TTC after MC - Jan/Feb 2021 (Thread 17)

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A new thread for those trying to conceive after miscarriage.

Have tried to tag as many people as possible!
@Bellabubble
@Pancakes7
@TheDaydreamBelievers
@bez91
@NatJ24
@NatNoo96
@ELMcg
@RichmondLady1981
@susiebluebell
@Garman
@RS2609
@bumptobean
@bubblybrit
@PrettyPinkPansies

Welcome @Strawberry08 and sorry you find yourself here! No TWW for me but looks like you've got plenty of others to keep you company 😊

CD32 for me and I'm sensing AF is finally (hopefully) coming after my BFN a week ago, this cycle has dragged!. Putting on my big girl pants today... got my final dissertation result today and just failed 😞 absolutely expected it as found out 3 weeks prior to submission date in November that a MMC was the likely outcome of the pregnancy so my head was very far up my arse but on we go 💪🏼

@bez91im sorry for your loss and BFN & completely understandable about your dissertation. Will the Uni let you retake due to extenuating circumstances?x

@PrettyPinkPansies yes keep us updated 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@bez91 really sorry about your loss. Sorry to hear about your dissertation result too but I think you’re incredibly strong and brave to have even submitted it given the circumstances and I definitely think you should look into whether they can offer extenuating circumstances!

@SLCxxx @Strawberry08 okay so I did one. I thought I could see a whisper of something but it didn't have any colour, more like a shadow. Hubby sees nothing 😂

@PrettyPinkPansies at least there’s possibly something! In my experience hubby’s are useless and blind 🤣, mine can never see it even when it’s obvious!!

@PrettyPinkPansies oooo..your going to have to test your first morning pee now, lol. Yeah my hubby can’t even see the difference when my hairs been done 🤣

@SLCxxx @Strawberry08 what do you guys think? Hubby could see it once I pointed it out with a dummy 😂

Got my first proper peak just now since the MC 🥳 anyone else ovulate early after MC? I was peak CD17 like clockwork before but I'm a few days earlier this cycle on CD14...

@PrettyPinkPansies I just turned my brightness right up and I think I can see something in the first and last pics 🤞🏻

@SLCxxx thank you. I did a pink dye cheapie which was negative but was only sensitive to 25. I'm going to test again in the morning with another clear blue and cheapie I think. I'm praying it's not a Evap! X

@mrswilso 🥳 awesome 🎉
I have really irregular cycles (ranges from 14-52) so I have no idea if I ovulated earlier, sorry.
Time for you to have fun and good luck xx

@PrettyPinkPansies I can see a very faint line although clear blues do have a habit of it. Test again first urine of the day but all my fingers are crossed for you!! X

@PrettyPinkPansies all my fingers and toes are crossed for you 😊

@Strawberry08 this will be us next week 🙈

@mrswilso how exciting for you!! yes I ovulated cd14 straight after my miscarriage and usually I am cd17-cd19

@Strawberry08 @SLCxxx thanks girls. I will test again with another clear blue in the morning and I've got some FRER ordered but they don't come until Thursday

@SLCxxx oh gosh I know 🤣. I am truly awful at taking way too many tests. I wish I had more patience!!

@PrettyPinkPansies sounds like a plan, good luck in the morning & keep us updated! I have a good feeling for you x

@SLCxxx @Strawberry08 thanks both! Usually any extenuating circumstances have to be submitted at the time of the dissertation rather than retrospectively so it's a no go and not really my style anyway 🙈 I'll just plug away again!

@mrswilso fab news, go get it girl 😉 I also ovulated early last month after MC at CD12 and my cycle still ended up being 31 days so seemed a lifetime so there must be something in it post MC

Thanks girls! @SLCxxx @Strawberry08 @bez91
Legs waaay up in the air tonight 😏🤣

@mrswilso 🤣🤣👍🏻

@PrettyPinkPansies what do you think of the FRER? I’ve not used them x

@SLCxxx I've never used them before either but everyone keeps telling me they're the best so I thought I'd give it a go. I've always used clear blue! X

@Strawberry08 I will! I'm hoping it's darker! I'll have to do it on my own too as OH is starting work at 4am! Thank you xx

@PrettyPinkPansies I have always used clear blues too and much prefer them. By the FRER are very clearly negative when they are negative as there won’t be a hint of a line, whereas I find clear blues sometimes difficult to tell. Anyway, good luck and fingers crossed for BFP!