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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

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Annny27 · 25/04/2021 18:54

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

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Babyghirl · 08/05/2021 14:25

@kiwi17
As chilled as it will get for me I'm norm on the go from I get up to I go to bed lol but I have nt moved out of bed today well just to make tea 😂😂😂😂😂 just a day I need to myself and chill nt offen I take days like this so enjoying it glad you cheered urself up and feeling better 💚

kiwi17 · 08/05/2021 17:04

@Babyghirl definitely sounds ideal to me! I've had a call this morning saying I can have my first covid vaccine so I'm going over now - at least one exciting thing came out of today! 😂

Babyghirl · 08/05/2021 17:09

@kiwi17
If ur right handed get it in ur left lol 💚

justwant2beamum · 08/05/2021 17:13

Ah sorry @kiwi17. Kfc and Poundland sounds good though! Also raining and miserable here!

kiwi17 · 08/05/2021 17:53

Just did @Babyghirl! Just in case my arm goes dead and I can't drive home 😂

Babyghirl · 08/05/2021 18:07

@kiwi17
Mine was so tender the nxt day woke myself op rolling on it 😂😂😂😂😂😂 even lifting it was a deas weight lol 💚

kiwi17 · 08/05/2021 20:28

Oh no @Babyghirl! So far so good no pain yet 😆

SunnySideUp2020 · 09/05/2021 07:26

Omgggggg how have i missed this!!! @Annny27

This is the best news to find out checking on you ladies 😍😍😍😍
Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Have you tested again? How are you feeling?
Hope this is your rainbow lovely 🌈

Sorry haven't catched up properly for a while. The newborn bubble is lovely but soooo busy !

But honestly seeing your line made my day 😄

SunnySideUp2020 · 09/05/2021 07:44

@Annny27

And as others have said totally normal to not feel the same as when you get that first positive and you naively think this is a baby in 8 months...
Me and DH have felt the same. Second time was about an hour of "woww it's positive we are so excited and all"... to "ok let's chill. We don't know what is going to happen let's not get too excited for now"
And so we literally almost pretended it wasn't there just being anxious like crazy inside. Only after 12w scan and then 20w scan did we properly relax and thought ok this is our rainbow we are having a baby.
But unfortunately the anxiety stays until baby is out and healthy and then a different type of worrying kicks in... maybe until they are 18?!🥲

Pregnancy after loss is a long exhausting journey with constant mixed feelings but now i can say worth every second and i really have everything crossed that this is your turn to experience it and finally have your baby. 💗 🤞

Annny27 · 09/05/2021 08:19

Morning ladies :)

@fizzl @scrumdiddly123 @sunnysideup2020 thank you so much ❤

@sunnysideup2020 I will test again on Tuesday when periods officially a day late because I was obsessing over the line progression on the internet cheapie and panicking that it was lighter (DH said it was the same) so I wanted to wait a few days and then know for sure! Gone are the days where i tested once and then started picking out names 😂😂

Hope Amelia is doing well and that you're settling into motherhood :)

@fizzl cant believe you are almost at the end of your pregnancy! Sending positive thoughts for the final stretch!

@kiwi17 @babyghirl I am wondering now whether to get the vaccine, if all goes well I will get it after 12 weeks I think!

@justwant2beamum that's good you gave it a go anyway :D my peak sometimes happens up to 2 days before ovulation! It varies each month for me so let's hope it was a long surge:)

@27donfin awwh I hate when AF arrives and it usually makes me super depressed for a day or two so totally understand ❤

@danisaui31 I am with you for reducing social media time - its so addictive haha!

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Annny27 · 09/05/2021 08:20

Oh p.s symptoms wise so far it's just been slightly heavy boobs, increased cm, feeling hot and the best one so far......insomnia 🥴🥴🥴

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Babyghirl · 09/05/2021 08:38

@Annny27
Rock that tiredness and sore boobs and anything the little bean throws at u all will be fine 💚
@kiwi17
How's the 💪💪 😂😂😂😂😂

SLCxxx · 09/05/2021 09:28

Ladies, I have now had 3 days of peak!! I used 3 different machines and easy@home strips too and I definitely have very clear dark positives 3 days in a row, wtf. My poor hubby just wants to sleep and I’ve basically been walking around with a plunger inside for the past few days 🤣

@kiwi17 I’m sorry AF came, hopefully she will be your last one 🤞🏻I’ve now had both Covid jabs and like @Babyghirl I also had a sore arm that would wake me up at night, that was about all the symptoms I had tbf.

@danisaui31 thanks. Definitely a good idea to reduce social media, it does feel like everywhere you look someone is announcing! But then again I literally help bring babies into the world for a living so for me there is bumps and babies everywhere 🤦🏼‍♀️

@justwant2beamum soo glad you made it there, good luck and have fun 😉😉

@Sweetbabydust1989 thinking of you, hope your okay 💕

Babyghirl · 09/05/2021 10:05

@slcxxx
That's the only side effects I had off the two jabs I had to tbf but my oh was bad with his first one don't knw if that cause it hit him harder or because he a man tbh but I would go with the second option 😂😂😂😂😂😂

ELM7 · 09/05/2021 10:38

Morning Ladies

Well this last cycle has been the strangest I’ve had. So looks like I did ovulate super early when I had pains on CD7 cos AF has arrived today. So that was a 19 day cycle instead of the usual 27?! Oh well so the next cycle begins.

27DONFIN · 09/05/2021 10:39

Thanks everyone been a shit fews days. Even my partner tho is always very positive on the whole subject was very down yesterday about it. I’m an only child snd he is to his mum ( his dad remarried and had two boys who are a lot younger) I’m hoping tomorrow the go puts my forward for more testing.it was even harder listening to my partner being upset snd down yesterday especially as he’s always said it doesn’t matter as long as we have each other.

Babyghirl · 09/05/2021 11:14

@ELM7
I have had 1 or 2 short cycles like that to after my first loss just brings u quicker to trying again lol 💚
@27DONFIN
It does bring u down I knw we have each other as partners but that want never goes away does it but it will happen for you and all of us I know it will 💚

Babyghirl · 09/05/2021 11:44

@27DONFIN
How long have you been trying including your loss x

27DONFIN · 09/05/2021 12:35

@Babyghirl my coil was removed mid June 2019 fell pregnant that month loss in august. A month or two afterwards we didn’t try then since we have been

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Sweetbabydust1989 · 09/05/2021 16:20

Hey ladies how are you all doing xx

Babyghirl · 09/05/2021 16:44

@27DONFIN
Get on to your gp for a referral for tests 💚
@sweetbabydust1989
How r you holding up xx

kiwi17 · 09/05/2021 17:33

The arm is holding up @Babyghirl 😂😂 tbh despite feeling a bit bruised if I knock it nothing at all I feel fine! Glad it's done and I'm halfway there though. Af wise this is supposed yo be cd2 but not kicked off properly yet... fed up when it's like this I want to just get on with it now! Otherwise I cling onto the tiny minute possibility it might be implantation bleeding which of course it isn't but it just drags on more! @Sweetbabydust1989 how have you been?

Sweetbabydust1989 · 09/05/2021 17:38

I am all good.. levels were 7 on Friday bleeding has gone and I think I am gearing up for my period soon... me and the other half are still trying to decide on what to do wether to try anymore xx

kiwi17 · 09/05/2021 18:23

@Sweetbabydust1989 I'm glad things are resolving for you. How are you feeling about trying again? It's a difficult decision to have are they going to run tests for you because of the 2 ectopics? On another note has anyone tried the smep before? It seems similar to what we were doing anyway but a lot more bd 😂 worth a try though I reckon!