TTC After Chemical Pregnancy/Early MC 2

[Mishmased]

Hi everyone just a continuation of @Littlebee1990 thread. It has helped me so much by giving me a platform to express myself and I hope it helps others as well. @Littlebee1990 I hope you are well and don't mind me continuing on.x

Hi @Boo2020 and @LS2020 hope you're keeping well. I'm good here just finishing up a night shift and not back until Sunday. Can't wait to catch up on some much needed sleep 😁

@Mishmased how are you doing? I’m very jealous - off today and then Sunday only this week but I still woke up at my normal 6am time 😩

Think I’m deffo out this month, 10dpo and normally have sore boobs as my progesterone rises but haven’t had anything so don’t think I ovulated. Got an LH surge which is annoying though!

Hi everyone!

Is it okay if I jump on this thread?

I was diagnosed with a PUL in January & was back and forth from EPU for 4 weeks including being admitted and having a laparoscopy. Eventually, I had surgical management on the 29th Jan which was 'successful'.

I got my negative HPT on the 16th Feb, now just waiting for my first AF. I do have a massive box of LH strips, but not sure if it's worth testing as I know you can have surges without ovulation after loss and would hate to get my hopes up... The joys of TTC. 😅

So sorry to everyone for your losses. ❤️

Hi everyone

I had a extremely early MC.. we want to try straight away, I know the only real reason to wait for your period is for dates? Is anyone else trying straight away?

Sorry for all your looses ❤️

@danielleb97 and @monkeyy97 sorry to hear your stories.
@danielleb97 I would probably wait for AF, just so you know you've started a 'fresh' cycle but that wouldn't stop me from having sex until AF arrives as you never know 😉😄

@monkeyy97 it's more to date your pregnancy really and if you were very early if just crack on and see what happens. Worst case nothing and AF will be back next month.

That's annoying @LS2020, I'm suffering from insomnia so wide awake at 2am sometimes and up for woke at 5:30, nothing worse than exhaustion.

@Mishmased oh god that’s awful, I barely function with 8 hours sleep!! AF ended up showing up 3 days early which is very annoying but as said think was a duff cycle so probably for best.

Sorry to hear your losses both ❤️

@danielleb97 yes agree if you’re up to DTD then go for it but wouldn’t test until you’ve had a new cycle start.

@monkeyy97 I found DTD a little bit mentally challenging after an early loss, but deffo found it better that I jumped back on the horse so to speak!

Thanks for your messages ❤️

My period actually showed up out of the blue on Friday! 4 weeks to the date (and time which is weird) since I had my ERPC. It’s been the worst period I’ve ever had but feeling grateful that my cycles started again so soon and we’ve got a fresh start for March now!

Hope all is well with you all ❤️

Nothing new from me. 10dpo and having very strong symptoms this month but not feeling confident for some reason. I had my baseline scan and that was all fine. Just my Hycosy left now and a redo of day 3 bloods next week. Hycosys are suspended at the minute due to Covid which is super annoying!

Hey@LS2020! Lovely to hear from you, hope you're doing well. Fingers crossed for you this time. What is hycosy?

Hi @Mishmased how are you getting on?

Hycosy is a type of fertility scan - think the basically put like ink in your uterus abs Fallopian tubes and watch it flow through to make sure there’s no blockages or anything. As I’ve had my mmc im assuming it’s not going to be an issue but guess good to check!

@LS2020 I'm not too bad. That sounds good to check things out anyway. How're you holding up with the endless restrictions? I'm so tired of it all.

Rant coming up !

So I have been tracking ovulation since the last day of my period; giving the OH the heads up when we are required to dtd. Friday, Saturday and today would have been good; today I got a positive opk & ewcm and the OH said we would be dtd tonight as it's been ages!

Got into bed at 9:25 and because I moved my arm and touched his side by accident he threw a fit and told me to stop moving and touching him because he's tired & I'm not getting anything out of him tonight! F*cking massively p'd off! He knew this weekends agenda 🤬🤬 I'm hoping maybe I get another positive opk tomorrow and maybe persuade him into tomorrow night but I feel absolutely gutted! Just feel like a huge waste of the last 2 weeks using opk...
Just want to cry like a baby now! I'm currently sleeping on the sofa because he's pissed me off that much 🤬
Raaaaaa!!!! 😭😭🤬🤬

Please pray I get to BD tomorrow night and I still have a high opk or even higher than today as it was only 0.8 🤞🏻

@jodielouise26 ouch! I know what you mean. Try not to be too hard on him as he's probably feeling the pressure and I know to are too!
Does I have to be in bed? Can it be somewhere else, or early morning before you get up. And maybe just don't tell him about the positive opk so he doesn't feel the pressure to 'perform'. Times are tough these days dealing with Covid and working and I sometimes find it a bit much. But I do get where you're coming from. Hope you kiss and make up today 😁

@jodielouise26 just seen you've been having sex since Friday, you should be fine skipping Sunday night. Poor guy needs a break and he probably is tired. Hugs ❤️

@Mishmased

The plan was for the weekend; we didn't dtd at all.
In fact not since last cycle, so probably around a month ago. To be fair I was tired too and I'm not 100% feeling very well recently but I tried to hard to stay awake last night as it was his plan and then it went out the window.

Maybe later today 🤞🏻 x

@jodielouise26 now I get why you're annoyed. Hope you're feeling much better health wise? Hopefully today you'll both feel up for it. You could be his very sexy alarm clock if he's still asleep 😁

@Mishmased I haven't felt well for over a week now; raging sore throat but hopefully not covid 😂

Trust me I'm no sexy alarm clock; I have to drag him out of bed, no chance of that 😂
it's get up at 6:10 for him and out the door by 6:25.
He'll be home at 4 so we have all evening 🤞🏻

This mornings peak is a little higher than yesterday's so hopefully I'm still within a chance if I get to dtd tonight! And the ewcm is unreal today (sorry tmi) .. praying he's ready for me to pounce tonight! 😂 this makes me feel a little better !

@jodielouise26 sounds like a plan 😂 have a great time 🤣🤣

@Mishmased

I retook the photo on my opk in a better light and got a good result (attached photo)
If he don't put out tonight I'm leaving (just kidding I'm not that dramatic 😳)

@jodielouise26 they look good especially yesterday and today. I'm not clued on opks but very clued on ewcm as its presence has worked well for me in the past.
Go easy on the poor guy remember he's had a long day at work 🤣

@Mishmased can't promise I'll go easy on him.. I'll tell him it's his reward for working hard at work today 😂

Hey Ladies, I hope you are all well?

Well I am either 6dpo or 13dpo 😩 I got a peaks on both 😕 I've not got much hope this cycle again, only symptom is tender boobs! Anyhow I've got the ball rolling and got a doctors appointment (over the phone) tomorrow morning, I'm hoping they refer me to have some tests done because I've got a feeling I'm not ovulating (maybe just in my head) I'm now on cd36. My cycles are long roughly around 47 days and it's now been nearly 8 months post miscarriage.

Where is everyone else upto? X

Hey@Boo2020 good to hear from you! Do you get any ewcm when you get the peaks on the opk? I hope you're wrong and you are ovulating.x

@Mishmased so nice hearing from you not!! I don't get much really, I did and do get raw egg white in the days of supposed ovulation but I also can get creamy in blazing dark peak days too! I also got raw egg yesterday 😕..x

@Mishmased...sorry I don't know why it says *not (predicted text)