. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

@ELM7
Yea I read it went up to 150mg instead of 75mg I have my app with the rmc next Wed its going in rightly can't wait to it period is well on its way nw god my stomach is sore today lol wish she would hurry up and get on with it 💚

Thanks everyone ❤

@ELM7 that's a good idea I might talk to my consultant about that. I have asked one of the fertility nurses to give me a call and then we can discuss it and see what they say!

@babyghirl best of luck for your appointment!

The crazy thing is if I hadnt have tested early I wouldnt have known as I am only a day or two late (not sure as wasnt tracking completley) so in a way I am glad I did know so can use this knowledge to help next time 🙏🏻🙏🏻

@Annny27
That's why I don't test to I'm late as I would be none the wiser if it was a cp cause its still a loss no matter how early it is and still devastating for you so take care of yourself and rest and hopefully you get some sort of plan of action put in to place 💚

Just had my telephone app with Gp. We have been referred to the fertility unit at our local hospital. She said she didn’t know waiting list times at the moment due to the delay in covid. Does anyone know if there’s a way of checking online? X

@27donfin the waiting lists to be seen arent usually too long but lusts for treatment are longer e.g. my laproscopy is 6 months but my initial appointment was like 2 weeks wait.

@babyghirl yeah its heartbreaking especially after so long! Well atleast I know the tubes still work and the sperm can meet the egg 🙌🏻 let's hope for a better outcome next time

Hi ladies hope all is well... I had my app today and it went really well I am in shock!!! This lovely consultant is taking me under her wing and will be helping me.. she is referring me for the hycosy but did say if I can go private do it which I am going to be... she will be doing a few follow ups with me once we get those results... when I do get pregnant again she will be the only one I will be seeing no one else... she said I was an amazing advocate for myself as I could project my feelings so well and as I told her my other half calls it moaning 🙈🤣 she believes I am very fertile and that we just need to get investigating!!! Finally someone who took the time to listen to me!!! I feel like a huge weight lifted off my shoulders and more positive about my future.. oh the reasons they didn't want to remove was because they have done it before to other ladies and found no ectopic in the tube so didn't want this to happen to me as they naturally resolve xx

So sorry @Annny27 just gutting for you 💔✨

@27DONFIN
I just phone the waiting list office and they could tell me how long I would be waiting ect to be seen hopefully not to long, if your hospital has a switch board for the hospital just ask them to put you through to the waiting list office 💚
@Annny27
That's one good thing you knw the sperm meets the egg just have to get us to carry nw hopefully soon for all us ladies xx

@Sweetbabydust1989 so glad your appointment went well. It’s amazing how a doctor listening to you can make you feel so much better. Xx

@Babyghirl thanks I might just do that. Iv got the fear for some reason tho 🙈 Iv seen online my hospital has a number for a department called referrals management services appointments I’m
Guessing they’re my best bet. X

@27DONFIN
Yea give them a ring and if its nt them they will guide u to where u need to go, don't be afraid sometimes when you know how long your going to be waiting you start to relax cause u know things r moving in the right direction believe it or not when I was referred and I knew that things where moving along I fell pregnant lol did not work out thou lol but being referred was like a weight of my shoulders xx

Well the witch has arrived lol she a couple of hours early 😂😂😂😂😂😂 but all in all means if there is a problem to be fixed at my app nxt wed I will know about it before falling pregnant again as I will be in fertile window then 💚

@Annny27 I’m so sorry, I really hope it’s still just spotting. Did you and your oh DTD the night before? I’m sending virtual hugs 💕

@Sweetbabydust1989 so glad you were listened to and things will finally start moving forward for you!

Sorry @Annny27
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It is positive that you conceived but i agree aspirin might help..

Honestly ladies iam gobsmacked I thought it would be a fob off the consultant really felt my pain and said she will be my port of call even though she doesn't deal with fertility she will on this occasion especially with what I have been though she didn't want to remove my tube incase there was nothing in it as my ectopics have been extremely small... I am so scared to do the hycosy test incase I get more bad news xx

@sweetbabydust1989
It will just be a block somewhere in your tube and getting that done can clear them better to knw why it keeps happening rather than nt knowing and it happening again have you got a date for it my period started today so I'm have a homely home made cottage pie and roasties with batton carrot and broccoli and peas for dinner and an early nite with my soaps xx

Thanks everyone! I have started bleeding more period like too so that's me out for sure! Had a good long cry, reassured myself that people have 2 miscarriages and still go on to have healthy babies ❤🌈

@babyghirl what soaps do you watch? (I am partial to eastenders haha)

@Babyghirl my favourite dinner in the whole world I love cottage pie I am a pig and will eat loads of it 🙈🤣🤣 I will definitely be having it done I found somewhere that does a fertility MOT they do scans and bloods aswell as the hycosy I also get a consultation with a fertility doctor I think it will be well worth the money... I have so much motivation now my consultant said my ectopics are tiny so she thinks there is a little blockage and that the hycosy could clean it out kinda like a jet wash but I am not running before I can walk I am taking this all with a pinch of salt I am definitely scared my left isn't working but for all I no it is and my right one is just a bit quicker xx

@Babyghirl no date yet as soon as I come on they told me to call them and book the app in private done really have any waiting lists I suppose you get what you pay for I am dipping into my savings for it and my mum is helping too xx

@Annny27
For home and away to neighbours to hollyoaks emmerdale coronation Street eastenders casualty holby I love all my soaps oh nt as much thou 😂😂😂😂😂😂 has the bleeding and pain picked up 💚
@sweetbabydust1989
That's good to get all that done and I have read of people falling pregnant after getting it done cause it flushes everything out can't wait to my dinner lol love homely dinners like that they r the best xxx

@Annny27
Just reread what u wrote so sorry to hear it has picked up and yes that's whey they don't refare u to after 3 cause two is more common than u think 💚

The older I get the more I like the soaps again haha! @babyghirl
Thanks lovely! I am hopeful, sad, bit of everything haha

@sweetbabydust1989 best of luck for the hycosy! I will be having one when I get my laproscopy

Oh @Annny27 I'm so sorry this wasn't your rainbow 😢💔. Massive hugs, and fair play for trying to stay positive. You are right plenty have 2 and all works out, me included. Cry all you need though. Xx

Thank you lovely ❤ @leok83 I did think of you because I remember you also have a chemical as well :( so cruel!

Fingers crossed it happens again for me soon and again thank you so much for the support - I was showing my husband all the messages from the old timers of the thread and he thought it was so sweet ❤