The Pact - Who cares what month it is anymore..?

[MrsB2019x]

New thread for the Pact girls! 💙

@kirinm Seriously chuck out those ICs that line was definitely there! I’m so sorry lovely, it’s so cruel.

CD12 today for me, EWCM made an appearance yesterday so on the road to ov. @whambam89 Have you ov’d yet?

@whambam89 😂 it's sad that our sex lives have come to this isn't it! Always worth giving a different approach a shot though! What day do you usually ovulate?

I've got bad tummy cramps and a headache so I'm on the sofa feeling sorry for myself and counting down the hours until OHs kids go home 🙈

I agree @MrsB2019x , there is something wrong with those ICs @kirinm , I wouldn't use those ones again as they don't give any answers either way

@MrsB2019x 😁 fingers crossed for this fw for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@MrsB2019x @SS123456 usually CD17 but last month it was CD18 and I've started taking pregnacare this month so that could change it slightly! OPKs were "high" yesterday but nowhere near peak and have only had a bit of EWCM so we will see, I'll keep using the OPKs this month and tracking temp which has actually been a lot more consistent this month than it was last month so far. Mrs B good luck 🤞 x

@whambam89 pretty much the same as me. I normally ovulate on CD17 but like you it can sometimes be a day later. This month was CD19 but as this was post mc I expected things to be a bit off so it wasn't unexpected. Opk are always worth doing I think, just to be sure you are catching the right time and not missing an opportunity if you do end up ovulating a few days later than expected

Annoyingly AF isn't due for another few days so I'm just in a horrible pointless wait.

I'm not going to use them again, they are awful.

@kirinm the end of the tww is definitely the worst part

@SS123456 100% agree - 8/9dpo onwards is the absolute worst!

@whambam89 Got everything crossed for you lovely!

How's everyone doing? I'm still waiting for AF. If my LP is like it usually is, I don't think it'll start until Wednesday. I did ovulate much later than normal this month. I've got all the aches though!

@Kirinm have you tested again? Still a chance AF won't show!

All good here, due to ovulate tomorrow / Wednesday... OPKs getting darker so doesn't seem as though pregnacare will affect my cycle too much 🤞

@Rotagilla how are you getting on? X

Morning @whambam89 I'm doing ok.
The 2 day light bleed I thought could be implantation didn't produce a bfp so I'm assuming that was just af!?
Opks getting stronger but I'm using about 4 apps that say different ovulation days so waiting for a peak...
I know I will but gutted if it doesn't happen this month, I'm just so desperate to be pregnant again.
Had a phonecall last week asking if I was still attending my 20 week scan and that really hit me hard 😞

@kirinm I'm ok thanks, just at the end of af now thankfully. Fingers crossed you don't have too much longer to wait for af to show (or to not show at all 😊🤞🏻)

@whambam89 that's good news! Have you managed to dtd much in the run up??

Oh @Rotagilla I can't believe they called and asked that, I'm so sorry! 😔. I feel the same as you about falling again quickly as a way of healing slightly. I really hope you fall again soon 🤞🏻❤️

We have booked a virtual open evening for a fertility clinic for Thursday eve and OH has agreed for us to do the 'Couples One Stop Fertility Test Package'. His only 'input' will be filling a cup and everything else test wise will be for me. The women really get the rough end of the deal don't they! I've also got us both some natural 'super food' supplements coming today (OHs diet isn't the best) so hopefully that will help a bit

@Rotagilla That is absolutely rotten! How insensitive 😔 I’m so sorry

Glad your cycles seem to be staying put @whambam89! I like having a cycle buddy 😂

Sounds like everything is moving in the right direction @SS123456, let us know how you get on ☺️

CD14 today so due to ovulate in the next few days. Feeling oddly calm this month..? Will reassess in a week 😂

@Rotagilla that's awful, I can't believe they even let that happen! Hope you're ok x

@SS123456 we DTD twice yesterday and OH has promised tonight and tomorrow as well (scheduled sex.. the best 😂🙄) but I've not had my peak yet so may suggest we do tomorrow and Wednesday instead.. will re-evaluate after doing another opk later haha.

@MrsB2019x feel like I've jinxed it as I thought I'd have had a darker opk by now... Hopefully it'll creep up on me soon

Finally getting somewhere.. let's hope this turns to a peak by the end of the day 🤞

Morning

My MIL died suddenly yesterday and life feels quite surreal at the moment. AF hasn't arrived but I have a feeling it is actually due tomorrow. I've no idea now tbh.

Oh @kirinm how awful, I’m so sorry for your loss. Hope Mr Kirinm and your kids are doing okay

@whambam89 Looking promising! 🤩

@Kirinm I'm so sorry for your loss,how awful for you all. Sending lots of love ❤️

Thanks.

Obviously AF arrived as soon as I said AF hadn't arrived (it is okay, I knew I wasn't pregnant). Don't know if we will end up trying this cycle.

@whambam89 it's looking promising 😁🤞🏻

Oh @kirinm I'm really sorry to hear that, what a shock for you all! I hope you are all ok ❤️

@MrsB2019x @SS123456 I'm in work until 8 tonight so will test again when I get home and hope for a peak!

How are you getting on Mrs B, have you ovulated yet? X

Sorry AF has arrived @kirinm 😔 I know you were half expecting it but it doesn’t make it any easier.

Not yet @whambam89, can be any time from now til Thursday really. Hoping it’s today though, we have DTD every day since Friday and I won’t lie I’m knackered 😂

@MrsB2019x good work! 😂. Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻

Haha thanks @SS123456 😏😂 Tbf it’s not like scheduled or anything like that, I’ve wanted to which I’m really grateful for. I don’t want us to end up DTD on a timetable!