Ttc 12 months plus

[notyetamumbuttrying]

@fieldsandsun 28/09
@Anitaatje33 is on cd6
@kerrym87 5/10
@notyetamumbuttrying 6/10
@Hayley19835 8/10
@Narwhal88 17/10
@Annny27 18/10
@Motherofkittens28 22/10
Come on October!! Let's hope it's a successful month for us all!
Others welcome to join as well if the title applies to you too

@xoxochellexoxo
Yes! I didn't want to say just in case! Hopefully it gets darker :) :)

@Originalusername6432762 i will keep you update 🥰

@xoxochellexoxo
Was there a particular reason for the test? Or do you check every month? I mean, have you got any symptoms?

@Originalusername6432762 I dont test every month just something about this month, i dont think i have symptoms other than i feel like im coming on my period. I have just had day 21 bloods aswell to see if i was even ovulating x

Congrats @xoxochellexoxo 🤞🤞🤞🙌🙌🙌

@notyetamumbuttrying I usually ovulate cd15 tbh but there are some occasions when I have a slightly earlier ovulation!

@kerrym87 I would wait till after you ovulate. We also had no indication of poor quality sperm and conceived within 4 months with the pregnancy that we miscarried but he still have spemr issues so there's no knowing untill you test!

@xoxochellexoxo
So excited for you!

I'm tempted to order myself a FRER so I can check early now lol

And there she is 🥰🥰🥰

@xoxochellexoxo congratulations. Xx

@Whilstwewait thankyou so much 🥰

@xoxochellexoxo congratulations lovely! Thats super exciting 🥰

@Annny27 thankyou! Its been a long 13 months lol xx

@xoxochellexoxo yay a bfp at last! Congratulations 🥳 you do a lot of wee's 😂 or did you pee in a pot?

@notyetamumbuttrying no alot of pees lol still doesnt feel real if am honest xx

@xoxochellexoxo
Woohoo! 🥳

@Originalusername6432762 still in disbelief xx

@xoxochellexoxo
Have you done anything different this month or do you think it's just right time right place sort of thing?

@Originalusername6432762 Honestly? The only thing different is that i actually managed to track my ovulation. Nothing new at all and i even stopped taking my folic acid because truthfully i had mentally already prepared myself that i was going to be childless. I have no symptoms whatsoever other than a bubbly feeling in my tummy and constantly needing to pee xx

@xoxochellexoxo congratulations!! 🥳

@notyetamumbuttrying will just ride the rest of the year out I think, see where we are in the new year. I am waiting for another scan but have been told there is a 6 month wait! So if there is something wrong with me (if picked up on scan), we can potentially be referred for IVF. Rules are quite strict where I live. But hoping it doesn't come to that.

@xoxochellexoxo congratulations 🥳

Thankyou ladies still hasnt sunk in yet! I dont think it ever will x

@RobinRose best of luck then, hope it doesn't take too long.
Dh just left for his urologist appointment this morning, he was really nervous bless him! I've asked him to ask the dr if he can record the session as I know he won't remember it all and I need to know every detail 😂
@xoxochellexoxo bless you, not surprised! How did Dh react? You telling parents or siblings yet?

@notyetamumbuttrying Yes he knows i phoned him crying down the phone! Not how i planned to tell him but i also didnt expect to get the answer i did. Iv told my parents and my brother, tell OH parents tomorrow! My OH has a DD from his previous marriage and we told her last night she is so happy she is going to be a big sister there will be almost 15 years between them x

Advice required! Currently around 3dpo, which means I'm about to get into the bit of the tww where I think every twinge is a sign! I temp every month and I'm wondering of stopping it during the next fortnight- a watched pot never boils, and all that. It's helpful for the fw but aside from me saying to myself "ooh today is high" or "could this be the implantation dip" it's a form of torture!

Does anyone temp here and do you do the full month or partial?

Hey @Tofu35 I used to be exactly like you. Temping just didn’t suit me as I found I wasn’t sleeping properly as I was waking up and seeing if I needed to temp etc and analysing everything. I started to just temp a few days after ovulation just so I could confirm it and then stop I found that helped me. I now have an Ava bracelet so trying that out.

@Tofu35
I don’t temp but with you in stage of the month and thinking everything is a sign. I’m trying really hard to try and chill out until one of the apps on my phone says I can test!