Only 6DPO and I feel like I’m going crazy! Anyone else with me?

[Jordie24]

Hi everyone so I got my peak on 23rd January and I think I ovulated on 24th.. I’m now 6DPO ovulation. I tested this morning and obviously I couldn’t see anything, but I’m already planning how to tell my partner and looking at baby clothes.. what is wrong with me! Anybody else? And the wait is dragging too!x

Thanks @willow2021.. it makes sense yes but i still want to retest tomorrow.. So unbelievable
@1boo1 haha made me chuckle
@AlexaPlayWhiteNoise what dpo?

Either 13 or 14 dpo. That's going off OPKs so could be 12 at the absolute out. Stressful! at least my DH is accepting of my POAS anxiety ridden obsession at the moment

Think my period has arrived. Doesn't even make sense because I'm only 9dpo. I thought it was implantation bleeding last night but it's so red this morning it has to be AF.
I'm so sad. After having those two faint lines I was convinced. Doesn't help I'm still breastfeeding I suppose.

@Horehound I’m so sorry. A line is a line - so it may be that you’re having a very early loss.

This happened to me in November, I got a faint line but a few days later started to bleed like a very early period. Ended up bleeding for 2 weeks.

Best to test again though in a few days and see if it’s still positive, you may be bleeding for another reason.

I’m really sorry and hope it works out for you next time if not this time xxx

Oh I am sorry to hear that. How long are your cycles?

@Jordie24, what about you? How are you doing?

I got another positive this morning and tomorrow I am going to see the doctor.. Fingers crossed.

Who is going to test these days?

I've done my first FRER at 10dpo this morning 😬 I need a hug!! I'm so so nervous, I've had light cramping this morning and can still feel a little now, is that normal?

Trying to post a pic but hard to take a photo.. What do you think 😬

It's a bump! congrats xx

Yeh my back is killing me and deffo feels worse than normal period pains :(

I have no idea how long my cycles are. My first period came in December 16 months after giving birth but I've not had another since h til now. I was using opks to test if I was even ovulating and did get three positives in a row and then lots of EWCM. I'm so sad. In the bath now trying to alleviate the pain

Congratulations @1boo1 x

So sorry @Horehound hope you can take it easy and wait for it to pass xxx

@1boo1 congrats!! That’s a good line! Cramping is common, shouldn’t be severe pain though. A little cramping is normal as your womb is changing to accommodate baby! Xx

@Horehound :( I am sorry. Hope you feel better now

@Horehound let us know how you are or chat to us if you want to. It is a devastating thing to happen and I’m so sorry xxx

@horehound so sorry 😞 sending big hugs, hope it eases off soon xx have you called the Dr's? X

Thank you everyone 💕 DH now knows too.. Going to take another test at the weekend. Feel a little nervy after the early MC last month but also very lucky x

I’ve just caught up with everyone’s comments on here! Congrats @oannic and @1boo1amazing news!! 🥰🥰 how are you both feeling? Slight dizzy spell this morning and starting to get tender nipples. Woke up starving this morning 😂 and tired come afternoons but other than that feeling ok!
@Horehound sending you lots of love, it will happen! ♥️

Pretty sure I'm having a chemical. Bit shit as after losing our son so recently I thought I might have got a rainbow. Just waiting for bleeding to start now and praying it's not an ectopic.

@LadyJane18 thank you 😊 I've been eating lots this morning ut think that's more to do with not knowing what to do with myself than anything else 😂 I haven't done a test today so might do another FRER tomorrow to compare.
I've had a few 'tugging' type feelings, didn't know how to discribe until I Googled and it came up on here. Very strange but not painful. Also felt weird twinges in my hip 🤔 so over aware of anything on my body! Have you had any other symptoms?

I really hope this all goes smoothly, I'm worried that what happened last month could happen again as its so early!
X

@AlexaPlayWhiteNoise so sorry 😔 what does a chemical actually mean? I keep seeing it said but not sure what it means or if it's the same as an early MC? Really hope that's not what's happened and you can get some positive news from drs❤️ sending lots of positive vibes xx

Thank you @LadyJane18!! Glad to hear you and @1boo1 feel good!

I feel good aswell!.. My boobs are a bit sore but today a bit less than yesterday and it freaked me out actually. Another symptom is insomnia! I don't know if it is the excitement or maybe the hormones but the dr said there is nothing really i can do :(

I saw my obgyn today, he said I am 5 weeks now but it's still too early to see smth. He actually took blood samples to check the betaHcG and i have to check it again next Tuesday to see if it doubled (I guess here in Germany they just do it differently). He told us not to announce it yet until he actually sees something (so hard to stay quiet though) xx

@AlexaPlayWhiteNoise I am so sorry :( Do you have pains or bleeding?

[quote 1boo1]@AlexaPlayWhiteNoise so sorry 😔 what does a chemical actually mean? I keep seeing it said but not sure what it means or if it's the same as an early MC? Really hope that's not what's happened and you can get some positive news from drs❤️ sending lots of positive vibes xx[/quote]
It's an early MC before five weeks. No pain or bleeding yet but my tests aren't darkening up as I would expect them to so I'm assuming it's not a viable pregnancy if the HCG isn't multiplying. It's just shit being in the limbo mainly. If nothing happens either way over the weekend I'll phone my bereavement MW and ask what to do. Thank you

@AlexaPlayWhiteNoise I am also scare of this. My tests have been darkening over the last few days but today I started getting very light spotting. AF would have been due two days ago. I know its normal for some women to having light bleeding but this is also how AF begins for me. I don't have any cramps. Terrified every time I go to the toilet. Some of my friends had light bleeding for days early in pregnancies. I suppose im just so scares its going to turn heavier

[quote willow2021]@AlexaPlayWhiteNoise I am also scare of this. My tests have been darkening over the last few days but today I started getting very light spotting. AF would have been due two days ago. I know its normal for some women to having light bleeding but this is also how AF begins for me. I don't have any cramps. Terrified every time I go to the toilet. Some of my friends had light bleeding for days early in pregnancies. I suppose im just so scares its going to turn heavier[/quote]
Chances are you'll have a completely healthy, normal pregnancy. I would try not to worry although I know the anxiety.

I'm trying to rationalise it for me as if it's a non viable pregnancy, it's better to lose it now than later. Just hoping my body decides to let go naturally.

@willow2021 I also read that it is normal and many pregnant women have light spotting. Just be aware if you have bad cramps and the flow gets bigger.. then you should call someone. xx

So my AF has just arrived sad knew the ‘symptoms’ were too good to be true! I’m going to make a pact with my husband that from next week we will dtd every other night until my next period is due! I’ll keep taking the OPKs just to check that ovulation is occurring and then try to go with the flow! It’s so difficult when it’s something U want so much...but I have a good feeling that next month is the one! Good luck to all of you guys still in the game for this month 🤞🏻