TTC after MC - September 2020 (Thread 13)

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Morning all,

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I don't think I have everyone tagged so please pop yourselves in xx

Hi ladies, I was on the old thread but at the beginning. I wanted to update you all that I got my BFP last week, it’s still early days (I’m anywhere between 4+2 or 5+3 depending on if you go by LMP or ovulation date as my cycles are much longer since my chemical in June so I don’t think going by LMP is right.

I’m excited, happy but petrified. Attached my progression pics from 11DPO & I got 2-3 weeks on a digital yesterday but I’m just petrified the same thing is going to happen but also trying to be happy too. I can’t bring myself to rebook my early scan or contact the maternity unit as I’m so scared I’ll have to cancel them all again.

Just wanted to say for those still waiting on a BFP keep focused and positive and if anyone has perhaps just got one and has any words of advice I’d love to hear them! AF was due on 11th so I’m hopefully over that hurdle now but my gosh it’s so scary

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Congratulations @Littlebee1990 and best wishes for a happy healthy 9 months 💕🌈

Thanks for new thread @VP91x. Hope you are ok?

@Littlebee1990 congratulations!! Wishing you a happy 9 months!

Update for me, had letter through yesterday to confirm internal scan booked for 15th oct to check if everything is as it should be or not. Currently cd32 and my longest cycle so far has been 41 so expecting AF anytime within the next 9 days. BT on Monday confirmed I hadn’t ovulated yet. We have only DTD once since then so unless I have ovulated since Monday I have no hope for a BFP this month. X

@Littlebee1990 congratulations and hope all goes well from here.

@Wishingfornumber2 glad you have a date, it isn’t too far away which is good.

Update on next, AF finally arrived on day 40 yesterday and a proper period compared to last cycle so hoping it’s just a random blip. Will be able to book my 21 day blood test now and a smear that is overdue (doctors weren’t doing it during Covid peak).

@VP91x thank you so much for new thread 👍

@Littlebee1990 huge congratulations- how long were you trying? Did you adapt or change anything since the Mc such as diet? Vitamins? Did you temp and OPK? Sorry for all the questions! 😂 Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy! 💕

Thank you all so so much ❤️

@RichmondLady1981 I started taking Vitamin D when I found out last time and continued that, have been taking folic acid since April. Measured by BBT and also used OPKs, noticed I wasn’t seeing any EWCM so we used preseed this month but that was the only change, and we DTD ALOT.. 5 days in a row in my fertile window and EOD around that 🙈

Gegging into this thread as I had a chemical pregnancy last month and have just got a bfp this morning. Early days, so not getting carried away celebrating yet...

Congratulations @Littlebee1990!

Congratulations @Littlebee1990

Update on me: after 2MC ( one very early so maybe it was cm) and one CM last month, I'm 14cd and bfn. Waiting for cd1 now. But I truly believe 2021 is the year when my baby will be born ...just need to be little more patient. October is approaching which is due date of my first pregnancy, it is making sad as well as being constantly reminded by few pregnancies in my family due at this time:/

I wish you all BFP with healthy beans dears😘

Sorry posted this on the old thread too -Does anyone know what CM would be like 4 days before AF if you had conceived, yes I am symptom spotting lol! Mines been different this morning, I've woken up and (sorry for TMI) is so watery I felt it in my pj bottoms :/ I've never had that before. Maybe I'm looking too much in to it because other than that I have no symptoms of pregnancy apart from feeling a little tiny bit crampy xx

@KatiePlus3 I had that about a week ago (bfp today) but no idea how significant it is...

@VP91x thanks for new thread 😊

@Littlebee1990 congratulations lovely news!

I'm currently awaiting AF's arrival.
Got OH 3rd SA forms and repeat bloods so got to book an apt for those now and then wait for further follow up apt with sub fertility to decide if IVF is our only way forward.
Hope everyone is ok and enjoying their weekends xxx

Hello all just marking my place 👍🏻 Hope you are all well and congratulations to those with BFP ❤️
I’m currently full of cold so I think I’m ringing in sick tomorrow as I’m not prepared to push myself and being in school leave my run down self even more open to covid (2 staff have tested positive this weekend 😩)

@VP91x thanks for the new thread hope to see lots of bfp’s this thread 🤞🤞🤞☘️☘️☘️ @Pugprincess I don’t blame you definitely phone in if your feeling unwell you don’t want to be run down xxx

@HopeForRainbowbaby

Congratulations *@Littlebee1990*

Update on me: after 2MC ( one very early so maybe it was cm) and one CM last month, I'm 14cd and bfn. Waiting for cd1 now. But I truly believe 2021 is the year when my baby will be born ...just need to be little more patient. October is approaching which is due date of my first pregnancy, it is making sad as well as being constantly reminded by few pregnancies in my family due at this time:/

I wish you all BFP with healthy beans dears😘

@HopeForRainbowbaby My cousin told us she was pregnant on the day I miscarried (well, chemical pregnancy ended) last month. She had no idea I had been pregnant, no fault at all on her part. But it's really hard. Try not to stress, 2021 is your year!

@Littlebee1990 @LaMadrilena congratulations wishing you both a happy and healthy 9 months xx

@VP91x thanks for the new thread xx

@Littlebee1990 and @LaMadrilena congratulations. Sending lots of good vibes your way.
Such a nice way to begin this thread

Marking my place to see how you're all getting on ☺️

Congrats on your BFPs @Littlebee1990 @LaMadrilena there is a thread for pregnant after MC which was great support to me in the early worrying days which you (and any other ladies with their BFPs) may find helpful Pregnant After MMC - Thread 2 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/3992849-pregnant-after-mmc-thread-2

Where is everyone in their cycle? Anyone testing this coming week? x

@SmileyT how are you getting on? How far on are you now? Xxx

Thanks for new thread @VP91x how r u doing ?

Congrats @Littlebee1990, here’s to a happy and healthy pregnancy!!

Fingers crossed for everyone else getting their sticky BFP!

Thank you for the new thread @VP91x , just marking my place.
@HopeForRainbowbaby 2021 will definitely be our year!

Congratulations to those with BFPs x

I'm CD10 today - do I have any TTC cycle buddies round about the same time? X

@VP91x thank you for the new thread - hope you are doing ok :) xx

@HopeForRainbowbaby my due daye is approaching too - it would have been early October, and I have 2 friends due to give birth asap - it’s hard isn’t it, and sucky - to put it politely!

I’m due to have my cd21 bloods done this month, so Dr said no ttc - is there a reason for that? OH said what’s the worst that could happen - we could actually be pregnant? Initially he was saying “ahh I’m sad we won’t be dtd as much this month” and I did remind him we dtd other tomes not in fertile week too - so I wonder if he is trying to hide how much he wants a bfp too so that I don’t stress too much. Anyone that has had bloods done - did you halt ttc for that month?

@VP91x thanks for the new thread

@Littlebee1990 congratulations

Update: currently 10dpo will test again Tuesday after a bfn yesterday. Funny tummy the past few days not sickly or anything just strange feeling. Apart from that and still creamy Cm no symptoms. Think this month isn’t mine x

Congratulations to the BFPs! So great to know there’s success after such tough times.

Sorry for those who’ve had BFNs, and especially hard for those who were due soon. Big hugs x

Update from me. 7DPO for me. Ignoring any symptoms as much as possible 😂 One app says AF due this SAT 19th and other says Monday 21st. Not going to bother testing until Tuesday. I may still wait. I get too nervous to test. Anyone else due AF this week? Going to test? 😁

AF due on Sunday. Won't be testing until late. I have EWCM that is clear. Not really sure what that tells me, any clue anyone?

Tjought that was supposed to be before ovulation.

Last time (when I had my MC) I had unusually tender breasts, the more I try relax myself and not stress about it the more I find myself feeling if I'm tender..

@Littlebee1990 congratulations 😍 xx