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Faint bfp or frer indent?

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Moominmiss · 09/11/2020 15:14

11dpo. Not fmu.

Came up within time frame. Vvv faint line. Am aware of the notorious indents frer can give so very reluctant to think anything of it yet.

One pic unedited, other has contrast up slightly.

Thoughts?

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Moominmiss · 12/11/2020 17:07

Ok so these are the 2 scan options I could pick from (not going to jinx myself and book it yet), just looking at options.

Both at the same place but a £20 difference in price. Obviously I have had recurrent miscarriages, so would j be best off booking that one at £79, or would the viability one be just as good for £59. Like the scan itself surely won’t be any different, but perhaps just how they talk to me?! I’ve no idea. But a £20 difference in price is quite a lot I think.

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AMS19 · 12/11/2020 17:13

@Moominmiss I used to live in Bristol!
I would gi for the £59 one. It there are any issues (which there won't be) they can't do anything, you will need to deal with your local EPU anyway! So just go for the viability one. That is what I am doing!

We are properly spread across the UK!!

Xx

AnxiousAnnie86 · 12/11/2020 17:16

@AMS19 @Moominmiss that's the company I'm using and I'm doing the 59.00 one! It's purely just so husband can see it and it's little heartbeat (hopefully) or if there is bad news he will be there with me...: the sickness is so bad today I feel constantly travel sick! X

AMS19 · 12/11/2020 17:19

@AnxiousAnnie86 my sickness has been non existent today. Got loads more cramps. Glad I took a test today or I would be worrying! I definitely prefer feeling sick so I feel something is happening. What a weird situation wanting to feel sick!! X

AnxiousAnnie86 · 12/11/2020 17:22

@AMS19 I prayed to feel sick but now I'm not so sure x

Moominmiss · 12/11/2020 17:31

@AMS19 and @AnxiousAnnie86 I think you’re right, and it’s what I was thinking, the £59 one won’t tell me anything different to the other one, and the outcome won’t be any different!

I secretly love feeling sick 😂 like you said it’s just a nice physical reminder that somethings going on! X

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AnxiousAnnie86 · 12/11/2020 17:33

@Moominmiss @AMS19 we will see ladies we will see 🤣🤣🤢🤢

mumof23188 · 12/11/2020 18:28

@AnxiousAnnie86 yes it’s an awful stage isn’t it. Just waiting for that clear BFP. I think I would be more confident if the second test I took was clear. Congratulations to you 🤰

@AMS19 hi, thank you ☺️ I’m praying this is it. So nervous for testing tomorrow. Congratulations 🤰

@Moominmiss just need to know now one way or the other 🤞 I’ve been having the same symptoms really, aswell as night sweats. I feel like I’m going to start AF any minute.

AMS19 · 12/11/2020 18:29

@mumof23188 let us know how you get on x

AnxiousAnnie86 · 12/11/2020 18:42

@mumof23188 thank you lovely, I have everything crossed!!!!!

Is there a way on Mumsnet to do private groups once we all have our bfps? Just so not clogging up conception board? X

AMS19 · 12/11/2020 19:19

@AnxiousAnnie86 I have absolutely no idea! I only just learnt you could use bookmark not not have to scroll all the way 😂😂 we definitely need to stay in touch though!! X

AnxiousAnnie86 · 12/11/2020 19:32

@AMS19 haha I never knew that either I always just flip the chat oldest to newest!!! X

AnxiousAnnie86 · 12/11/2020 19:33

@AMS19 that makes it so much easier! We really do as I'm sure there will be many many things along the way that we worry about! X

AMS19 · 12/11/2020 19:34

Its brilliant isnt it @AnxiousAnnie86 I only learnt it by accident!!

I'm happy to do a private FB or WhatsApp group if we can't figure it out on here! Xx

Moominmiss · 12/11/2020 19:49

@mumof23188 you’re going to be fine and will have a lovely line to show us in the morning! The waiting in limbo not knowing for sure though is awful. Literally nothing takes your mind off of it. Your symptoms are great though so I don’t think you have anything to panic about 🤞🏻 Good luck for the morning!!

@AnxiousAnnie86 @AMS19 I wondered the same thing about setting up a WhatsApp group or something instead so we can chat away from the thread. I mean if we all carry on at this rate we’ll have filled this one up and would need to create a new one 😂

I’ve had a bit of a panic tonight...I was sat watching tv, so not doing anything strenuous, and I had a sharp stitch/pulling pain low down on my right side. Like if you put your hands on your hips it would be where your fingers rest. I’ve immediately convinced myself it’s an ectopic pregnancy. It lasted for only a few seconds. But I’ve read that ectopic pain can come and go etc. Totally worrying now 😫

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AMS19 · 12/11/2020 19:53

@Moominmiss I have literally had the same thing but all evening!!! Pain on my lefthand side but really far down, where the knicker line is. It really feels uncomfortable so my mind also went to ectopic! Honestly we are just driving ourselves mad arent we? Mine there the whole time, not really painful but very uncomfortable. I just spoke to my cousin who had an ectopic and she said she actually had more pain on one side in the two pregnancies she wasn't ectopic...

Dis you tell hubby?

AnxiousAnnie86 · 12/11/2020 19:53

@Moominmiss don't panic!!! I had them sooooo much at four weeks! In both sides but they switched! It's called round ligament pain, it's normally in second trimester but can get it at very beginning whilst uterus starts to grow! I had it so so much in the beginning I must of said ouch every time I stood up or turned! But it was probably the only thing this whole pregnancy that didn't worry me as I remember it very clearly from my daughter! I'm not on Fb, but can do a whats app! X

Moominmiss · 12/11/2020 20:00

Yes @AMS19 on the knicker line, that’s where it is. There’s sort of just a dull achiness there now, but perhaps all over too. Ugh, I hate overanalysing everything!

I haven’t told him yet! I don’t know how to bring it up!!! Lol. He’s just started watching the football so I need to do it now before kick off or I’ll never have his attention lol.

@AnxiousAnnie86 I’ve heard of round ligament pain. I’m off to google that and see if it fits 😂 I really hope that’s all it is, just seems a bit early at 4 weeks for things to be stretching and moving around already.

Let’s do WhatsApp then! Xx

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AnxiousAnnie86 · 12/11/2020 20:04

If you both want to private message me on Mumsnet I can get your numbers off there and start a group! Otherwise everyone's gonna see our numbers!

I remember the first night I found out I had this deep burning pain on right side it was so uncomfortable I was certain it was ectopic too! X

AMS19 · 12/11/2020 20:05

@AnxiousAnnie86 done xx

Moominmiss · 12/11/2020 20:08

Done @AnxiousAnnie86 xx

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AnxiousAnnie86 · 12/11/2020 20:11

@AMS19 I can't see yours? Xx

AMS19 · 12/11/2020 20:13

Sorry @AnxiousAnnie86 I replied to the message from @Moominmiss and assumed you would get it too! Hopefully you have it now xx

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