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notyetamumbuttrying · 24/02/2021 21:00

We're a mixed bunch of ladies ttc with all sorts of issues, mainly of the male factor kind! 😏 Though there's a range of reasons over here, come join if you've been in the ttc game for a long time and had nearly every test under the sun ☀️ and heading for interventions. There's ivf chat as well as natural. Buckling up for the ride of their lives are our usual riders: 😎

@Annny27 29, ttc #1 since June 2019, 1 miscarriage in nov 19 👼🏻
@RobinRose 27, ttc #1 since Oct 2019
@kerrym87 34, ttc #1 since sept 2019
@Motherofkittens28 39, #1 since aug 2019
@Yutes 34, #1 since Aug 2019
@Crazydoglady123 32, #2 since jan 2019
@Marvellouslymadmum 41, #3 since April 2019
@Tofu35 35, #1 since sept 2019
@Hayley19835 38, #1 since Oct 2018
@Narwhal88 32, #1 since June 2019
@Dogmum13 29, #1 since dec 2019
@SlothMamaToBe
@Theawkwardblonde
And me 34 (for a few more weeks) ttc #1 since sept 2019
(Sorry if I've missed anyone off the old bus, please jump bk on!)

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Motherofkittens28 · 09/03/2021 17:17

@notyetamumbuttrying I'm doing ok, super tired today and had a bit of a negative wobble but trying to keep up the positivity and get through one day at a time!

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notyetamumbuttrying · 09/03/2021 18:02

@Crazydoglady123 Did she have anything to say Period wise? Your afc is fab!!
@Aimzie aw I really hope not hun!
@2020mission thank you 😊 he was so chuffed! The annoying thing about the fags was that he'd previously "quit" n only smoked when out drinking but when lockdown 1 hit he went up to smoking everyday again, but not touched one since September!
Get dtd missy! Probs is the grapefruit juice, I might pick some up myself actually!
@Motherofkittens28 ah that's all you can do and ask of yourself ♥️
@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker no idea 😂 I told dh to query that as we asked for a callback but he forgot to check as they said everything was normal and correct. Thanks hun x
Good to know it went ok and it wasn't too bad, I'm going to book one after the call tomorrow! Do you get told during how it all looks etc?

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Crazydoglady123 · 09/03/2021 19:00

@2020mission I swear everyone's bodies are playing tricks atm...

@Dogmum13 same as @Marvellouslymadmum I had it a while into my pregnancy

@Motherofkittens28 that sounds like good signs lovely! Try not to be too hard on yourself... it's a big thing you've been through mentally and physically.

@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker glad it was all clear and good! Was anything discussed as to what your next steps are?

@notyetamumbuttrying thanks! No, just that my lining is still really thick so whatever the bleeding is so far isn't my period. Just got to hope it comes in the next few days 🤞 I think if it's not here by my consultation I may leave the Clomid and go straight for ivf if it means inducing a period.

notyetamumbuttrying · 09/03/2021 19:19

@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker cool, sounds similar to how the afc went. So glad all went well darling! Defo not ASAP anymore. I think we'll decide when after I've had a hycosy. Will book it after our consultation tomorrow.
@Crazydoglady123 hope so honey! Makes sense. May as well crack on eh 😘

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Marvellouslymadmum · 09/03/2021 19:20

@Motherofkittens28 feeling really tired is a good pregnancy sign and the mood swings! Still keeping everything crossed for testing day 🤞🏻🍀

@notyetamumbuttrying funny my oh was like that too! Gave up smoking for 10 months before then started again, I was so cross lol then he gave up again for 4/5 months and started again 🤦🏼‍♀️ I'm hoping this one will stick!

@CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker glad to hear everything is all good with you.

@Crazydoglady123 our bodies are so annoying aren't they! Af when you don't want one and no af when you do!

notyetamumbuttrying · 09/03/2021 21:27

@Marvellouslymadmum very irritating these men aren't they! He only stopped for good once he got those appalling results bk. just hope he never smokes again now!

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Marvellouslymadmum · 09/03/2021 21:39

@notyetamumbuttrying very infuriating! To me once you've stopped why start again but what do I know!

notyetamumbuttrying · 09/03/2021 21:57

@Marvellouslymadmum I feel exactly the same!! Like why tease and torture yourself over and over. Madness!

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Marvellouslymadmum · 09/03/2021 23:53

@notyetamumbuttrying definitely doesn't make sense to me!

Yutes · 10/03/2021 06:34

Sorry I’ve been quiet. Glad everyone is doing ok. Glad the hyscosy wasn’t as bad as you thought @CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker

I’m just over here, feeling no better off than I was 6 months ago. And not being listened to.
But finally I will be given provera and I can start a second cycle of letrozole. Hopefully. I’ve only waited 80 days Confused

Aimzie · 10/03/2021 09:29

Had a massive temp drop last night to 97.44 before bed, it's back to 98.60 today and the bleeding has stopped (well for now anyway) it didn't really fill a pad at all and i haven't had one cramp just a bit of tugging very unlike usual pms..🤞
Think il wait one more day to test again 🤔 defo think I Od 2 days later than I thought now 😒
This is so annoying 😔

kerrym87 · 10/03/2021 11:04

@Yutes fingers crossed for you.
So I've done pg test today just so I know for sure I can go for my hsg and lap before I have my covid test today. Knew it was likely going to be negative and that we need the investigations but still feel deflated. Think you're doing ok and realise maybe not as well as I thought. Roll on Friday, just been a shame that with my annual leave an isolation the tests are at the end of my time off!

crazycatlady1981 · 10/03/2021 11:11

@Yutes is that 80 days with no af? That’s awful! Sorry you’re feeling rubbish! What does the provera do?

@Aimzie what dpo would you be if you ovulated 2 days later? It’s good sign that temps are still up and that bleeding has stopped! 🤞🏻 What app do you use for your bbt? Perhaps you could try putting your temps into a different app and see what it predicts?

notyetamumbuttrying · 10/03/2021 11:19

@kerrym87 sorry for the bfn. Is your hsg and lap with the nhs or private? Do you think you have a blockage/endo to be going for a lap? I'm concerned I have endo and wasn't sure whether to skip the hsg/hycosy and go straight to the lap? It'll be private though as nhs wait for a lap is a year!

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Annny27 · 10/03/2021 11:28

Just had my AMH result back and its 41 pmol/) (normal levels for my age 20-29) which is a relief!

I am still going to do everything I can to improve egg quality though :)

Motherofkittens28 · 10/03/2021 11:34

Morning all! I have just had a very tiny amount of spotting at 4dp5dt, hoping this is a good sign and not the start of a period. I will be nervous every time I wipe now!

Aimzie · 10/03/2021 11:40

Mm so if it was 2 days later I would have been 15dpo yesterday when I got the spotting, if its AF id be so worried as it was only yesterday and didn't even fill one pad 😯
We'll give it one or 2 more days, I think I will still just go to my doc app Monday and see what's happening 😔

Aimzie · 10/03/2021 11:41

@Motherofkittens28 eek I hope it's the little eggy burrowing in ❤️❤️❤️🤞🤞🤞
Keep us posted, I'm thinking about you 💓

Aimzie · 10/03/2021 11:41

@Annny27 awh that's brilliant news sweetie, happy for you ❤️❤️❤️

Aimzie · 10/03/2021 11:42

@crazycatlady1981 I just use a period tracker app, FF kind of confuses me but I think il add all my temps this month to it today and see what it says 🤞

Marvellouslymadmum · 10/03/2021 12:15

@Yutes that's crazy that you've had to wait so long!

@Aimzie so annoying when the body plays tricks on you and you don't know what's going on 😕

@kerrym87 sorry about bfn but at least you've got positive things that are happening

@Annny27 that's great news!

@Motherofkittens28 I'm sure it'll be a good sign of the littley clinging on in there 🤞🏻❤️

Crazydoglady123 · 10/03/2021 13:00

@notyetamumbuttrying I saw on the other post you're possibly putting on hold the private ivf now?

@Annny27 well done! I get mine back next week. When are you starting IVF again and is it funded or private?

@Marvellouslymadmum still no further forward with what my body is doing 🙄 How are you getting on?

@Aimzie my last two periods have been totally different to normal. This one I've now been spotting since Friday and my scan yesterday showed it wasn't yet my period as my linings still really thick. I'm wearing a pad but barley anything on it, mainly when I wipe. The blood has gone from pink to red to brown and now dark brown/black and still no sign of af on cd30 🤷🏽‍♀️ Your temps still up though so that's a good thing 🤞

@Motherofkittens28 fingers crossed lil' egg is making its nest ♥️ How long now till you test?

@Yutes that's a long cycle! Bet you must be relieved to get things going again

Marvellouslymadmum · 10/03/2021 13:05

@Crazydoglady123 I'm ok, had the blood tests yesterday and the nurse said if I don't hear by tomorrow afternoon to give them a call as my doc is only in Thursday then not again until Monday so hoping they're back tomorrow and can find out what's going on and get on with the next steps!

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