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The Pact - Who cares what month it is anymore..?

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MrsB2019x · 12/10/2020 09:56

New thread for the Pact girls! 💙

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SS123456 · 04/11/2020 09:20

Oh @Rotagilla I'm so sorry to hear that 😔. Did you have any successful pregnancies in between? I'm am glad they are looking into things for you though and I agree that carrying on is best 😊

SS123456 · 04/11/2020 09:22

Whoop! 😁. I think that's the best peak reading I've ever had! Bang on CD17 as well which is crazy after mc'ing only a couple of weeks ago! Strangely though my bbt never dropped back down after the mc and is still above last cycles cover line. Hopefully that won't affect things 🤔

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kirinm · 04/11/2020 10:33

@Rotagilla bloody hell, 34 weeks? Covid is absolutely screwing the NHS up for anyone without covid.

The recurrent clinic for me were helpful in that they carried out tests and said there was nothing wrong but once I was given that news, I felt a bit lost as to how we were meant to go on. "Just bad luck".

Fingers crossed you won't need to attend your appointment.

whambam89 · 04/11/2020 10:59

@MrsB2019x they were the days 😂

@Rotagilla 34 weeks is so long, could you maybe go private?

@SS123456 great peak! Good luck 🤞

Rotagilla · 04/11/2020 11:06

I didn't have any successful pregnancies in between but the two earlier losses were with my ex....so didn't try again until this year with new partner.

@SS123456 that's an awesome peak! Amazing how quickly the body gets back to normal ❤️
How are you feeling physically?

@kirinm I know! It's terrible...I feel like this loss was a very unfortunate incident and because we know the reasons why it not desperate for testing.
And I'm certainly not waiting.
So onwards...
I'm glad you were told there was nothing wrong but I know it probably doesn't help when you are ttc each month ❤️

Rotagilla · 04/11/2020 11:08

@whambam89 yes that is an option....but right now I don't feel anything was 'wrong' if you know what I mean. I know why I lost the baby.
I think if I was ever to go through it again then I would go private and get some answers and help ❤️

MrsB2019x · 04/11/2020 11:23

@SS123456 That’s a great peak! Glad your body is working itself back to normal now ☺️

@Rotagilla I love your positivity and the way you are moving forward after all this 💙 really hoping for the best for you x

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SS123456 · 04/11/2020 11:46

@Rotagilla I am physically feeling back to myself now thankfully but I guess that side of things was a bit easier for me as I was only 5 weeks gone. Are you physically feeling ok now? I agree with your outlook on things. As you have said you know why things went wrong last time and as awful and sad as it was that is something you can actively monitor and prevent, unlike a mc where you have no known reason for. I am hopefully that next time around things will go right for you 😊

SS123456 · 04/11/2020 11:47

Hopeful not hopefully!

whambam89 · 04/11/2020 16:45

@rotagilla definitely, I suppose it's not worth spending the money when it's likely that there's nothing "wrong". Hopefully by the time your NHS appointment comes around you'll have a little baby cooking along nicely x

Rotagilla · 04/11/2020 16:54

@MrsB2019x Thankyou ❤️ I'm trying, just trying to keep moving forward....it's so hard to think of far along I should be now though 😢

@SS123456 im glad you are feeling back to yourself ❤️
I'm feeling really good physically and it's been helpful to have a 'get healthy' focus.
I'm still really tired but apart from that quite normal.
Thankyou, I'm hopeful too. Almost have a good feeling about the future which is weird....

@whambam89 I hope so ❤️
I keep seeing future plans or calendars etc and thinking 'I wonder if il be pregnant by then?'
So glad to have all of you on the same journey...

whambam89 · 04/11/2020 17:47

@Rotagilla really hoping it happens quickly for you ♥️

I've got a horrible taste in my mouth today which basically only goes away when I'm eating... can't decide if I'm just convincing myself it's a metallic taste or if it actually is 😂Symptom spotting has officially commenced 😂

SS123456 · 04/11/2020 18:34

Ooo fingers crossed @whambam89 😁🤞🏻

I have a good feeling for you @Rotagilla 😁

kirinm · 04/11/2020 20:55

[quote whambam89]@Rotagilla really hoping it happens quickly for you ♥️

I've got a horrible taste in my mouth today which basically only goes away when I'm eating... can't decide if I'm just convincing myself it's a metallic taste or if it actually is 😂Symptom spotting has officially commenced 😂[/quote]
I had this with my daughter and it was AWFUL and lasted ages. It wasn't metallic though, it felt a bit like soap. Fingers crossed 🤞🏻

whambam89 · 04/11/2020 21:18

@kirinm I can't get rid of it, it's driving me crazy! Have cleaned my teeth about 10 times 🤦🏻‍♀️

MrsB2019x · 04/11/2020 21:33

Ooooh @whambam89 😬👀 hopeful for you!

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whambam89 · 04/11/2020 21:41

@MrsB2019x probably the only "symptom" I've never had before so knowing my body it's just teasing me 🤦🏻‍♀️ I'm only 7dpo so don't even know if it even could be a "symptom" yet??

kirinm · 05/11/2020 07:35

@whambam89 and @MrsB2019x when are you planning on testing?

BuckleUp · 05/11/2020 07:55

@whambam89 That was my first symptom! It started about 4/5 days before AF was due so about 7dpo for me. It's still a symptom I can't get rid of. Fingers crossed it's a good sign for you x

@Rotagilla Your positivity is an inspiration. I can't imagine how hard it has been for you the last few weeks. Your referral is so far away, but hopefully by the time it comes along you won't be needing it 🤞🏻 x

Take care everyone during this latest lockdown development x

MrsB2019x · 05/11/2020 08:25

@kirinm Ummm.. this morning 👀😂 I wasn’t planning to but you know when you wake up with the urge? 😂 Was BFN but I’m only 9dpo so not too disheartened.

How is everyone else doing? x

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whambam89 · 05/11/2020 08:29

@MrsB2019x hahaha I actually was wondering if you'd test this morning..plenty of time still for a BFP!

@Kirinm I've got no tests in, if I stay strong then I'll wait until I get to 13dpo as that literally never happens. Reality is I'll probably have tested by 11dpo. 8dpo today.

@BuckleUp fingers crossed but I'm not hopeful has my body literally gives me a different symptom every month 😂 after some googling it is due to a rise in oestrogen which can be because of TTC vitamins, so it's probably that! Still there this morning though 🤢

kirinm · 05/11/2020 08:29

[quote MrsB2019x]@kirinm Ummm.. this morning 👀😂 I wasn’t planning to but you know when you wake up with the urge? 😂 Was BFN but I’m only 9dpo so not too disheartened.

How is everyone else doing? x[/quote]
I was testing by 7dpo last month so you're doing well at 9dpo! Fingers crossed this is your month.

I'm CD10 and due to ovulate in the next couple of days. My DD was sent home from nursery yesterday with a cough and temp so we are officially self-isolating until we get a negative test. Not that it makes much of a difference given that we are in lockdown now.

whambam89 · 05/11/2020 08:39

@kirinm oh no! Hopefully it comes back negative, there's so much going around at the moment especially with her going to nursery. Did you manage to get a test for her easily enough? X

kirinm · 05/11/2020 08:42

[quote whambam89]@kirinm oh no! Hopefully it comes back negative, there's so much going around at the moment especially with her going to nursery. Did you manage to get a test for her easily enough? X[/quote]
We did. I was pretty impressed. She was home by 2pm and we had done a test by 6pm! I'm hoping she can go back to nursery tomorrow. I am 100% sure it's a cold.

SS123456 · 05/11/2020 09:25

Has anyone had a peak for 2 days before? I've just had another strong peak opk this morning (2nd day in a row) and it is the strongest one I have ever had by miles! I'm scared that if I get a bfp this month it will be triplets 😂😂

The Pact - Who cares what month it is anymore..?