Egg hunters vs the virgin wife - find the BFP - TTC bus 36

[Minster2012]

Ok so we need to get back to us ladies, back to fun games, POAS & getting fit, but you need to help me Cos Minster is flagging with a fuck boy body worse than the rest 🥺

Guess what...it’s nearly Easter & know what that means! 🐰🐣...We don’t want the 🐰to have the fun but bloody hell sometimes it’s a f*cling egg hunt all right 🙈🤣.

March and April we’ve got a lot of exciting times ahead with people going for Clomid & IVF as well as a lot of straight up sex for the “normal” TTC gang so let’s get shagging & FIND THOSE 🐣🌈.

We are still working on our spring challenges alongside trying to get pregnant and we’ve had great results so far- feel free to have a catch up on those and add your own.

And we are still helping each other get fitter, more positive through sharing small changes we are making in our lives and trying to inspire & support each other with these too...as well as of course being there for each other during the sad times.

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

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Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs
7 BFPs for jan
8 BFPs for February

One for March

Let’s go go go!

Aww congratulations @Hopeful110 🎉

So had my planning appointment...I'm on Buserelin injections for about 2 weeks starting on the 31st March. Then I start stims for about 2 weeks so looking at EC end of April and ET beginning of May. Baseline scan is booked on my birthday and ET could fall on OH birthday. I asked again if I'm a higher risk to OHSS but she doesn't think so (and I bloody hope not as it turned out after I've been prescribed two trigger injections 😨) My OH was useless on the call, he kept getting light headed when she was waving the injections about, showing me how to draw then 😂

🤞🏻 @Hopeful110 10dpo only going to show a faint line and think I can see something there!

Tomato pills hubby was given by clinic are future you...he also had antibiotics for a infection that was picked up by doing a sperm culture, and his follow up one showed this being resolved and significant improvement on morphology.

Omg @hopeful110 I see it too!!! 😲😃🎉 Figners crossed for progression with fmu tomorrow 🤞🏻 congratulations doll 💕

Oh and EVERYONE deserves their BFP including you @hopeful110 so stop those silly thoughts about others deserving it more 😊

I'm wihh @sausage1990 everyone deserves their bfps! ❤️👏

@Thinkingandblinking @crazydoglady123 @Sausage1990 thankyou so much lovelies 🥰

@sausage1990 yeah I hope there's progression with fmu, otherwise it'll be hard to believe it's actually a line lol and I'll try be positive, I know so many of you are still desperate for your own bfps and I feel a little guilty that I hopefully have mine, but I hope and pray you all get yours really soon! To be fair i can't remember who said it before about telling yourself you will get pregnant this month and believing it and I did actually say it to myself this month so maybe we all need to say it to ourselves hehe xx

@hopeful110 no need to feel guilty at all. This is excellent news! We all deserve our BFPs and in time we all will... 💕💐👍🏻🌈✨

@HappyMrsR so sorry you have had such a rough time, I hope your well on the mend now.

@Hopeful110 I can see it to.

@Thinkingandblinking ooh I did think that's what you meant antibiotics wise. I latched on to that as I think OH's last SA showed an infection but they didn't do anything about it.

@notyetamumbuttrying I'm good thanks! I've just finished painting the windows and doors after starting them twelfty million years ago 🤪🤣😂never again 🙄

@Vil10 the clinic said to me yesterday about using condoms from now on I got some. You girls recommended skyns yeah? We don't worry about extra large in yorkshire 🤣

@Katao what was painful??? So you are also in the mix now that's great come on testing 🙌🏻

@Dollybird89 I mean seriously that's not fun, sorry lovely. In the mean time how's the foot & hows the loss of inches?? Any updates? Any less dress sizes??

@Hopeful110 THERES A LINE! come on line. Come on line 🤞🏻so we need more stickiness for you 3 then 🤞🏻🤗@HappyMrsR @Hopeful110 @Thinkingandblinking yesssssss 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻and OH taking the same pills as us! That gives me hope!! I put the link a page ago if anyone is interested, they are organic /vegan and lots written about their patented formula that's why I like them. We will all get on the mantra!

@Kirky658 I was wondering in case it was a very (weird) perceptive fella saying "nice bump!" 🤣🤔

@Crazydoglady123 a lot of ppl have 2 triggers, but then again not if they are at risk, eeeeek that's awesome bring it onnnnn!!!! 🎉🤗

@notyetamumbuttrying noooo, can you imagine?
@Minster2012 I wish I could.... work is so quiet it feels a waste of time
@HappyMrsR see, that's why you cannot leave us, well look after you
@Vil10 men and their little egos🙄

@Minster2012 lol 😂 good achievement then! Clap for you 👏🏾

I'm so excited for a day off tomorrow! Booked it as it's my bday but can't exactly do much 😂 I have packages ready to open though so that'll be nice ☺️

@Franklydear haha 😆 no! Thought I'd check tho just to see 😜

@Hopeful110 that's great! Will be watching in the morning, love to come to good news after work

@minster2012 lol that would be very perceptive 🤣 I think DH has only just noticed my belly haha.

Well I've just had a lovely 30 mins nap on work time. Am I bothered 😂

Gah looks like our flat is unmortgageable because 6 balconies have wooden decking lol. Frustrating does not even begin to describe it! Come May our mortgage deal ends and we'll be in the red every month until the property managers feel like actioning it... bugger

Thanx everyone.
@Juno231 no I'm not testing anymore I took 3 just to make sure.
@larrythelizard yeah I've been diagnosed with functional neurological disorder. I'm glad yours came straight back n hopefully it was just a one off coz I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

Well after SIL announcing her 'happy accident' the very next day one of my best friends announced hers! At least my friend sent me a private txt after announcing it on the group chat just to check I was OK which I thought was lovely of her.
So I bought myself an adult juice pick n mix as I've barely drank at all for the past 2 months while trying to be healthier but I think I deserve it this weekend!

All the embarrassing stories have fair cheered me up 🤣 I've already told my more embarrassing sex stories on earlier buses but thought of a non sex but still guy related one. Going way back to last year of high school my then bfs mum didn't like me as my family were poor and she was rich and snobby. Any time I phoned (back in the landlines days) she would never refer to me by name just shout to my bf that 'that girl' is on the phone. 🤬 It was pouring one day and my bf asked his mum to give me a lift home which she very grudgingly did all while looking at me like I was a piece of crap on her shoe. I felt so uncomfortable the whole journey I couldn't wait to get out the car when it stopped. Only in my haste I couldn't work out why the door handle wouldn't open so yanked it......it wasnt the door handle it was the one to wind down the window and it came off clean in my hand! I knew we barley had enough money for food let alone offer to replace the handle so just threw it at her shouting really sorry and legged it in humiliation 🙈 needless to say that was the end of our relationship.

@Minster2012 I've started watching that surrogacy programme you were talking about on iplayer, I was a blubbery emotional mess and I've not even been thru surrogacy so God knows how you coped watching it!

@Juno231 what a cute idea with the frame. I just stuck my DS first positive stick in his baby book but it was an IC so small enough to stick in

I cant even imagine your frustration at your cycle length @dollybird89 😔

@Hopeful110 a tentative congratulations! Hopefully you'll get a nice bold line with tomorrow's fmu 🤞

@Juno231 that sucks about the mortgage, no wonder you're annoyed! 🤯

Ok so I am officially freaking out 😩 work today was painful, and when I mean painful my belly cramps got so much worse and my back was in agony. It scared me so much I called the doctor and she told me to take the day off tomorrow and to just keep rested over the next few days, and if it continues to call back on Monday (private scan booked that day). I am so frigging scared! Ahhhh. Just needed to panic vent sorry.

@Minster2012 being a woman 100% sucks balls.

@Vil10 let's hope the steamy sex helps those swimmers!

@Juno231 omg that frame is such an adorable idea! That's so annoying about the flat :(

@HappyMrsR sorry you've been through all that :( how are you feeling about your little bean? Of course you're welcome here! X

@Kirky658 aww bump 🥰 I have a bump too but it's gas 😂 I do wonder though... I'm definitely bigger and way too early... one or two in there?!

@Dollybird89 sorry about long cycle :( have you phoned doc?

@Hopeful110 I see it! Eek! 🤞🏼🤞🏼

@Crazydoglady123 All happening now for you, yay!

@DKDK123 you definitely deserve it girl, drink away x

@Minster2012 hsg, had it this morning.

@Juno231 oh that's awful about the mortgage mess. So sorry. Hope the property managers get things sorted soon.

@HappyMrsR sorry you had such a scare too.

@Dollybird89 sorry i missed your update. That is beyond any form of acceptable length 😲 how long are you supposed to wait ? Surely they could give you something to bring on af?

@Justanothercyster you poor thing that sounds really unsettling. Hope the days fly for you until you have your scan x

@DKDK123 snobby mare!

@notyetamumbuttrying oh nice to have the day off even if you can't do much, especially as it rolls into the weekend. Have a lovely birthday x

Congratulations @Hopeful110 & @Thinkingandblinking.

@Justanothercyster I'm so happy about it I'm just so scared incase anything goes wrong, my youngest is 7 so it's been quite a while since I've been pregnant so every little cramp or twinge has me worried, I'm also really shocked it happened this month as I've been a bit off this month just not feeling right n I had my covid jab at the end of Feb n that had me a bit worn out so I thought I had missed my fw n this is the first month for a while that I haven't used opk's or kept track so I was surprised to see a bfp.
How you getting on?
@Juno231 no thankfully the sickness hasn't kicked in just yet but my boobs are starting to get a bit sore.

@Minster2012 don't worry about it thanx for still having me.

@Justanothercyster thank you. Sorry about your pains today. It's so worrying when it's early days. When I had DS I used to get a lot of cramps and twinges. Try and put your feet up and relax

@Minster2012 oh really? Fingers crossed it's fine 🤞 Any tips for all of the injections

Oh @Hopeful110 I can see it! How exciting - particularly as it's middle of the day wee!

Thanks for asking @Haiyaa it was negative thank god! AF due this weekend then it can clear off and we can get back on the 🍆🍆🍆

@Justanothercyster your body will be growing and stretching already so hopefully it's just that. Maybe see if you can get a private scan tomorrow instead?

@Dollybird89 that is so long, it would do my head in!

@Hopeful110 I see it!! Test with fmu tomorrow!!

@notyetamumbuttrying literally!! My reply was "yeah they'll do for my other boyfriend" 😂😂

@Haiyaa hahaha to be honest I have no idea!! I'm still really wet now so don't have a clue!!

@Minster2012 oh I forgot you're an avid condom user, I suppose this is my welcome to the TTC but wearing condoms club?🥴😂

@Franklydear I don't think my OH would be the same without his ego unfortunately😂

@Justanothercyster it would be typical wouldn't it, not trying, not drinking/eating/doing anything different and getting pregnant😂 I bet it's just your body stretching and making a nice home!! Try not to worry xx

@DKDK123 sorry to hear you're surrounded by pregnancy announcements!! It is hard, but I'm sure the alcohol will help!!