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4dpo any one want to join??

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Jely123 · 05/05/2021 13:32

Hey everyone so this is my third cycle ttc again, I'm so impatient and these cycles can be so lonely sometimes so wondered if any one wanted some company this TWW.

Just abit of back story. Im 22 from Kent. I have a 2yo girl and have had a few chemicals and miscarriages since having my little girl.
I'm also a poas addict so faint lines more then welcome here tooo!! X

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PairOfPears · 16/05/2021 12:08

I’d actually be tempted to redo a test but were away for the weekend and haven’t any old ones to take 🤣

Totally get it @GlowUp I will feel exactly the same tomorrow after this little whisper of hope!

Rugratree · 16/05/2021 12:14

@GlowUp I am pregnant this month..I was just bored and always wondered if tests could be reused lol i would feel exactly the same BUT your not due on for another three days..that’s early days..and every pregnancy is different and the level of HCG will be different too..so not a true reflection to compare to other pregnancies. It will rise at a completely new rate in accordance with the pregnancy. Hang in there! I have a good feeling.

Rugratree · 16/05/2021 12:17

@babyboybluex I like the strips..not the very thin freedom ones but those home bargains Accu news one..thicker and easier to read. I know a lot of ppl don’t like them. But essentially is that not what is contained within an actually hard case pregnancy test..a pregnancy strip. Strips are also used by my docs to confirm pregnancy..cheap skates. I really thought you had your BFP. Maybe just try and give it a couple of days and allow that for hormone to rise if it’s there? How are you feeling?

@PairOfPears aw that’s nice..are you away somewhere special for your birthday?

GlowUp · 16/05/2021 12:22

@Rugratree sorry I'd completely forgotten you'd already had your bfp - would love to blame baby brain 🙈😂 You're so right though, every pregnancy is different and I shouldn't compare to what's happened for me previously. Thank you x

@PairOfPears hope you're having a lovely weekend away 😊

Kinickynicky · 16/05/2021 13:45

Spoke to soon, that first response strip dried bright pink but I’ve just started bleeding really heavily and there were clots when I went to the toilet

Kinickynicky · 16/05/2021 14:01

I’m bleeding, properly. Not the usual thick kind of af blood but bright red fresh blood. I’m sat in the car in Asda car park trying not to cry and wondering if it’s worth torturing myself getting a different brand of test :(

Rugratree · 16/05/2021 15:30

@Kinickynicky I don’t know what to say but I know your pain. I hope this isn’t turning into a chemical pregnancy, stay strong. I did some research and even clotting can be normal. Think positive thoughts..and hopefully they will be returned to you

Kinickynicky · 16/05/2021 15:36

@Rugratree thank you so much hun , sorry for the multiple posts I never know if it’s posted or not as it clears but doesn’t show!
I caved and took a freedom cheapie from
Asda - another faint line

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Rugratree · 16/05/2021 16:38

@Kinickynicky your lines are defo getting stronger! Try to focus on the now..and right now you are pregnant ♥️..whatever happens after that is largely out of your control. But I think your going to be just fine..you bled for 6 weeks with your last baby..and yes the blood is different this time but different doesn’t mean bad..just different! Please keep us posted over the next few day’s in relation to darker lines and the bleeding..AND one more thing..CONGRATS!!!!! Enjoy this time xxxx

Kinickynicky · 16/05/2021 16:44

@GlowUp did you test again my love x

Kinickynicky · 16/05/2021 16:46

You’re going to make me cry that’s so nice!! I don’t feel pregnant I don’t think I am pregnant but I’m going to see what happens over the next couple of days xx thank you so much for being so nice helpful and kind I really appreciate having someone, and indeed all of you, to talk to about this to help clear my head. Do you really think the freedom one looked positive? I really wasn’t sure; it looks darker in the photo than real life x

Rugratree · 16/05/2021 16:57

@Kinickynicky oh I absolutely see that test line..I’m sure the other ladies do too?! With your test pics (and some of the other girls pics too) I have been fiddling with the contrast and brightness etc and this makes the lines a lot clearer. It is definetly there. Did it appear within time frame yea? Oh I know completely how you start to think and rethink and overthink..and eventually you start to go alittle mad. This site is our safe place..because we are all alittle crazy really..find me a person TTC month after month who doesn’t start to feel the emotional/psychological strain

PairOfPears · 16/05/2021 17:08

@Kinickynicky it sounds so confusing and stressful for you, I know it’s easier said than done but as @Rugratree says, so much of it is out of our control and best thing for baby is deep breaths and staying as calm as possible. However I’ve spent all day zooming in on the pics I took of my bin test earlier to see if I could really see anything or not so I’m hardly a great model when it comes to not overthinking 🤷🏼‍♀️

babyboybluex · 16/05/2021 17:10

@Kinickynicky I see this line also! Has the bleeding calmed down? X

Rugratree · 16/05/2021 17:17

@PairOfPears 😂😂

Kinickynicky · 16/05/2021 18:02

Sorry girls in unrelated news were in the middle of a massive electrical storm
The whole street has flooded

GlowUp · 16/05/2021 20:07

@Kinickynicky I see the line on the freedom test too! Got everything crossed for you. Oh and the weather is shite here too 🤦🏻‍♀️

I just did another test and it's looking like another bfn.

Rowboatsmummy · 16/05/2021 20:32

Hi girls, sorry for jumping on here, not very good at this! I read a bit back on this thread and sorry to hear some of you are in limbo atm with tests. I already have a DS and DD and not planning a third yet, but af is v irregular so have not been 100 with contraceptive. I do track cm and think I may be 8/9dpo. I did a test today just as I have quite a fee symptoms. This came up right away but Im not sure if I am just mad lol is there a second line? I swear I havd gone dotty. What do you think? Lol Sorry for the long one gals.

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Kinickynicky · 16/05/2021 20:43

Hi @Rowboatsmummy welcome to the inconclusive line club 🤣 only kidding- that looks a bit like mine but more positive than mine xx

Rowboatsmummy · 16/05/2021 20:46

Hello! Thanks for replying and sorry you are having a melt of a time with this too. I'm honestly convinced I have gone mad. My cycle is so irregular I am constantly POAS. I sometimes wonder am I willing a line that doesn't exist, even though we are def not actively ttc. I guess I will just have to wait it out for a few days but now I have seen this I'm a bag of nerves. It could of course (most likely I guess) be an unfortunate evap!

Rowboatsmummy · 16/05/2021 20:47

@Kinickynicky I meant to tag you! - see terrible at this lol. Have you had anything further?

Kinickynicky · 16/05/2021 21:37

@GlowUp oh no but it’s still early if af is due on Wednesday xx our whole town us flooded kids school is closed tomorrow :/ I guess them being at home will help take my mind off it !

Kinickynicky · 16/05/2021 22:01

@babyboybluex just catching up properly after my melt down this afternoon! I’m sorry you had a bfn those other tests did look ➕ x any sign of your af?
Spotting heavy enough to need a pad back to watery blood/pink and fluffy brown bits (sorry tmi) xxx

Kinickynicky · 16/05/2021 22:02

@PairOfPears 💗

Poppet2021 · 16/05/2021 22:42

Hey ladies
Please can I jump on this thread?...

I’m 6dpo today. Last night I had pains in my legs like I do when I get my period. When I ate my dinner I’m pretty much immediately threw up as felt so nauseous. But it might have cos I ate too quick! My boobs aren’t sore as such but more of a numb feeling. Also been needing to go to the loo (not for a wee) more often!! (Sorry for tmi!)

Right now my legs are hurting like I’ve got my period.

I have one kiddo. But can’t remember my symptoms when I had her.

Hmm not sure what to think!?!