. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

Evening ladies! @Annny27 I'm so sorry :( how disappointing- finger crossed you still get your Ivf treatment and it doesn't push it back. I'm so gutted for you and you gave us all hope! @Sweetbabydust1989 I'm glad the appointment was so positive and that you are feeling more positive about it all and having the tests etc. @Babyghirl ahhh booo to af! Sorry she got you early as well, damn her! 3 day of af here but hasn't really properly kicked off yet which is frustrating it's just spotting coming and going. I wish it would just get on with it so we can work out when ov may be this month - my parents are coming to stay for the first time on over a year just when ovulation week is due to happen - not conducive to romance 😣😣 !!

I am so sorry Annny27. I really hope this doesn’t sway you getting your IVF appointment.

That is so great that your appointment went so well Sweetbabydust1989. I hope you feel a bit more reassured under the wing of such a kind consultant.

@Annny27 the support is so lovely to have and especially from all those who understand what you are going through. I think my husband originally thought I was mad talking to strangers on a forum but he then saw how much it helped me and the level of support I got from it and now he gets it and even joined a Dads one himself😄You were the backbone of the entire group and have always kept everyone so positive and you deserve so much to come out the other side of this now. xx

Oh @Annny27 I'm so sorry 😔. I really wasn't expecting to read this news. I honestly think you're incredible for always being so positive, but make sure you let out the frustration and cry all you want! It's definitely a good sign like you said that the sperm can meet the egg so fingers crossed it happens again for you soon. Thinking of you lovely and sending you loads of love and hugs 💜💜💜 xxxxxxx

@kiwi17
Might be the month it will happen cause u will be thinking can your parents hear you will forget what ur doing it for 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm on CD 28 today nt early for days just early for the day I norm take it around 7/8 at night lol 💚

Morning :) I am quite surprise that my period isnt a lot more painful, thankful obviously but literally had 0 pain!

@kiwi17 haha yep that's going to be a quick after bedtime session with 0 noise and limited movement 😂

Thank you @miscarriage39 ❤

@leok83 awh that's so nice he has joined a dads forum! Yeah these groups are amazing, my husband will always say now "have you told your friends on your group" after everything that happens hah

@milscookie thank you lovely! Yes I have definitely had a very long cry and now am ready for the month ahead! It will be worth it in the end 🌈🌈

Oh @Annny27 I’m so so sorry lovey. That’s just so unfair.

Your positivity is incredible! That rainbow is around the corner 🌈 xx

Thinking of you today @Annny27
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Thank you both ❤ @terribleimagination @sunnysideup2020 there are good days and bad days but got to still have hope 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Btw didnt track ovulation last month (apart from obviously cm) and it was so much better as meant we just had sex as and when (ended up only being twice on cd12 and cd14 haha. Whereas before I would have been obsessing over the lh strips seeing when it went from peak to high to indicate EXACTLY when I ovulated so I could have sex at the absolute optimum time.

No room for that stress anymore haha

@Annny27
Bin them all relax don't stress I believe it really does help and makes things happen just dtd when u fancy it and you enjoy it more 💚

@Annny27 your positivity is truest inspiring, what an amazing woman you are. I truly hope your rainbow is just around the corner 🤞🏻💕

@lozza2206
How r you keeping 💚

@Babyghirl I'm doing so well thank you! Hope you're ok. Had my second scan today and big 8 week baby has appeared with a heartbeat 💓

@Annny27 sorry I haven't been keeping up with everything going on as I've been trying to stay off my phone... I'm so sorry you're going through this. Sending lots of love. I saw a comment you wrote a few messages back and just an example I had 2 miscarriages and now for the first time have seen a healthy bubba with a heartbeat 🌈💓 there's hope for everyone and you will get your baby xoxox

@lozza2206
Omg I'm over the moon for you 😍😍😍😍 Baby rainbow on the way 8 weeks already, I have my app nxt wed for the rmc and hopefully get all my blood results bck they wanted 2 weeks ago I'm excited but nervous sort of want something to be there so it can be fixed lol keep popping on I love hearing how your doing xx

Haha @Annny27 @Babyghirl it's gonna be sooo awkward it's making me cringe just thinking about it! Hope you're holding up ok today @Annny27 and @lozza2206 so glad things are going well!

@kiwi17
Lol on the floor does it 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Morning ladies :)

@lozza2206 that's amazing lovely! Scan looks so cute! And thank you for sharing that you are now having a healthy 3rd pregnancy as that does give me hope ❤❤

@kiwi17 we went on a group holiday in march 2020 (just before lockdown) and our bedroom was right next to the main lounge area and it was ovulation time so literally if we had sex late night or early morning there was STILL always someone in the kitchen or living room so we were very quiet hahah

@SLCxxx thank you, yes our rainbows are waiting, some just take longer than others haha!

@babyghirl yep I cant be arsed with them after 2 years now ahha!

Also just wanted to say whilst I am positive, I also cry alot haha 😂 So dont think that just because you get sad doesnt mean that you arent positive or strong, it's a tough old journey. I get pangs of "I would have a one year old this month" and other stomach punch emotions! Especially when my cousin says "oh you can have my kids" or "wait till you have kids then you will know tiredness"......I have been "waiting" long enough 😂😂😂😂

@Annny27
When people say things like that to me I say well I would love to be knee high in shitty nappies and bags under my eyes with boke all over my top so count urself lucky they soon look the other way 😂😂😂😂😂😂, do you knw when your been sent for any tests yet 💚

@Annny27 fully with you - the last couple of weeks I haven't been able to get out of my head about how I should have one year old twins. It’s really hard.

But we keep picking ourselves up and dusting ourselves down in the hope of getting our rainbows 🌈

@Annny27
@ELM7
I'm with yous on that I say to myself I should have a 3 year old a 2 year old a baby due in 2 weeks or 4 months pregnant but as yous say we got to dust rselfs off and keep trying 💚 x

Sorry a 2 year old a 1 year old lol z

It seems silly to contemplate about it all the time but it's so tricky! I find it when I see babies the same age as mine would have been and it's like awwwh ❤ that could have been me pushing a little one around Asda's @babyghirl @elm7

Having an early night tonight, the bleeding has settled a bit now it wasnt really much more than a regular period
But cant remember if I said this already but 0 pain atall which is very unusual for me haha!

@Annny27
It will be one day I knw it will well my period more or less gone just brown staining but nt loads of it cd4 for me app soon so can't wait to it. 💚