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Trying for baby number 3

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HeatherSmithxoxo · 27/04/2021 10:52

Hi mummies

I'm in month two now of ttc my baby number 3, I know it's not been long but I'm nearly 30 and I'm worried that i won't be able to get pregnant again ☹️ did anyone else feel like this? I went through the whole tww last month and this month I'm trying to be a bit more casual about it as I STRESSED last month ridiculously. I hated trying to track ovulation and dpo it was alstreful absolutely expensive with pregnancy tests I got a bit obbsesed! Any support would be lovely

I'm a housewife who currently has my two children already 7 year old girl and 9 year old boy, I am so desperate now for a baby though it's giving me anxiety the thought of not being able to have another xxx

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Skl2021 · 12/07/2021 19:26

@Nats7504 wondered where you got to! How u doing today? Any symptoms looks like it's just me and you waiting for the elusive bfp now 🤣🙈🤞🤞

Springflower3 · 12/07/2021 19:35

Yes @Skl2021 get the appointment booked and then it's gonna happen!!!
Cd 20? Is that still too soon for you to get a peak?? They do say the vitamins can take 3 months??
Thank you @Nats7504! Still has sunk in to be honest. I keep looking at the test thinking it is to faint???? 🤣🤣 when is your af due ?? Xx

Skl2021 · 12/07/2021 19:42

@Springflower3 no it could happen anytime now lol it will probably spring up when I don't expect it 🙈🤣 u didn't DTD that much this month did u? What does oh think about the news? X

Nats7504 · 12/07/2021 19:50

@Skl2021 I’m doing ok, just plodding along really. Felt a bit down the past few days so trying to shake myself out of it. Damn your bloody ovaries. Someone needs to give them a bloody good talking too!!!

@Springflower3 Bet OH is made up. 🥰 How are you feeling?

I’m AF is due Wednesday, so far don’t feel anything out of the ordinary! Xx

Springflower3 · 12/07/2021 19:51

Best to be testing twice a day then 🙈🙈 @Skl2021! After being patient you don't want to miss it 🤣🤣 I'm routing for you!!
No we actually didn't! I nearly missed my peak! So we did dtd day of peak and day after I think....
it hasn't sunk in with him.... he keeps going back to look at the test! We have figured out potentially due in March! He keeps saying he will do this and that after the 12 week scan xx

Skl2021 · 12/07/2021 19:58

@Nats7504 we all go through down days hope u feel a bit brighter soon 😘🤗 IL probably be the same when I'm in the tww 🙈 that's if I ever get there 🤣🤞u never know that bfp could be just round the corner 🙌🙌🤞🤞
@springflower3 IV been dtd roughly every 3/4 days to make sure there's something there incase it happens. Once they start getting dark I might put some effort in 🙄🤣 Aww that's lovely bless him 💖 Will take a while to sink in xx

Springflower3 · 12/07/2021 19:58

Do you feel exactly as you do before A @Nats7504?? He is, he is trying to stay cool though 🤣🤣 weirdo! The 12 week scan seems so far away!!!
I feel tired but I've had a lot of late nights so not sure if that's pregnancy 🤷‍♀️ I'm crampy too.... and started to feel the bloat! I kinda feel like I will feel better once I get past the point of when Af was due..... but then there is whole wait to see if baby is developing etc xx

Nats7504 · 13/07/2021 13:22

Afternoon ladies. Sorry for the radio silence.. again 🙈 I’m so shit at checking, I need to download the app so I get notifications.

So… I was due AF either today or tomorrow, never know as she likes to switch it up. Took a cheap test and got a very faint line, didn’t believe it so went and got a FRER and…..

OMFG… I’ve been in tears all morning. Xx

Trying for baby number 3
Springflower3 · 13/07/2021 13:48

Omfg @Nats7504 this is amazing!!! I have actual goose bumps!!! Your lines are sooooo dark! I'm actually jealous!!!! Massive congrats!!! Aww I bet you guys are in disbelief xx

Nats7504 · 13/07/2021 13:51

@Springflower3 I’d seriously lost hope, which is why I’ve been so quiet on here. DP and I started to plan our lives without a baby and for it to come out of the blue with no symptoms has flooded me.

I kept it to myself for 4 hours and I wrote him a card, he cried, I cried 😫

How are you feeling? Xx

Skl2021 · 13/07/2021 13:51

@Nats7504 @Springflower3 this is amazing congratulations nats!!! 🎉🎉😭😭

Nats7504 · 13/07/2021 13:52

@Skl2021 thank you lovely 🥰 Have you had your damn peak yet? Things happen in 3’s xx

Skl2021 · 13/07/2021 13:57

@Nats7504 no I haven't 😩 just staying the same. Stupid body. Aww I would love to join use don't think it will happen tho! Making me emotional😭💔 not very hopeful already. Bet you and oh are over the moon! What lovely news 💕 xx

Springflower3 · 13/07/2021 14:01

@Skl2021 please do not lose hope!!! It will happen I know it will! Can you pay private to even see what is going on?? Sending you massive hugs! I will stay here for you as support until it does!!

Awww @Nats7504 your delivery of the news was a lot better than mine!!!! Aww I'm over the moon for you!! Although should I be worried that your line is so strong???? Mine is still not that dark 😳😳

I'm feeling a bit bloated but nothing more.... same as you not a lot of symptoms 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ xx

Nats7504 · 13/07/2021 14:02

@Skl2021 it will happen, you just need to get your peak. It will come!

I felt like that these past few months, so disheartening. Your body will get you there. Xx

Nats7504 · 13/07/2021 14:04

@Springflower3 I just checked and I’m due on Thursday if I had a 28 day cycle or tomorrow if it was 27. I was surprised by the lines too, maybe I ovulated earlier than I thought. Who knows!

I wouldn’t be worried about mine being darker. Have you taken anymore? You had a decent line to be fair. When are you due your AF? Xx

Skl2021 · 13/07/2021 14:06

@Springflower3 I'm trying it just gets to u sometimes I would love to join the journey with u 2 😩 no can't afford private ATM got alot to pay for this month and next. Just need to get used to the idea it will take time like my first did 🤞🤞 thankyou for the support 🤗🤗 I'm sure Ur line is fine don't stress and compare yourself!! Xx

Skl2021 · 13/07/2021 14:07

@Nats7504 yes just need to snap out of it and think positive it will happen when it's ready I'm just impatient 🤦🙈 wish it would hurry up just God dam ovulate!! Xx

Springflower3 · 13/07/2021 14:42

According to my app I was due on Friday 🤷‍♀️I had my peak on the Wednesday and it took ovulation as the Thursday so who the frig knows @Nats7504! I took another this morning with smu and it was defo darker! I have a digital one but I'm gonna wait till Thursday or Friday and take it 🙈🙈
When did you get your peak? I guess the result from Your Dp jizz is not important now! Bless him, he must be on cloud 9!! Xx

Springflower3 · 13/07/2021 14:44

@Skl2021 you never know you could be joining us in a few weeks!!!! It would seem there is a connection between seeking fertility help and getting a BFP 🙄🙄 how odd is that!!!
I bet it does get you down, it's hard cause your body is not playing ball and staying in a particular cycle length!! How long have you been off the pill! ?? Xx

Skl2021 · 13/07/2021 14:47

@Springflower3 we can hope 🤞😩 yes always the way! I'm too early for help yet think this is month 7? Or 6 can't remember now 🤣 feels like forever. I wasn't even on the pill so nothing to regulate 🤦🙈 my body just likes to mess around xx

Nats7504 · 13/07/2021 15:16

@Skl2021 This was cycle 8 for me, which in comparison to lots of women is nothing. Keep testing and I have my fingers and toes crossed you’ll be joining us. You’ve done it twice before and have the same partner, which for us 2 was a fear as we both have a new one.

@Springflower3 I think I got my peak on Thursday and ovulated (I’m guessing on the Friday) that would make me 11DPO? But like you said them lines are quite dark so maybe I ovulated earlier?
He is made up to not have to ring for them! Xx

Skl2021 · 13/07/2021 17:35

@Nats7504 yes ino I'm just impatient 🤦🙈 it will happen when it's time. First step catch the elusive ovulation 🤣 why won't my test play ball and just darken already sick of looking at them day after day 🙄🤦 xx

Nats7504 · 14/07/2021 09:40

Morning ladies. Happy hump day. This week is going pretty quickly which is a bonus.

My youngest has gone on a school residential for 2 nights. He’s excited and I’m a crying mess 🤣 xx

Skl2021 · 14/07/2021 09:54

@Nats7504 morning you seem very chirpy today 🙊 aww I'm not looking forward to them days or when my eldest goes out on his own 🙈 haha have the hormones started early 😉 I'm off to work soon so will be pissing on sticks when I get back 🙄🤦 xx

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