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SunnydazeQ · 28/11/2020 11:02

Hello ladies

This is a continuous of our bus from Dec. Please tag anyone I may have forgotten. Here's to many Christmas BFPs 🎉🎄🎁

@gracie2307
@MgW1
@SRyellow
@Sunflowers81
@SparkyLauz
@bmeggar
@PurplePops
@Highfalutinlootin
@ACNass
@Bizawit
@Dogmum13
@Raffie13
@Cinega

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MgW1 · 25/12/2020 15:37

@BubsNumber2inTheMaking
Oh no sorry to hear that. I hope you can still have a nice day with your family. Im not doung any opks just going to do it a few times next week and leave it there this month just want to try and enjoy xmas hols as best we can while we are still in tier 2! I dont think it will last long! Xx

MamaPheebz · 25/12/2020 22:31

@BubsNumber2inTheMaking so sorry to hear that. It’s is still a loss, even that early, so make sure you reach out to your doctor. Xx

gracie2307 · 26/12/2020 14:42

Hi everyone! Merry Christmas! I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas day despite the craziness!

Sorry for being quiet. I did get AF properly last week which is finished now - hooray! Work has been pretty stressful before the Xmas break. I am CD8 today so going to start SMEP today yay! I had a lovely surprise from a friend in the post on Xmas eve, I got a lovely bracelet with some healing crystals like rose quartz, moonstone etc to help with fertility. I've never really read much into crystals but its a beautiful bracelet and I'm hoping it will bring me some luck for the new year!

Sending lots of Xmas wishes to @SunnydazeQ, @Sunflowers81, @MgW1, @Dogmum13, @SRyellow, @SparkyLauz, @BubsNumber2intheMaking and everyone on the forum. I hope you ladies are all doing well. Congratulations to those who have had their BFPs and I am fully on board the Jan bus with everyone 😀 xxxx

BubsNumber2inTheMaking · 26/12/2020 18:18

@gracie2307 Merry Christmas!!! 💜 Sorry to hear AF reared her ugly head for you but YAY to the next cycle! 🤗 Keeping fingers crossed that this next month will be your month!
I'm officially a year on from when we first started trying. Totally READY for a sticky bean now! Will def be jumping on the Jan bus too shortly xxx

Dogmum13 · 26/12/2020 18:50

@BubsNumber2inTheMaking I'm officially a year on too. I've to phone my gp for initial tests for both of us in the new year. Have you had any tests done yet?

Merry Christmas everyone 🎅 🎄

BubsNumber2inTheMaking · 26/12/2020 18:59

Hi @Dogmum13 yes we've had bloods, semen analysis and I've had an internal scan. All looking fine which is definitely reassuring but doesn't help with my frustration at still not being pregnant! 😞 I think it's probably just may age (36). I've been pregnant twice in the last 12 months - one ended in a miscarriage at 9weeks (sort of), the other has just happened at 5weeks so I think it counts as a chemical 🤷‍♀️.
Sending lots of luck to you for the new year xx

Dogmum13 · 26/12/2020 19:06

@BubsNumber2inTheMaking thanks you too. I'm hoping our tests all come back normal too. We are a bit worried because we haven't had anything happen in the whole 12 months.

BubsNumber2inTheMaking · 26/12/2020 19:10

@Dogmum13 Have you had any months when your period has come early? And do you temp? I think we possibly spent the first 5/6months thinking ovulation was earlier than it was and so started dtd too early. Our successful months have been when we've dtd later, and (unfortunately for me!) when I've not orgasmed as frequently! No idea if the two things are connected but I'll definitely be having a less enjoyable shagging time this next month! 🤣🤦🏼‍♀️x

Dogmum13 · 26/12/2020 19:51

@BubsNumber2inTheMaking yeah I've had some months were I'm early or late but that usually coincides with an early or late ovulation. My ovulation is early, usually cd 12. If we don't start bding as soon as af leaves then we could easily miss my peak. My cycles are normally 25-28 days and had one 30 and one 31 recently too.

Dogmum13 · 26/12/2020 19:55

It's also super easy for me to get peaks on opks plus I get severe ov pains so can't miss when it's happening

BubsNumber2inTheMaking · 26/12/2020 19:57

@Dogmum13 I only ask as I'm convinced that when AF comes early it's due to failed implantation so if you've had a couple of early AF's then could be you're conceiving but it isn't quite going whole hog. At least you've got short cycles - when I first came off bc my cycles were 35-37days and it just felt like an age between each attempt 🤦🏼‍♀️xx

Dogmum13 · 26/12/2020 20:19

@BubsNumber2inTheMaking they haven't been that early. The varied cycle lengths all seem to correspond with the ov day being earlier/later on that particular cycle so I don't think I have conceived at all. I haven't tried temping as I don't want to obsess over it all. I just keep trying and try to put it to the back of my mind as much as possible. Yes, I think long cycles would make it much harder to cope with. Hopefully only another 2-3 weeks before we can get tests done

Cienega · 27/12/2020 09:50

@BubsNumber2inTheMaking
I'm so sorry to read your latest updates 😔 what an unbelievably shit year 😔 sending hugs x
@Raffie13 congratulations what a Christmas present x

I'm currently 7dpo and as usual, the first week of the 2ww I am so casual and barely think about and then as soon as 7dpo hits I start getting obsessive 😂
I'm having cramps on and off and lots of twinges but not going by any of that as I've had them before with nothing coming from it. One thing I did notice today is the veins on my chest are very obvious, more than before. I definitely had this on my first pregnancy, also my cervix was so soft yesterday, have never felt it that soft. But that could change again so not a reliable symptom.
My cycles seem to be short at 24/25 days with a luteal phase of about 11 days so should be due AF on 31st or so. May crack and test on 30th 😬

millionairesshortbread4 · 27/12/2020 10:06

@Cienega we're cycle twins(ish)!

I'm 10 DPO today, AF due 31st.
Woke up with period like cramps today. My boobs have felt massive all week and my skin has broken out big time. But I know these can all be explained away due to eating so much sugary crap over Christmas🙉😂

Never been pregnant before so don't know what to think? Any thoughts anyone?

Cienega · 27/12/2020 12:04

@millionairesshortbread4
Oh yay I'm delighted someone is on the same timeline! We can test together 😂
Those sound like promising symptoms. Especially the boobs feeling bigger. Do you normally get boob changes around AF at all? If not then that's promising.
I fell asleep in the middle of the day yesterday which never happens so I'm putting that down as a possible symptom too! I thankfully haven't bought any tests yet so planning to keep it that way for as long as possible!
I do have opks left so hoping I don't get tempted to start experimenting with them 😂

BubsNumber2inTheMaking · 27/12/2020 12:08

Thanks @Cienega 😘 And best of luck to you this month! 🤗🤞xxx

Lottiebugz22 · 27/12/2020 12:48

Hi everyone hope you're all well.
I'm on cycle 2 of TTC. I have 26/25 day cycles but mainly 26. I seem to get Ewcm on CD7 and the most on CD8 and I was wondering if it's possible to ovulate CD9 as my cervical mucus was white and thick yesterday one day after tons of Ewcm.

Cienega · 27/12/2020 14:22

@BubsNumber2inTheMaking thank you! Fingers crossed x

@Lottiebugz22
I have roughly the same length cycle, I normally ovulate around cd13 ish but on the previous cycle I ovd on cd11 which I think was my earliest. I don't always spot ewcm but when I do it lasts for a day or two and it's always roughly two days before I get my peak on opk.

millionairesshortbread4 · 27/12/2020 18:11

@Cienega hmmm not really!! But I definitely remember thinking it before yeah!
Gonna hold off testing as long as poss too🙌 Fingers crossed for you😊😊

Raffie13 · 27/12/2020 18:33

Hey everyone! That faint line of mine continued to get darker, and I got a BFP on a digital on boxing day!

I thought I would pop onto this thread and let you know the things I did this month which may have contributed to us getting the BFP for anyone looking to try new things in the new year.

So this month I was taking Co-q10 - no expensive fancy stuff you find online, I bought mine from Wilko for £2.50 (30 capsules). Although they aren't available in every Wilko's store, so check different stores if you are after some. I took it every other day in the run up to ovulation.

I was also taking Vitamin C every so often (not regularly) because I have a short luteal phase and thought that might have been a contributing factor, and I read that Vitamin C could help - don't know how true that is!

I also took the Seven Seas trying for a baby vitamins daily and in addition to that some extra vitamin D as I have been known to be deficient before and the seven seas doesn't look to have much VitD in there. DH was in his second month of taking Wellman conception vitamins.

Our bedroom basically looked like a chemist of vitamins!

As well as that, I tried to adopt a more Mediterranean diet (mainly I ate more tomatoes and courgette) as I read that the Mediterranean diet helps.

I also used OPK's to track my cycles, although I think I missed my positive OPK this month (it must have been a short surge). We DTD in the two days prior to when I think my LH surge was, missed a day and then did it again once. No more sex around that time whatsoever, it must have just been good timing.

I bought some Conceive Plus Lubricant (the individual applicator type ones) but we never used them after all so I can't tell you whether they would have helped or not! No idea what I will do with those now!

In the week after ovulation I was in a strange mindset of feeling like I was out this month, but I feel like I knew deep down something was different. I know the TWW is full of symptom spotting, but honestly for me...I didn't feel any different! My boobs usually are really sore in the run up to my period, and this month they really weren't anywhere near as sore (and still aren't).
I did constantly want to eat the pasta sauce I've been making from scratch and I was disappointed knowing that on Christmas day I wouldn't be able to eat it (that was only 11DPO). And I've not wanted food I usually love. Other that, I've been no different!

Very much struggling to come to terms with the fact it's real though!

I hope all of this will be of use to some of you looking for new things to try, although I know it's probably nothing new!

Good luck to you all, and I hope 2021 brings lots of lovely news for everyone xx

SparkyLauz · 27/12/2020 23:28

Hope you lovely ladies all had a nice Christmas, im currently 4DPO, got my peak quite a few days earlier than I was expecting which was a surprise!

@gracie2307 sorry to hear AF came again. I do believe in crystals and their powers, what a thoughtful gift. 2021 will be the year for us! I will see you on the Jan bus x,

Congratulations @raffie13 !! What a lovely surprise for Christmas. Which cycle was this for you?

SarahMumof1DS · 28/12/2020 08:53

Hi Girls! I hope you all had a nice Christmas. Hope you're all doing ok.
Congratulations to those who got their BFPs! Sorry to those who have had AF or losses. Sending positive vibes for 2021! x

I lost the thread after some time out.
My husband is feeling a lot better so ttc might be back on the cards again soon. The only problem we have is the whole covid vaccine. Has anyone else had this conversation? There are considerations for people ttc or thinking about it. Anyone else been confused by the government's advice?? x

SunnydazeQ · 28/12/2020 09:25

Good morning ladies!! Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and enjoying the break. Been busy and only now getting a chance to catch up. Wishing everyone a happy, healthy, baby filled New Year!! 🤰🎉🎉🎉🎉

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SunnydazeQ · 28/12/2020 09:28

@Raffie13 such fantastic news!! Congratulations lovely and what a wonderful surprise ❤ Enjoy all the feels xx

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SunnydazeQ · 28/12/2020 09:28

@cherrypickd hello!! How are you and have you told anyone else yet? Xx

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