. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

I know @SLCxxx I'm trying to not waste tests but desperately want to test but it's probably not worth it yet! I think I will test Sunday morning as I'm due on Monday and we're having a BBQ with another friend with a newborn on Sunday so if I'm pregnant then at least that'll make it easier! Knowing my luck I probably won't be so it'll probably be awful 😂 but better knowing hey?! Hopefully @Annny27 s luck will rub off on some of us! 🤞

@kiwi17 good thinking.. but if you don’t test until Monday then you can have a few glasses of wine on Sunday guilt free 🤔🤣 good luck when ever you test ☺️ I usually do it on the lining I’m due as I would rather see the negative than wait for spotting and wonder if it’s implantation and drive myself mad

Thanks @SLCxxx hahaha great idea on the wines front 🤣 I mean it's just a matter of time before I cave really...! Haven't had any symptoms really so have no reason to think I am but who knows!

@kiwi17 ah.. but the 2 BFPs I’ve read today have no real symptoms ☺️ So enjoy your next couple of days and deal with Monday when Monday comes, life’s short 🍷💕

Yeah tbh I wish I had left it a few more days but I have the dentist tomorrow so wanted to know so i could tell them! @kiwi17 hold on lovely! Enjoy your bbq

Yeah like @slcxxx says that no symptoms doesnt mean anything!

@justwant2beamum thank you lovely ❤❤

Hello ladies, popped back to say hello on the new thread.
@Annny27 thats how my positive tests started too!
🤞 for you - can't wait to check back for an update again soon, so excited for you. Congratulations ❤

Hope everyone is keeping well xx

@Annny27 - OMG YES!! I’m so excited for you. I really hope this is a sticky rainbow bean for you. xxx

Hello hope you don't mind me joining? I miscarried for the 3rd time last month and still a bit all over the place. Really just hoping to chat to some people who know what it's like and keen to know how people find the strength to keep going or when it's time to call it a day. Just feel life in limbo at the moment xx

Welcome @geyser33 so sorry about your losses :( theres a few on here who have experienced multiple and are now having tests so you will be in good company!

@chali7 thank you lovely! How many weeks are you now?

@ELM7 it doesnt feel real atm! My husband is in disbelief haha because I had no symptoms apart from a little tired. How are you doing?

Oh btw we had sex twice this cycle haha! Once the day before ovulation and once the day after!

@Annny27 I will be thinking of you loads 🤞❤
I am 18 weeks now - still cannot believe it! 🥰

Wow!!! Almost half way @chali7 are you going to find out the the sex at 20 weeks?

@Annny27 Cycle this month has gone really skewed so no idea what’s going on. Cycle is normally bang on with ov around CD14/15 and AF around CD27 this month not sure if I ovulated really early - as got a high (but not peak) on OPK and ov pains around CD7 and nothing since. Currently CD17 so will keep doing OPKs and see if AF arrives in 10ish days. No change to supplements so no idea why this months it’s gone to pot!

@Annny27 - no we are having a surprise! 😱🥰
Hope you're feeling okay! ❤

Oh my god @Annny27!!! I'm as happy to see those two lines as I was to see them when they were my own! Life's gotten so busy so Ive not posted much but I've been checking in few times a week to make sure I didn't miss this moment! I'm delighted for you and I've everything crossed that this is a very smooth sailing pregnancy😊😊xx

Oh my gosh @Annny27 so so pleased for you!!! I also check back regularly to see how you guys are getting on. I really hope this is a sticky bean for you, will keep everything crossed for the next few weeks for you!! Eeeeeeek!!!

Morning:) my frer this morning is only slightly darker but it's only been 14 hours since last once so hopefully by tomorrow its darker again 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@leok83 it's so strange seeing two lines after a year and a half of negative!!! Hope you and baby boy are settling more into motherhood ❤

@whiffle77 thank you lovely, so sweet of you all to check in ❤

@elm7 mmm you might have had a short surge or it could be a laye ovulation! Any ck changes? It's very frustrating when things dont add up in your cycle:(

@chali7 ahh lovely! I have always said I wanted a surprise but I dont know if I actually could wait 😂

@Annny27 that is a great line for 12 DPO- huge congratulations to you. ❤ A couple more days and it'll be even darker x x wishing you a very happy and healthy 12 months x x

SLCxxx sorry you are feeling down too 💕.

🤞 Kiwi17. I really hope this is your month.

I’m sorry to hear of your losses Geyser33. I totally get what you mean about feeling in limbo. Everyone here is really lovely, though, so do jump on whenever you feel you like it. I find it really helps, and it takes away some of the feelings I have around being unable to talk about it all.

chali7, wow, so nearly half way! How are you feeling?

@chali7 thank you ❤

I am sure all you other ladies who have lost and got a bfp feel the same but I just dont feel that same excitment as last time I think you try and protect your heart a little!

Last time I took one test (it was lighter than this) and BAM I was planning my life as a mum haha

@miscarriage39 absolutely it's so nice to have people who have been through similar. I think the ups and downs are better shared

@Annny27 congratulations so happy for you

No luck for us this month woke up to Af this morning. Next month is two years since having my coil removed fell pregnant the next month and nothing since. I’m not feeling hopefully anymore Iv no excitement about any of it anymore

@27donfin so sorry lovely :( next month would also be our 2 year of stopping contraception (well end of may really) and it does feel like such a defining milestone doesnt it :(

Did your doctor agree to tests?

@Miscarriage39 I'm feeling ok thanks. I'm still anxious about everything - because my first miscarriage was a silent one so that still petrifies me even at 18 weeks! My local EPU scanned me almost weekly leading up to 12 weeks because of my previous ectopic, previous mc's and because of a subchronic haematoma so it has been a whirlwind since day dot really 🤣 but I'm hoping the further i go the more relaxed I will be.
Hope you are keeping well xx

@Annny27 anxiety and protecting yourself from excitement is totally normal, I'm still doing that now a little bit! I didn't consider myself as pregnant really until past 12 weeks, even then it still didn't feel real ahah. Try to take it easy, and try to remember, you ARE pregnant. But I don't blame you for protecting yourself too ❤

@Annny27 my appointment is on Monday. It’s just over the phone as that's all my Gp were doing but that might of changed now as I did book it 3-4 weeks ago.