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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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SunnydazeQ · 28/11/2020 11:02

Hello ladies

This is a continuous of our bus from Dec. Please tag anyone I may have forgotten. Here's to many Christmas BFPs 🎉🎄🎁

@gracie2307
@MgW1
@SRyellow
@Sunflowers81
@SparkyLauz
@bmeggar
@PurplePops
@Highfalutinlootin
@ACNass
@Bizawit
@Dogmum13
@Raffie13
@Cinega

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SarahMumof1DS · 28/12/2020 20:32

Congratulations @Raffie13!
Just read your post and helpful info, thanks for that. I bet you are just in disbelief right now, but it's a great feeling isn't it. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy xx

MgW1 · 28/12/2020 21:02

@gracie2307 @SunnydazeQ
Hi Ladies yes I am good thanks. I have been enjoying xmas , had plenty to drink but not as much as I would have liked to eat. I have tried a few pre - conception vitamins and they have all made me terribly constipated 🙈 stopped the seven seas 5 days ago and still having cramps, bought some lactulose from chemist yesterday and feeling pretty miserable with it. I just cant seem to tolerate them. Drinking lots of water and eating fruit. Bought folic acid with b12 and then vit D on its own and thats all im taking now. Not really trying this month, although will dtd a couple of times but my hubby says a constipated wife is not really a turn on 🤣🤣 i think I have told him too much!! Anyway its fine , il have a few extra wines and do some online retail therapy instead !!
How are you ladies ? Did you have a lovely xmas ? Xx

sunshineandshowers3 · 29/12/2020 07:53

Hi @MgW1 - I also really struggled with the seven seas tablets, but for different reasons. They gave me pretty horrendous headaches so had to stop taking them. Now just on folic acid.

How long have you been ttc? We’ve been trying since April of this year. I read some people say that the disappointment gets less every month, but it really hasn’t for me. It’s now coupled with my DP’s disappointment which is just awful to see. Feel so very low about it all, which I know in itself isn’t helping the situation.

Sending lots of love your way ❤️ Think we all need some atm!

MgW1 · 29/12/2020 08:06

@sunshineandshowers3
Iv tried pregnacare, holland and barrett and 7 seas. All made me terribly constipated 😔 just ordered prune juice in my delivery ... bet is disgusting!
7 months and 2 mc's @ 14 weeks and 5 weeks. Speak to doc after new year and get ball rolling with fertility referral , there could be a slight prob that is rectified easy with some hormone medication....? Id defo try and get referred asap. You can try to hard as well, my hairdresser tried 3 yrs and nothing , got referred to fertility inic and stopped trying because resorted to the fact they might need help and got pregnant following month naturally. Dont get disappointed or stressed. Sack the opks off for a bit and dont do dtd the death either .... we only do it every other day during fertile week. It WILL happen xx

Dogmum13 · 29/12/2020 12:26

Has anyone started the Jan bus yet?

Cienega · 29/12/2020 15:11

@millionairesshortbread4 how are you doing? How are your symptoms? You'd be 12dpo today right? X

millionairesshortbread4 · 29/12/2020 21:01

@Cienega hey!! They are much the same, no worse. How about you? 😊 Have managed to hold off testing. Not getting hopes up as I don't have a gut feeling that I'm pg 🙉

sunshineandshowers3 · 29/12/2020 21:02

@Dogmum13 AF showed up today, so starting the January bus unfortunately. Feeling so very down about it all (a very close friend announced yesterday and appears to have caught quite easily).

Here’s to late September babies 👍🏻🤞xxx

Dogmum13 · 29/12/2020 22:08

@sunshineandshowers3 what cycle no. are you on? I'm 2 dpo today so will be joining the Jan bus. Do we have a thread for it yet?

Cienega · 30/12/2020 08:23

@millionairesshortbread4 well done on managing to hold off testing!! I buckled this morning and took a cheapie. I think there is the faintest of lines so I'm just gonna pop out ams get a frer this morn to put me out of my misery! I have had a funny few days with a barrage of symptoms all seeming to accumulate on 8dpo with some right sided pain to so I'm wondering if that may have been implantation. The symptoms started to ease after that, and today I woke up feeling far less symptoms, just a bit headachey. The one good thing is that i expected to wake up feeling period cramps this morn but I don't feel periody at all, normally I do start to get some cramps etc in the lead up to it. Fingers crossed for us! I'll let you know when I take the frer. So nervous!!

sunshineandshowers3 · 30/12/2020 08:30

@Dogmum13 no thread for it yet I don’t think and I’m quite new to this MN malarkey so not entirely sure how to set one up!

We’ve been ttc since April but I have fairly short cycles (24 days or so) so this will be our 11th cycle. Due to ovulate next Saturday 9th.

Have you ever tried pre-seed? I bought some a few months ago but we’re yet to use it. May give it a go this month...need to change something up as clearly what we’re doing at the moment isn’t working! Xxx

sunshineandshowers3 · 30/12/2020 08:33

@MgW1 Not heard anything positive about prune juice...what is it meant to do? Just aid fertility?

Sorry to hear about your two miscarriages 😔 how awful for you both.

Yes definitely going to call GP in the new year. I think stress could be massively contributing to our failed attempts atm. Our wedding was cancelled earlier this year and my DP lost his father to Covid. Xxx

MamaPheebz · 30/12/2020 10:00

Anyone on 6dpo? I’m having niggly cramps on one side. I’m convinced it is implantation and now worried I’m going to disappointed when I’m not pregnant.

millionairesshortbread4 · 30/12/2020 10:08

@Cienega I buckled this morning too😂😂
Definitely a BFN unfortunately. AF due tomorrow so I'm out!

Hoping your line gets stronger🙏🙏 Keep us posted 😃

Cienega · 30/12/2020 10:49

So there's a line! And it defo looks pink. It's faint but it's visible in real life!

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Cienega · 30/12/2020 11:34

@millionairesshortbread4 I missed this post. I'm so sorry you got a bfn 😔 it's so deflating 😔 you know what they say though, it ain't over til the witch arrives. Holding out hope for you xx

Lottiebugz22 · 30/12/2020 19:45

Hi everyone hope you're all well.
I'm really confused this month. I started having ewcm on CD 8 and 9 and then nothing and then it's started again on CD 13. Does this mean I'm ovulating again? So confused. I had sex last CD 11. Would I be able to conceive from that time if ovulation is today?

MgW1 · 30/12/2020 20:47

@Lottiebugz22
Cd 13 is prob the most likely day your near ovulation👍🏻 are you going to dtd today as well? You only need to do it every other day! Otherwise supplies will run too thin....!!! Xx

Cienega · 30/12/2020 21:46

Took another frer earlier after a 3hr hold and got a more obvious bfp! 🎉 I have a digital but wont try that until the morning, will jot down my symptoms if anyone wanted to know as I know i loved reading about other people's!

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DJmum83 · 30/12/2020 22:14

@Cienega congratulations if I remember right this will be baby number 4 won't it?
Wonderful news.
Can I ask when did you ovulate and when did you BD around ovulation? Xxx

BubsNumber2inTheMaking · 30/12/2020 22:26

Congratulations @Cienega !! Great news! 🥳 xx

Cienega · 30/12/2020 23:44

Thank you @DJmum83 and @BubsNumber2inTheMaking xx

@DJmum83 yep that's right. Its gonna be busy but I'm so excited for it!

I had ewcm on cd10 and cd11 but didn't get my opk peak until cd13. I didn't manage to bd on the ewcm days (which I had been worried about but it obviously didn't matter!). We bd on CD12 AM and PM, cd13 (peak day) AM and PM and cd14 in the AM only. I know there is some belief in too much sex depleting the amount of swimmers but I had read an article written by a doctor who said this was a myth and that the more bd during the fertile window the better so I decided to go for it as I really wanted it to happen this month! Im not saying that's why I got pregnant this time as I fell pregnant all the other times with just one bd and no planning, but I just wanted to cover all bases just incase as the previous month we only bd once and it didn't happen.
How are you finding it, are you still trying? X

BubsNumber2inTheMaking · 31/12/2020 12:56

Right, I've started a new bus here:

Happy New TTC Bus - Jan 2021 - it's going to be a corker! www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/4121376-happy-new-ttc-bus-jan-2021-it-s-going-to-be-a-corker

Let's do this xxx

SunnydazeQ · 31/12/2020 13:10

Congratulations @Cienega what a lovely way to end the year!! 🎉🎉🎉

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Cienega · 31/12/2020 13:47

Thank you @SunnydazeQ!! Xx good luck to you and to everyone going into the new thread and new year. Wishing you all the love and baby dust xxx

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