TTC March / April

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Just continuing our thread so we don't get knocked off the old one!

@CycloGoose
@kaylsd
@KatieLooLa
@lucea87
@minthumbugs
@Sallyjo27

@cyclogoose yeah i think u may be right. stopped inositol but then started again few days before progesterone test so maybe thats why cycle got messed up..

Oh well..will have to see and wait.

You are all so clued up on things here -thanks for all of your advice! I think because things went smoothly with my first, I just thought all is ok. Obviously you hear things and know of people, but it's only when you have a MC/problems etc that you start to look more into it and find things out.

Hoping those who are undergoing tests get the answers they need so they can continue their ttc journey.

I just did another opk...haha I know! but only because I'm confussed and just want to know what's going on with my cycle etc
So Saturday I had a very clear positive as shown in pic in previous post...didn't so one yesterday actually. (I'd had positives few days in a row but sats was so clear but also had a positive a few days before then a negative the next day 🤷‍♀️) but I've just done one today assuming it would have gone fainter...but to me looks positive?!It's all so confussing.

[quote CycloGoose]@Iloveoreos that is peculiar! I wonder whether it might have been the inositol that was working before because you were taking that too, weren't you and then stopped because of pain? I'd definitely call to discuss it with them. What is the worst that can happen from calling?

@kaylsd I feel I'm with you on the hokey cokey this time. Loved the sun and love your jazzzzzz sparkle! Hope our dreams come true for you! Only the good ones though! I've seen so many bees this month but no idea what my cycle is doing though I do seem to have got a bit of a rise now! Books sound great. I haven't had a good read in ages. All I do is read about fertility! It's taken over my life! Need to improve this!

@minthumbugs ooooh that looks very exciting! Love that and I'm super hopeful that the yellow is an early pregnancy sign for you. I had a look at mine but it's fairly constant - maybe because I have low (self diagnosed) progesterone!? I need to drink more!

I have such sore boobs today. Do you know what, I think I'd quite like to be a man sometimes. Their world seems so much simpler! That's my latest OvuSense attached xxx[/quote]
Can you push for investigation following your MC and how long you've been trying darling, as my GP has started investigating me but that's because I gave them reason to with the private scan? Fingers and toes crossed you might be a miracle case you just never know! Has your app said you have ovulated now with the rise or have they said no because of slow rise? I'm sure your right with saying it might be progesterone linked with slow rises? I hope you can get some answers soon though sweetheart if you do choose to do it yourself 🤞🏻❤️ I'm copying you there sugar pie with the boobs, my nipples are that sore and hard (TMI) I actually think I could cut glass 🙃🥺 but I'm hoping it's a positive sign for AF 🤞🏻🤞🏻✨ id like to say BFP but I've got not much hope in it as my cycles been that long I'm unsure if I've been lucky with egg hunting 😂🙈

[quote minthumbugs]@kaylsd haha I hope she doesn't bite me in the front bottom 😂 I don't have much going on tbh. At the weekend had some pain around the right ovary area and a little bit of cramping and today (TMI!) kinda yellow almost brown tinged CM so that's what made me think AF is on the way soon. I quite like my fitbit for tracking sleep! And it also helps me remember to get my water intake 🙈 this is what my RHR looks like just now with the big spike in the middle coming after ovulation! Who knows if there's anything to it, but I suppose it's keeping me going having something to look at after stopping BBT and having no OPKs to pee on, haha! X[/quote]
You never know darling yellow CM could be a sign for you! I'm always trying to be hopeful and positive for the sisterhood of the TTC journey ✨🥰👑 I'm wondering if there's a fob watch version I could use for work, be interesting to see what my data is when I'm out and about :) plus I'll be interesting to see interrupted sleep because I'm a tinker sometimes with my strange dreams to wake up at silly o clock 😂🙈 it would be nice one night to have a full sleep without any strange dreams these days!! I'm hoping it's a sign though for AF around corner because I'm sure there's a link towards strange dreams in the cycle :')

@MammaJ21

You are all so clued up on things here -thanks for all of your advice! I think because things went smoothly with my first, I just thought all is ok. Obviously you hear things and know of people, but it's only when you have a MC/problems etc that you start to look more into it and find things out.

Hoping those who are undergoing tests get the answers they need so they can continue their ttc journey.

I just did another opk...haha I know! but only because I'm confussed and just want to know what's going on with my cycle etc
So Saturday I had a very clear positive as shown in pic in previous post...didn't so one yesterday actually. (I'd had positives few days in a row but sats was so clear but also had a positive a few days before then a negative the next day 🤷‍♀️) but I've just done one today assuming it would have gone fainter...but to me looks positive?!It's all so confussing.

Have you had any other symptoms to support potential ovulation? Like BBT / EWCM / cramps? If so get baby dancing sugar!! I'm one for having multiple peaks in a cycle but that's why I don't think the OPK kits really work for me :') but then I'm being the middle of investigated for PCOS, sending baby dust ✨✨

@kaylsd I don't do not, I see lots of you do, but I feel it would just stress me out looking into all that aswell. Had some cramping...but not sure if ov cramps. I don't usually get them but did have them couple of cycles ago randomly. I thought I had some ewcm a few days ago...but probably sounds silly, but it's hard to tell as next time I checked it wasn't, and I feel it's a bit of interpretation?! 🙈🙈🙈
I've never really looked into cm and the changes etc... either but have tried a bit this cycle.

Definitely think I'm out now, CM turning more into browny pink the way it usually does before AF. I normally get sore legs at the beginning of each cycle (typically CD1 - been noting it!) And they've hit with a bang tonight. I'm gutted ☹️

Oh @minthumbugs I so wanted this for you my lovely xxx

@kaylsd the docs have no interest in me to be fair. I think I'd need something else to push it further. I'm with you just wanting AF or BFP but we'll get there someday chick! Maybe both of us in August like predicted 🤣 fingers crossed XXX praying for a graduate this month xxx

Does anyone know why even the first line is soo pale? 😰 these are ovulation stick and looks like ive done it wrong? I've followed the guidelines correctly.

Seeing if anyone can help - this is my first time using ovulation test x

@MammaJ21 hope you get some answers soon. The BD goes on!

Hi @Veronika13 looks still a bit wet in that pic. Might look darker once it dries a bit. Also, when did you last drink something? Could just be your urine quite diluted xxx

I actually used morning urine then read that I shouldn't ! Maybe it's that
Still veeeeeery faint line.
Feeling disheartened and it's only cycle 2! 🙈

@Veronika13

I actually used morning urine then read that I shouldn't ! Maybe it's that Still veeeeeery faint line. Feeling disheartened and it's only cycle 2! 🙈

I always do my OPK testing anything after 12 really and try not to drink too much before hand when I do that :) maybe try a different time of day to test hunny see if they end up being abit darker then?

@minthumbugs

Definitely think I'm out now, CM turning more into browny pink the way it usually does before AF. I normally get sore legs at the beginning of each cycle (typically CD1 - been noting it!) And they've hit with a bang tonight. I'm gutted ☹️

Awww hunny I'm gutted for you if it's AF being a witch as always :( try not to be too disheartened if it is her, consider it a fresh start for a new cycle, sending hugs! Xxx

[quote MammaJ21]@kaylsd I don't do not, I see lots of you do, but I feel it would just stress me out looking into all that aswell. Had some cramping...but not sure if ov cramps. I don't usually get them but did have them couple of cycles ago randomly. I thought I had some ewcm a few days ago...but probably sounds silly, but it's hard to tell as next time I checked it wasn't, and I feel it's a bit of interpretation?! 🙈🙈🙈
I've never really looked into cm and the changes etc... either but have tried a bit this cycle.[/quote]
The cervical position I just check around when I get signs of EWCM as it tends to be soft and high up to touch, and in terms of the EWCM TMI but when it's stretchy between to fingers against each other it's like a egg white consistency 🙈 I find it useful to correspond these signs against cramps because chances are if you have all 3 & temperature dip if you track, ovulation is on the way :)

[quote CycloGoose]@kaylsd the docs have no interest in me to be fair. I think I'd need something else to push it further. I'm with you just wanting AF or BFP but we'll get there someday chick! Maybe both of us in August like predicted 🤣 fingers crossed XXX praying for a graduate this month xxx[/quote]
Awww chick least your joining me in the sisterhood of dodgey cycle and up and down charts 😂😂 your not alone with this en sweet I've got your back 🤜

you know like I was saying I have strange dreams I woke up like this morning 😂😂😂🥺 Kayles strange dream chapter 404: I was in China on a game show and I was in a swimsuit for this competition but I had a hairy back (😂😂😂 wth?!) and some girls laughed at me saying why is your back so hairy, I goes it's cause of my PCOS (just to clarify I don't have a hairy back in real life 😂😂😂) and then I had what i thought was dandruff in my hair but really it was cornfalkes?? 👀 so I was pulling them out of my hair

I'm not strange I promise 😂😂 today's chart has gone up again today at 37.0 I haven't the foggiest what's going off but I'm here for the long run ride 🙃

And what do you know I'm back to CD1 again. Some positivity will come back I'm sure but it's hit me hard today Xx

@minthumbugs I’m so sorry to hear that, some months it hits really hard. At least it’s a new chance to start again, but I realise that is little consolation right now!
Sending virtual hugs

@minthumbugs take some time, have a cry if needed then read @kaylsd 's dream diary again for a few giggles! I'm definitely with you though. I'd just like some answers already. It's hard to keep positive with this because it's so protracted and there's so little we can do - no control. But I'm hoping as things open up and the sun comes out that it becomes easier to think about all this less!

Kayls I love your dream stories. You're always so good cheering us up. I really hope that the 37 degrees is a good sign!

My OvuSense is saying I ovulated on CD20 now which doesn't match any of my other signs with the opk or cm or cervix position. All of those suggested earlier, more like CD17 but we shall see. I still don't know if I definitely ovulated really.

Assuming I'll have AF by the weekend!

@minthumbugs

And what do you know I'm back to CD1 again. Some positivity will come back I'm sure but it's hit me hard today Xx

I'm sending you the biggest hugs, I know it sucks and I know each month that passes it sucks that little bit more, it's okay if you need abit of self care and abit of time out (always the best time to do this when the witch arrives) take some time out off here if needs must & other triggers like social media and count your blessings to try and give you a positive mindset the best you can, we will be here for you soon as your ready to tackle your next cycle! But don't be too hard on yourself, it's not okay to be okay sometimes, we are hard, TTC is a hard battle it's not as simple as looking at our loved ones and then a stalk comes with our baby (if only huh?) but just know your not alone :) 😘

@CycloGoose I'm tempted to start a dream journal because boyo don't I get some strange ones 🤣🤣🤣 how's things over at your end today darling hope everything's well, how's your friend getting along @lucea87 have you heard much about her little bundles that are growing🥺🥰

I've decided to try and look for a new career path as I feel like I've hit my optimum of learning as a DN, thinking of heading back to my home from home the wards specialising in oncology me thinks, thinking of a new career path to keep my mind occupied that little bit more from TTC 🥰✨ feeing positive for this year ahead as I've got a soft spot for cancer backgrounds / palliative care, loving the quotes tonight I'm a sucker for them because it makes some days brighter for those who may need it from time to time and can fill us with a little bit of happiness or reflection on things in our life 🥺✨

@kaylsd you should! You might end up having a new career path as a writer one day!
Things okay here. No idea if I'm 4dpo, 8dpo no o but hey ho. We gotta keep on keeping on. I've got dreams of moving to the countryside and living a simpler life but I need to be a bit more focussed on the here and now really and also my work! Slipping behind on that front.
Sounds like a really lovely plan - I can imagine you being wonderful in palliative care though. You're so positive and I think you need that to work in oncology.
Have you been speaking to the teams to get a move sorted?
@lucea87 seems to be doing really well though really struggling with sleep and feeling sick! She had a really thorough midwife appointment and it won't be long until her 12 week scan. I think she's being cautious etc until it's a bit later. She's high risk with twins so will be closely monitored xxx

Hey @kaylsd 👋🏻 got a little notification saying I'd been mentioned!!! How are you doing?

I'm trying to keep an eye on here, I'm keeping my eye out for BFP's!!

@CycloGoose summarises it well! I'm 8 weeks tomorrow and my scan is 17th May but we've booked another private scan on Saturday as we're going into Nottingham so thought why not and just wanted to check on progress! I'm consultant led care with it being twins so will be seen and scanned every 4 weeks. My booking appointment was 2 hours long....! Also on asprin from 12 weeks to reduce risk of preeclampsia. I have been feeling SO sick 😂 and yeah I'm really not sleeping but that's partly doggo related...!! Just want to get to 12 weeks now to know all ok and for that risk to drop a bit more. My little bump has started to pop this week...gonna be huge by the time these 2 are ready to come out....!!! Feeling blessed and grateful every single day even though I was nearly sick in the fridge today! I'll keep you guys posted ❤️❤️ thanks so much for thinking of me, I'm thinking of you all too and wishing you all the baby luck in the world!xxx

Thank you @Kitty0389 you're right sometimes it just gets you! Picking myself up thank you for the virtual hugs 🥰 how are you getting on? X

@CycloGoose I had a big ugly cry while I was working, perks of WFH I suppose 🤷‍♀️ it is hard to keep going when you have no clue what's going on with your body. Had a 9 day luteal phase again so I am a bit worried. Hoping it was just because the remaining tube just didn't collect the egg this time around and nothing more! 🤞🏻 I'll keep my fingers crossed for you that it's not AF, but at least it's getting to that point that you'll know for definite what's going on! X

Thank you @kaylsd, had a lovely bubble bath with a face mask. Normally would have a big wine or something like that but it's been a double whammy today, I have the worst cramps and I've not been feeling well 😭 your dream journal cracks me up, please keep it going 😂 it will keep us laughing! And I love the quotes too they're so relevant and keep me going ❤️ wow new career big decisions that's amazing! What branch of nursing is it you're in at the moment again, is it something to do with maternity? How easy will it be for you to change path? That's really exciting for you, will give you a great focus to keep you distracted!

Hi @lucea87 thanks for popping in, glad you are doing well! I think we are all happy to see you as you are one of our success stories, doubly so 😂 the symptoms are sucky, with my LO beforehand I thought 'i will NEVER complain about any negative symptoms, I'll just be so lucky to be pregnant again!!!' after having an ectopic but oh boy was I wrong lol, you are well within your rights to complain. Awww a wee bump already 🥰 let us know how your scan goes!

Well I think I've had my moan and my cry today, no more negative Nancy I promise 😂 on CD1 you are allowed right?! With long cycles it's disappointing because I'll be 3 and a half weeks before ovulation so I'm just thinking about how far away that is and how knackered I'll be trying to keep up 😴 however I think I've found the positive, ovulation will (all things going well) coincide with our anniversary! And also (all things going verrryyyy well, my big project at work I started this week will be over that weekend! Hopefully earlier so I can commit to fertile week haha 🤞🏻). And it doesn't always work like this but this month I ovulated on my tubeless side so the ovary with a pal could be the one this month! I hope so anyway. Ok so here we go, into the next month! I am reclaiming positive vibes for the new cycle🤰✨