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11dpo and still BFN - anyone else waiting for that line

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acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 07:49

Come and keep me company whilst we anxiously test together Smile I’m currently 11dpo, ttc my first. How’s everyone doing? How many dpo are you and when is AF due?

Lots of baby dust to us all x

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DeeDee20 · 04/01/2021 13:03

@acupofteamakeseverythingbetter
I’m not taking those vitamins but I did start taking folic acid 7th Dec and I ovulated on cd21 instead of usual cd13.
I wonder if that could be it. I know exactly how you feel - wishful thinking. I just never ever thought it would be this hard xx

Tina8800 · 04/01/2021 13:05

Can I join, Ladies?
Im on 7dpo.. I had a miscarriage in the beginning of November, had a period 4weeks after without ovulation. It finally happened 7days ago and I have all the symptoms that I had with the previous pregnancy. Im worried as I had a month without an ovulation, maybe my body is just in a hormonal shock.
Cant wait to take a test, I feel like Im going crazy. Fingers crossed for all of us!!!

sadz · 04/01/2021 13:24

Im not sure its implantation its quite a lot and is red too not browny pink.. ill see how it goes the next two days if it continues then i guess it definitely is a period... but oh well hope you guys have better luck ❤❤

acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 13:33

@DeeDee20 maybe it has something to do with folic acid but it’s important so we just need to keep an eye on our cycles and hope for the best. It really does make me wonder how many people “accidentally” get pregnant!

Of course @Tina8800 welcome 😊 I’m sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Must be difficult for you to know whether this is your body readjusting or pregnancy symptoms. When are you planning to test? Keeping my fingers crossed for you! 🤞🏻 What symptoms are you having?

Oh no I’m sorry to hear that @sadz 😩 xx

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Tina8800 · 04/01/2021 13:55

Thank you! I was planning to test on the 12th but I dont think I will be able to wait that long. Probably will start on the 8th (will be exactly a day and 4 weeks) and keep testing after. When are you planning to test? My symptoms are cramping, headache, sore breast, crazy hunger and thirst. The weirdest is the constipation and diarrhoea in turn. I had them with the previous pregnancy too (that wasnt planned so I thought I had a stomach bug).

acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 14:02

I have started testing yesterday at 10dpo and again today at 11dpo - both BFN. I’m in two minds about whether to test every morning until I get a BFP or until AF arrives or whether to hold out until the weekend. I’m due this Friday 8th.

Good that you had those symptoms with your previous pregnancy, hopefully that’s a good sign 🤞🏻 Xx

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Tina8800 · 04/01/2021 15:24

Same here. Every night I go to bed saying to myself its only a week, but the first thing I want to do in a morning is to test. What kind of test do you use? Im thinking to try the CB early detection but I`m scared it will mess with my mind even more...

acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 15:28

@Tina8800 I’ve been using the FRER ones. They’re currently on offer 3 for 2 in Boots so I stocked up 😂 which are you using?

Crazy how slowly the days go in the TWW 🙈

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Zara092 · 04/01/2021 16:12

Hi everyone, please may I join :)
I’m 10dpo and had BNF this morning. I was really saddened by the result because this is month 4 we’ve been trying but no luck.

I know it’s early, but I’ve been having period-type cramps all day and I upset in case AF starts in 3 days as it’s meant to.

acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 16:55

Hi @Zara092 yes of course, welcome 😊 I’ve been having a strange heaviness on and off this afternoon, kind of feels like my AF is coming too but I’m not due until Friday.

Wishing you lots of baby dust ❤️ Are you going to be testing every day? Have you had any other symptoms? Xx

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DeeDee20 · 04/01/2021 18:29

@acupofteamakeseverythingbetter @Zara092 @Tina8800 it’s so hard isn’t it ladies. I’ve got Flo telling me I’m 1 day late and FF telling me I’m not due until Saturday?
Felt like AF is coming more and more by the day. Urgh. Xx

acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 18:36

Oh that’s so annoying 🙈 how long have you be using each of the apps for? I use Flo app and has always been pretty accurate but I have been using it for years and I’m quite regular xx

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DeeDee20 · 04/01/2021 18:40

@acupofteamakeseverythingbetter I jsut started with FF yesterday and used Flo for many years to track periods but this last 2 months my periods have been longer than usual. I ovulated at day 21 this month and the last months day 13. Hmm

acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 18:50

Maybe because you ovulated later this month that why it’s saying a later date for you period (hopefully it won’t come to that and you’ll get your bfp!) Smile have you been using OPK? Xx

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DeeDee20 · 04/01/2021 18:54

@acupofteamakeseverythingbetter
Yes I use the CB ones. I think Flo is going by my period cycle and FF is going by the day I ovulated according to CB. I guess we aren’t out till AF shows xx

acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 04/01/2021 18:57

God that must be confusing! But you’re absolutely right we’re still in the game 😁🤞🏻 xx

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Tina8800 · 05/01/2021 14:33

@acupofteamakeseverythingbetter
I will use the MomMed pregnancy strips. They are very cheap on amazon but I also have a CB for backup.
I used PreMom ovulation stirps from amazon and they are great; the app with it helped me a lot too.
I am also confused about the AF. I ovulate late, so the apps are calculating from that date I guess. But mine always shows up exactly 4 weeks. Looks like my body only have 9 days for implantation :S

acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 05/01/2021 15:37

@Tina8800 it's all so confusing isn't it?! I think I'm out this month because I tested again this morning and got another BFN at 12dpo. I know AF isn't due until Friday so there's still time but i'm not holding my breath, no symptoms at all today x

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Tina8800 · 05/01/2021 16:01

@acupofteamakeseverythingbetter It is! Dont give up hope till your AF arrives! In September I got positive when I was 5 days late and it was only a faint line! (probably due to the late ovulation). My symptoms are pretty much gone too, keep questioning what was real and what I just imagined. Cant help to obsess about it...

DeeDee20 · 05/01/2021 16:12

@acupofteamakeseverythingbetter @Tina8800 the wait is the worse isn’t it. Everyday AF isn’t here is good news xx

acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 05/01/2021 19:42

Thanks ladies @DeeDee20 @Tina8800 will keep you updated but doubt I’ll test until AF is late xx

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Letsdothis06 · 05/01/2021 19:45

May I join? I am 6 days post ovulation, first cycle of TTC #2.

@DeeDee20 like you, my cycle is always 28 days but i took vitamins this month and only ovulated on Day 21... AF due on Thursday.

I was trying not to overthink but I woke in the night with cramps and got really disappointed that AF was probably on its way. But then I felt sick for the rest of the night and have been nauseous on and off all day. I also fell asleep at my laptop at one point. I feel really rough, it's so weird.

So i took a test to check I wasn't going crazy and of course BFN. Just have to wait and see....Never had any symptoms with #1, maybe it's all in my head!

acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 05/01/2021 19:49

Hi @Letsdothis06 of course, welcome 😊 are you due AF this Thursday? Hopefully all your symptoms are a positive sign!! Keeping my fingers crossed 🤞🏻 for you and sending you lots of baby dust xx

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Letsdothis06 · 05/01/2021 19:58

Thank you so much @acupofteamakeseverythingbetter (love your username!).
Yes due AF this Thursday. I ordered some FRER so will probably do one then.
Fingers crossed for you too, hopefully we will both know by this weekend!

acupofteamakeseverythingbetter · 05/01/2021 20:07

😂 thank you! A cuppa fixes everything doesn’t it?! Finger crossed for us both. I have to be honest, I’m not very hopeful, I don’t know why? I just don’t think this is the month but will be good to know either way 😁 Ive read that you didn’t have any symptoms with #1 so maybe I’m not out just yet! Xx

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