Recent MC - New cycles & trying again

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Hi all,

A thread for the ladies from the recent MC/MMC group and for anybody else who wants to join us as we discuss getting our cycles back on track after MC and starting to TTC again x

@ams19
@abimix
@plantmummy87
@thehotelcalifornia
@pettylamby
@laurat94
@neady1980

@dippyegg32 I feel like if I fall off the wagon with the rest of the book I can take the advent calendar page out and just colour that in!

@summersun001 I'm liking it so far! So how we go next week when I hit 5 weeks! 😊

@Pettylamby think I'm going to order it!! Have you referred to maternity now lovely?

@dippyegg32 - nope not yet! I'm not in a rush to do any of that at the moment! Will probs do it just before my epu scan which is 6+6! I'm still only 4+4 at the moment! Did you do another FRER or have you switched to cheapies? I'm still struggling not to test everyday! 🙈

Thanks @Pettylamby it really is taking every ounce of my energy. I just want to be asleep because then I'm not thinking about it. I teach older ones at secondary. Sorry to hear your year 2s left you frazzled today.

@dippyegg32 thank you so much. I know that first number doesn't really indicate one way or another but I was just hoping for a nice big number like with dd to give my mind some rest. Now I can see three days of torture ahead of me. I don't think I can lose another baby, I won't be able to bear it. Just not feeling positive now. Although your words do help. And yours @SuzieDeLaTour thank you ❤️ imagine if this little tiny one does turn in to a bump. I'd be so happy and grateful. I hope so so much.

@Pettylamby I have an EPU appointment on 1st April with my consultant which was booked weeks ago long before any of this but I'll only be 5+6. I've got a frer for Friday and if that's shown some development I I'll try a digital. Micro steps here!

Huge temp drop today Feel physically sick with worry.

Oh @dippyegg32 I'm sorry your having such a worrying time, I don't track bbt but does a temp drop usually come before AF?

Please try not to make yourself ill, in reality AF may appear or it may not, just take it an hour at a time, but whatever happens you WILL get through it, you are strong and we are all here for you 💕💕

Would anyone be up for a fb group?

I would be @dippyegg32 x

I'm so sorry you're suffering @dippyegg32
@Pettylamby said everything I was thinking. I don't know much about temps but what I do know is what my GP said yesterday and that is that you can sometimes have too much information that makes you worry when things will be just fine.

It's so hard though and I need to take my own advice to distract myself.

A big yes to the fb group x

Yes I’m up for that x

@dippyegg32 I would be up for a Facebook group x

@dippyegg32 oh sweetheart try not to worry- easier said than done I know! Bodies are weird (and wonderful) things and just because your temp has dropped it doesn’t spell disaster. Just take each hour / day as it comes. Sending you huge virtual hugs xx

@dippyegg32 I know RHR is diff to temp but I looked back in my fitbit data from when I was pregnant 2 years ago and my RHR went up and down loads, so I reckon temp can fluctuate a lot too.

@dippyegg32 sorry to hear of the temp drop today. I know it is way easier said than done, but try not to focus on it too much. As the others have said BBT can vary so much due to a range of reasons. As @SuzieDeLaTour said try to take each hour/day as it comes xx

Yes to fb group also.

Im cd 22 and absolutely not got a clue if I have ovulated or not. Wild temps (although likely due to broken thermometer), loads of ewcm ever other day .... what’s going on body.

Happy Paddys day from Ireland, hope everyone is doing well and has a nice chilled out day. Fb group sounds great 🙂
I haven't been on much,I'm CD4 and honestly I feel great so calm and relaxed which makes a change.

Happy St. Paddy's Day @Neady1980. Hope you are having a lovely day. So good to hear you are feeling calm and relaxed, hopefully it will continue throughout this cycle for you 😊

Meant to say @dippyegg32 I'm also up for and group.

I've cried basically all day. I'm not cut out for this. I'm not bleeding and the cramps have eased but got lots of cm. I've just done another frer after 48 hours and the difference is negligible. That coupled with the temperature drop it's just a waiting game now

@dippyegg32 sweetheart is the bottom one your latest one? X

@SuzieDeLaTour yeh about an hour ago, took the pic basically straight away. It's no different really is it?

@dippyegg32 there is SUCH a difference!! I would be delighted with that change in 48 hours. That’s a proper positive test right there!? I say wipe away those tears...your tests are doing everything they should!! Xx

@dippyegg32 looks amazing to me lovely! xxx

@dippyegg32 I agree! Great progression from the top to the bottom test! I think that’s reassuring. Xx

@dippyegg32 that's great progression for early on!! The bottom one is defo much stronger!! I know you will be so so anxious, and won't want to believe it until you've missed your period, but I'd say right now you are pregnant! 💕💕