out until AF 💕 everything crossed for you! It’s still so early, I’m due Wednesday too and just keep thinking last time I didn’t get my bfp until day AF was due.

Those saying FRERs are hard to get hold of I feel you! Went to three shops on Thursday and ended up with some sainsburys blue dye ones, best I could get.

I’m learning from this thread my line eyes aren’t good, I find it so hard to tell from pictures whether there’s a line or not! Especially as I really want you all to have lines!

I was up and down in the night with my toddler and had to pee each time I was up so didn’t want to test with crap urine this morning and disappoint myself again 😂 going to try tomorrow morning.

@babyboybluex thank you although I don't feel hungry just a too little sad haha I'll pick myself up soon x

@GlowUp yeah I will try again in the morning, although Im looking at this spotting and it's looking a little too fresh for my liking thinking my flow will pick up over night x

@Kinickynicky what is your spitting like now? Mines only when I wipe but it's looking more pink than brown now so I think I'm out x

@PairOfPears @babyboybluex @ChillyBon95

Thanks everyone. Just feeling a bit rubbish I think I know in myself I’m not pregnant. But cb monitor digital test tomorrow so keeping fingers crossed though I expect it to be negative like @hopingtostartfamily had with hers x p.s hope you’re okay hope lovely x

Spotting wise only lots of it when I empty my bowel otherwise it’s more brown fluffy stuff small amounts of it, feels a bit like af is coming, I wish it would jsut get on with it so can move onto next month as time is not on my side with my age x

@ChillyBon95 and @Kinickynicky I’m so sorry for you both. I hope AF arrives quickly so the next cycle and chance of getting pregnant can begin. The emotional impact of trying to conceive is breathtakingly painful sometimes.

@glowup so happy for you..definite line there.

It’s difficult sympathising and congratulating in one post..baby dust to us all who just want our little babies in our arms

@Kinickynicky I feel the exact same, in a way I kind of wouldn't mind AF showing if that's the case as it would allow me to move onto the next cycle and crack on with trying again as @Rugratree says.

Although I've not have any increase of flow all day if anything thing it's subsided (for now) hoping tomorrow which is AF due date I'm hoping I wake up to no AF I'll update in the morning!

Major baby dust to all x

I’ve got lots of fresh blood but actually
A line on an frer I’m so confused

Sorry for the spamming I am wondering if it’s an indent

@Kinickynicky I’m so confused for you. I see the line..most obviously In the pic where the strip is out of the test..which I know your not ‘supposed’ to do as can lead to ‘invalid’ results.

Let’s break this down and discuss possibilities;

There is a chance this could be a chemical pregnancy..

There is a chance that your period has just arrived earlier than usual..I’m not sure how regular how you..I fluctuate from 27 days to 32 cycle length. Meaning these lines have been in dents and evaps..and the world is a cruel cruel place

There is a chance you are pregnant..ive read lots of stories about bleeding very early in pregnancy..and it being absolutely fine

I am praying for the third possibility for you. I hope you are ok..I know this is so easily said but try and put it out of your mind until tomorrow morn when you can try again (most accurately) it’s Sunday..have a nice roast..watch a film..play with your 4 year old..and keep us posted xx