TTC after MC - September 2020 (Thread 13)

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@VP91x look my chart is keeping me at the edge of my seat!!

@Sallyjo27 yes doing all of those too. It’s such a pain in the ass but at least it allows us to pinpoint. My main issue is keeping up with DTD!! We are shattered! Ha! Both my apps (yes I’m using two!! 🤣) say ovulation today. DTD last three nights in a row and guessing I will have to do the same today?? EWCM yesterday and seen some this morning so had better go ahead later ... if my husband has anything left! I’ve always been intrigued by an Ava... I think If things don’t go well this cycle I might try one. Looks like you get loads of info from them.

Good news on the EWCM. Everything I read tells us that this is the most surefire way of knowing you’re in your FW. Get BDing lady! :)

We are both working full time so DTD will have to wait till this evening. Hopefully if we go tonight that will be enough? I hear people saying to do again day after ovulation. What are your thoughts on this ladies?

@Bellabubble well done for being so patient. Last cycle I didn’t test and held out. I ended up having spotting later on so I KNEW I wasn’t pregnant. If you take a test there is always the question whether it’s accurate. So I say wait and enjoy some harmless symptom spotting. If AF comes then at least there’s no question. I’d wait until the day after your longest cycle since Mc. But that’s just me 🤣. And I know how tempting it is. I also work in a bonkers busy school so I know exactly what you’re talking about. It can be a great distraction though. Everything crossed for you my dear 💕 Keep us posted. 😀

Oooooooooooh @Firevie that a great elevation in BBT!!! You’re right this is keeping us all on the edge of our seats! How are you feeling?

Chart looking great!

@KatiePlus3 any symptoms from you? Getting close to being able to test! 😁

@RichmondLady1981 yay for ovulation. I’d say def DTD tonight and if you can then perhaps tmr too just to have all bases covered. I know how hard it is - same for us. We just cba after 3days lol
Thanks 😊 I’m really hoping this is it and my temp stays elevated. Af predicted Saturday / Sunday so I think I will hold out. Let’s see. I’m just taking it day by day for now. 8dpo today! No symptoms I don’t think. Sore boobs gave it away last time but oh reminded me that I got sore boobs a week after missed period last time so quite late so hopefully nothing to worry. Keeping my fingers crossed for elevated bbt and continuing to take my pessaries.
@KatiePlus3 @Bellabubble looks like we will be testing around the same time. When are you ladies testing/af due? Good luck!!! Xxx

Morning all, CD20 over here for my cycle buddies, and ov today or tomorrow. DTD last night and just got a bit of that hopeful happy feeling back 😊

@KatiePlus3 I'm also cd 21 and 7/8 dpo! are you feeling anything? i had some twinges late last night but i don't know if it was just in my head! this week feels so long but i'm gonna try to hold off on testing til next tuesday.

@susiebluebell yay fingers crossed for you!

Hello 😊

Can I join you lovely ladies please?

We've just started TTC #1 again after a break following a MC and then MMC of twins last year 💔

I took Nortistherone tablets to delay AF by a few days in August to as we were going on our honeymoon. You'd think all the DTD you do on honeymoon we'd have got caught but sadly by my usual cycle, AF is officially late and I've tested on a FRER this morning and it's a strong negative. I'm now worried the Nortistherone is going to have messed with my cycle pattern again now (not just the delayed one) after being off the pill for 2 years.

Would love to share this crazy journey with someone who understands xxx

Morning lovelies,

CD32 & 11DPO feeling the pressure to early test for a few days but I didn’t have any FRER in so just used whatever I had haha (desperate times obvs). Got a stark white ofc lols. AF is due Friday according to my apps. Arrr the TWW I get weaker and weaker by the day haha xxx

@HappyVibes ooh!!! So exciting! When will you test again do you think? I haven’t even thought that far ahead just taking it in day by day. Any fun symptoms you’ve spotted ? How are you feeling? Xx

@pinkfizz19 u poor thing, just waiting on my 1st cycle to start after mmc. But having to go through that twice frightens me. Sending big hugs.

Oh you must have so much more self control and patience than me @Firevie haha. In all honesty I think I will wait now until Friday or Saturday. I am taking it as a sign that I have no FRER in for a reason. AF should definitely arrive by Friday (my own calculations predicts tomorrow for AF, but app is saying Friday). So if I wait until then, I’ll be more confident in the result being accurate whatever it may be. How about you date wise testing?

Symptoms wise I vowed not to symptom spot this month so any possible signs, I’ve fully dismissed and not overthought them because I’ve been 110% convinced in previous months ha.

How about you lovely symptoms wise? Xxxxx

@Northerngal20 @RichmondLady1981 absolutely no symptoms what so ever 🤣 I dont feel anything! But I never did with my other babies, never got sore boobs never had different CM always feel myself when I've conceived until the 6th week and then nausea and fatigue sets in! Although the day before yesterday I had a slight pinky tinge on a tissue after having a wee but I said to myself I'm not getting my hope's up xx

@Firevie I'm due AF on 13th October (due date of baby I lost back in February) so Im praying I get a positive to cheer me up slightly :/ it's my birthday thursday aswell and I dont want to test on that day and get a negative and ruin my day either if its negative haha so I'm going to use a FRER friday morning with FMU and I should be about 11dpo xx

@2alreadywantanother Thank you so much for your kind words and I'm so sorry to hear you've recently had a MMC Be kind to yourself. I am really hoping for our third time lucky but I am concerned if i was to get a BFP that it would be overshadowed with worry as I didn't enjoy my second pregnancy as much as my first.

Who would have thought all those years ago in sex ed when they were warning you about contraception etc. that it would be so hard to get pregnant and stay pregnant Sending love to all xxx

@pinkfizz19 100% it will. That's the part I'm afraid of. Not enjoying been pregnant.
On a plus I just tested and got a neg. Only time I'll ever want to see a neg result 😥

@2alreadywantanother It's such a mixed bag of emotions isn't it.

Hopefully AF comes along soon then we can both get cracking on the next cycle xxx

@HappyVibes lol I’m really impatient usually but trying to distract myself as much as I can. V excited for you! Can’t wait to give us the news soon! No symptom spotting here either. I’ve never been v good at it. All I analyse is my bbt which is bad enough I think lol
@KatiePlus3 ooh yay we are birthday buddies too. It’s my birthday next Friday. I’m hoping I will get my BFP before then so it will be the best birthday gift ever! Af is due 10/11th October. So let’s see. Fingers crossed for us!
@PinkFizz19 so sorry to hear about your losses! It’s such a horrible experience but hopefully you’ll find some comfort and support here xxx

@Firevie Thank you so much for your kind words. Keeping everything crossed for your BFP next week xxx

Good morning ladies,

Will be getting my blood test results today for b-hcg, LH, FSH, Oestradiol, SHBG and testosterone. So fingers crossed. Things are all fine. Considering I'm at day 49 of cycle. I am seeing a flashing smiley. Will be testing later in the day to check for peak. Fingers crossed for it

@RichmondLady1981 I'd definitely say do it day today too, play it safe!

@Furbsies I do hope your test results are all good - and on the off-chance they're not, that's one step closer to a solution!

@PinkFizz19 hello, sorry to read what you've been through recently. It certainly takes away the naivety doesn't it? But MC is SO common and unfortunately most of us only find that out when it's happening to us! You're very much in good company here x

Hey girls, how are you all? I'm really hopeful for some bfp this month. Sending lots of baby dust xx

@susiebluebell Thank you so much...that's a very kind welcoming 😊

It is so true..you don't realise how common it is until it happens to you and then you start to talk to people. I truly believe the statistics are more than 1 in 4 pregnancies. I just think that's the amount of people who talk about it. There's so many who won't discuss it.

Wishing you all lots of baby dust for BFPs soon 💖 xxx

@KatiePlus3 @northerngal20 I think we are TWW buddies! I’m currently on CD28 and 7dpo. I’m not symptom spotting (honest!!) but I’ve had some pains in lower back/ovary area, crazy dreams, and something is going on with my sense of smell (hope it’s not covid!). I’ve also just been to the loo and had a pink tinge on the tissue when I wiped - not too sure whether to look into that or not. Also I would assume it’s too early for me to get any actual symptoms? But hey ho!

Hope everyone else is doing well xx