@CookieMonster3001 I’m okay thanks lovely just needed to stop obsessing for a couple of days :) feel much better for it :) I am CD 8 today my apps predict ovulation between the 1 and the 3rd but as I came on early my period has been longer I’m not really sure - it’s been a weird start to the cycle. Back on the opks though and have continued bbt so fingers crossed for a surge soon. As my hormones are obviously a bit haywire at the moment we are continuing TTC as it’s the main goal but really focusing on the weight loss still as I’ll stop once at healthy bmi and then hopefully everything will settle. DH is convinced that once I’m at that bmi and not dieting it will happen in it’s own time so I’m trying to just trust the process :) not going to stop either ttc or the weight loss and just see which one happens first :) I’ve been so deflated every time I see a BFN that I just need to reshift my focus I think and reaching weight loss goals each week is one positive :)
how are you feeling? Have you tested today? Bless you know exactly what you mean! Fingers crossed for you xx
@Curiosity101 I’m so pleased you have had a couple of easier days! Oh bless you re scans do whatever will put you at ease :) really hoping you have a smoother journey from here :) I’m okay thank you was on such a downer after last AF came but feeling much more positive now and just hammering down that bmi :) x
@princesscallie that sounds amazing! I love memories like that :) keeping my fingers crossed for you :) x
@wrensandrobins oh bless you 13 hours a day sounds brutal for the nausea hope it passes soon! Ah I’m hoping everything will be fine for you :) I bet it’s so exciting for your scan now :) x
@Kayeyeem fingers crossed for it being implantation. This is my first so I’ve never had implantation bleeding before but from when I’ve googled certainly sounds like it potentially could be :)
@minipilling hiya :) sorry to hear that you are having so many uncertainties re COVID.I think it’s such an individual situation that each person has to do what they’d are comfortable with especially with underlying health conditions. Totally understand the wobble though I have them a lot
For me we were planning to start trying early 2020 before COVID hit. We delayed until September when we thought for us we didn’t want to delay any longer with no end in sight. I’ve got a blood clotting disorder so would be consultant led so in the middle of a pandemic certainly not ideal as risks of being in hospital however I know that for my health condition the earlier I have children the better (I’m 30 in March) so we have just continued.
Also this is now cycle 6 for us with BFN every cycle so far and if it gets to 12 we can then approach gp for help which I’ve seen is having so many delays currently that again encouraged us to keep ttc.
I have done a lot of research to make that choice though and did speak to my gp first to see exactly what I needed to do etc. For us that felt right but I completely understand your anxieties as I certainly have them too just for me I didn’t want to delay any longer. In my nhs trust they are allowing partners at appointments too which for us really helped with the decision. Really hope you manage to decide soon and if you decide to ttc that it’s a healthy happy journey for you! Sending lots of positive energy your way xx