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Trying for baby number 3

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HeatherSmithxoxo · 27/04/2021 10:52

Hi mummies

I'm in month two now of ttc my baby number 3, I know it's not been long but I'm nearly 30 and I'm worried that i won't be able to get pregnant again ☹️ did anyone else feel like this? I went through the whole tww last month and this month I'm trying to be a bit more casual about it as I STRESSED last month ridiculously. I hated trying to track ovulation and dpo it was alstreful absolutely expensive with pregnancy tests I got a bit obbsesed! Any support would be lovely

I'm a housewife who currently has my two children already 7 year old girl and 9 year old boy, I am so desperate now for a baby though it's giving me anxiety the thought of not being able to have another xxx

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Lozzie118 · 08/07/2021 20:29

[quote Skl2021]@Lozzie118 no idea 😂 mine have gone all over the place since I started ttc! And my cycle length changes month to month 🙈 makes things harder and keeps me on my toes 🤦 xx[/quote]
That must be really hard for you hun xx

Springflower3 · 08/07/2021 21:03

@Skl2021 highs and lows? Maybe your body is gearing up for something???? You are so patient!! I would be going absolutely going out of mind!!! Are you testing twice or just once?

@Lozzie118 all of our cycles are up the left tbh! Nothing runs smoothly on this thread 🤣🤣🤣

My AF arrived 3 days early last month and I'm thinking is that gonna happen again? The cramping has stopped now and I'm just feeling normal for a better word 🤣🤣xx

Skl2021 · 08/07/2021 21:31

@Springflower3 yes it doesn't seem to be consistent and it's not getting any darker so don't think it's happening yet. I'm getting used to my body fucking up now 🤣 nothing new!! If I don't laugh I will cry 🤦 I tested twice was it yesterday I can't keep up 🙈 I put a pic on here and one was darkish and one was like blank 🤔🤣 today's wasn't any better. Oh I thought af arrived normal for you but I do remember u saying u had cramps like at 6dpo or something 🙈 so what was your lp then? Xx

Springflower3 · 09/07/2021 11:07

Morning ladies! It’s Friday!!

@Skl2021 my lp was either 11 days or 12 days depending on when I ovulated! So dear knows!
I think at this stage last month I had sore boobs and bloating which I thought was unusual but came to nothing! This month had cramps yet but today I feel grand! But my symptoms are not consistent every month so no point in trying to symptom spot as I have it all!!!
Your line are causing me anxiety!!! I just want them to play ball for you!! Hopefully it will all be worth it in the end, have you thought about speaking to Gp? I know your were reluctant but is it not better to go sooner? Xx

Skl2021 · 09/07/2021 11:20

@Springflower3 it's fridaaayyy then 💃🎶 ohh your lp was still alright then! Yes my symptoms change aswell don't think I even had any with my pregnancies not that I can remember 🤣🙈 think that's why I was shocked as I had no symptoms and thought I was out 🙊 haha tell me about it give me anxiety aswell don't know if I'm coming or going and CBA starting the shaggathon if it's not time 🤣🙄 can't see any point in going to gp yet won't do anything until 12 months anyway xx

Lozzie118 · 09/07/2021 11:25

Well I got a high on cbfm this morning and a positive on internet cheapie and I thought I was already 2dpo x confused.com CD15 of a 26-28 day cycle x

Nats7504 · 09/07/2021 11:51

Morning ladies! It’s Friyay and it’s actually Friday and not Thursday 🙈

How are we all?

@Skl2021 FFS, your body needs to start being kinder to you and your bank balance! Have you tested today? Didn’t you buy tablets that help bring ovulation forward?

@Springflower3 When are you due AF? I’m due 15th July if it’s a 28 day cycle but last month it was only 27 so she’ll come when she’s ready to party I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️ No symptoms and have zero faith it’s going to happen this month.

@Lozzie118 Welcome lovely! Looks like your body is doing what all of ours does. Fucks you over! Best get back on that D for round 2 to cover yourself! Xx

Skl2021 · 09/07/2021 13:51

@lozzie118 yey finally! Best go jump on oh 🤣🙈
@Nats7504 hii how's the head today 🙊 yes I tested today and it's pointless hardly a line 🙄 don't think IV ever had tests so light 🤔 it's weird. No don't think they bring ovulation forward I think they make you lp longer. Probably don't work anyway 😂🙈🤦 xx

Nats7504 · 09/07/2021 19:11

@Skl2021 It was fine to be fair, I paced myself and was in bed by 12. Woke up fresh as a daisy this morning! Bonus after a whole day of drinking.

Don’t lose hope. It might just be later on in the cycle again. Ahh ok, I’m sure there’s some pill you can take to bring ovulation forward? Xx

Skl2021 · 09/07/2021 20:54

@Nats7504 ohhh look at you being sensible 😜 glad u had a good time! Yes I think there is tablets to help I just don't want to mess it up even more. But I might have to try it if it isn't happening any time soon 🤦 I think half of Me is just wanting to wait and let it happen naturally and kind of ignore that something could be wrong so I don't start fretting even more and stressing myself out. It's bad enough ATM with my cycles being all over xx

Nats7504 · 10/07/2021 10:16

@Skl2021 I had to be at work in the morning so no choice 🙈
Yeah it get that, maybe give yourself a few more months to see if your body naturally sorts it out. I don’t think anything is wrong as your cycles, although long are reflective of your late ovulation. What day are you now? Xx

Springflower3 · 10/07/2021 16:56

Hey @Skl2021 any progress with the lines yet??? How was work this morning?

@Nats7504 have you tested yet? Or any symptoms?? Xx

Skl2021 · 10/07/2021 18:35

Hey ladies happy Saturday 💃
@Nats7504 well I'm just thinking it took a year with my first so until I get to that point then I will worry 🤦😂 yes it's cos my ovulation is late my cycles are long 🙈 I'm cd 18 today my app has Me at 1 dpo 😂🤦
@Springflower3 work was boring and hot. Knocks me sick 🤦 haven't long been home thinking what takeaway to have for tea 😂😋 yes I took a test today it's darker IL attach the pick 🙊 don't think I'm anywhere close yet and don't have ewcm xx

Trying for baby number 3
Springflower3 · 10/07/2021 18:57

Oohhh @Skl2021 that's defo looking darker!! Is there w day of difference there? What time were you finished? Will you do much tonight?? Xx

Skl2021 · 10/07/2021 19:01

@Springflower3 about half four then hopped In the bath! Yes bottom one was yesterday ☺️ suppoce I better make an effort and hop on the d at some point 🙊😂 what you been upto today? Not much watch TV eat takeaway. Need to do a online food order and do some party bags. My eldest is having an early birthday party tomorrow before school breaks up xx

Nats7504 · 10/07/2021 19:54

@Skl2021 that line is getting promising. Hop on lady and enjoy the ride 🤣 best get them swimmers sat and waiting for the main attraction! Mines not had it since last weekend so best start listening to my own advice 🙈

@Springflower3 I’ve not got any symptoms but equally not paid attention. I’ve went into full ‘it won’t happen’ mode. I’m due AF Wednesday so we’ll see if she makes her appearance or not. Have you tested yet? Xx

Skl2021 · 10/07/2021 20:02

@Nats7504 haha enjoy the ride 🤣 I don't want it now tho I wanted it last week 🤦 wish it would match up with ovulation 🤣 I am not ready to hop back into the saddle 🙄 haha u enjoy the rest 🙌 I don't know how use arnt testing yet 🤣🤦 xx

Nats7504 · 10/07/2021 20:13

@Skl2021 I don’t want it either. He started touching me up in his sleep the other night so much be frustrated 🙈
I usually get horny around ovulation but my sex drive has defo diminished since TTC. Sad isn’t it. Maybe you should do every other day and then you’re covered. Everyday is hard work!
I don’t want to test cause I hate seeing BFN staring you in the face, I just wait for AF. I haven’t taken one for months xx

Skl2021 · 10/07/2021 20:18

@Nats7504 hahah funny u say that my oh does the same 🤦 it must be a man thing! I usually smash his hand away from me in rage as I'm tired and don't want to be woken 🤣🙊 Then when he wakes up he looks at me like why u attacking me 🤣🙈 haha I might not even do every other day 🤔👀🙄 might just be when I can be arsed! Yes I'm too impatient to wait until af 🙈 surely we have a bfp coming for one of us sometime soon 🤞🙌 how much longer do we need to wait 🤦 xx

Lozzie118 · 10/07/2021 20:25

Well I got my positive yesterday so think I'm gonna be 1dpo tomorrow gonna need help through the 2ww ladies xx

Nats7504 · 10/07/2021 20:41

@Skl2021 I whacked him too and told him to fuck off 🤣 he had no memory of it this morning when I told him I wasn’t an all you can eat buffet 🙈
My doctor told me to DTD 2-3 times a week so do what floats your boat. What’s meant to be will be. People don’t need to bonk excessively to get BFP.
I don’t do it cause I find it hard. But to be fair I tend to spot a day or 2 before so I know it’s coming xx

Nats7504 · 10/07/2021 20:42

@Lozzie118 welcome to the 2WW 🙌 xx

Skl2021 · 10/07/2021 21:22

@Nats7504 funny that my oh has no recollection either 🙄😂 all you can eat buffet that's hilarious 🤣 yes I think that enough isn't it but my mind's starts thinking IL miss something and I need to do it everyday 🤦😂 What u doing tonight? Do we have some drinks on the go 🥂 I'm struggling to stay awake got so much to do and I CBA 🤦
@lozzie118 good luck with the tww 🤞🤞 xx

Nats7504 · 10/07/2021 22:05

@Skl2021 Funny that. I think they bullshit or have selective memory. I mean for them, it’s worth a shot when we only put out during FW 🙈
I do the same, we DTD 6 days on the bounce and I hated it. Too much and it made me sore (tmi, sorry 🙈)
Not much on this weekend to be fair, I have the boys. We did the chores today so tomorrow will be a chilled one. We’re catching up on a weeks worth of love island with a bottle of wine.
What do you need to do at 10pm?! Xx

Skl2021 · 10/07/2021 22:13

@Nats7504 I call bullshit 🤣🙌 yes u said last time u needed to put your vagina on ice 🙊👀 omg love island!! Haha I watch it too can't wait for it to get a bit more juicy 😂 when all there heads get turned 👀 feel so sorry for Hugo tho 😩 IV got party bags to make and a house to tidy xx