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11DPO and BFP but super faint line

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bloomety · 09/09/2020 14:23

I've had 2 miscarriages and my last was a faint line at 15dpo. Is this too faint to hope that it might be ok? It has got darker from the FRER I did with FMU 3 hours before.

11DPO and BFP but super faint line
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LittleTiger007 · 12/09/2020 12:35

That’s a really dark bfp! Congratulations @bloomety

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bloomety · 12/09/2020 12:48

It is isn't it little tiger! I'm getting excited now.

Thanks @Emmaa124 Congratulations to you too!!

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LittleTiger007 · 12/09/2020 12:50

I had my second bfp today too! Much darker than two days ago when I got the first!
Praying these both stick! Congratulations!

Emmaa124 · 12/09/2020 12:53

@bloomety no worries and thank you 😊

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bloomety · 12/09/2020 13:28

Oh that's brilliant @LittleTiger007. Fingers crossed for us. How long have you been trying?

@Emmaa124 how long have you been trying?

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LittleTiger007 · 12/09/2020 13:34

I got married last year so we’ve been hopeful since then but I’m getting on in age so we didn’t get our hopes up too high. I had a miscarriage in July (8 wks) so I’m trying not to get too excited. Naturally I’m thrilled again though... small steps. Praying I still have a positive next week and then take it a week at a time. It’s my first.
Have you been trying for long?

Emmaa124 · 12/09/2020 14:47

I had been trying for 6 months since mc and okay I've just done my last digital and got my 3+ result which I never got past 1-2 last time so very happy good luck to you all I can't wait till you all get BFP's ❤️

Emmaa124 · 12/09/2020 14:47

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11DPO and BFP but super faint line
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bloomety · 12/09/2020 15:31

@LittleTiger007 I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage. It's tough. I had one in June and another last year in September. I'm 40 so I know what you mean about the worry about getting older. How many DPO are you?

Oh that's so good to see @Emmaa124 you must be so relieved!

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Emmaa124 · 12/09/2020 15:34

Honestly I'm so relived we both just sat and cried ❤️

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bloomety · 12/09/2020 15:52

Aww I understand @Emmaa124. Have you told anyone yet?

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Emmaa124 · 12/09/2020 17:06

@bloomety I've told my work as last time I miscarried and I work In a pub and it's quite strenuous at the moment so they needed to know and my mum guessed that I was but apart from that no 😊

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bloomety · 12/09/2020 17:12

I've not told anyone. I promised my hubby I wouldn't. I just felt like every time I was worrying about my family and friends worrying about me. Then it was recasting having to tell them the bad news. I've kept it a secret from my best friend and mum since Wednesday!! I'm so proud of myself. We've got an IVF consultation on Tuesday though which I'll have to cancel. I don't know how I'll explain that to my mum and friends Confused without telling them

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Emmaa124 · 12/09/2020 17:20

@bloomety I was super scared to tell anyone and last time everyone knew so early cause the same night we found out we got called to the hospital as other half's brother was in icu on his death bed so the stress from that was too much and we told people, but this tile it's going to be Forrest announcing it when we are past the risk stage, you could always say that your just taking a break from stressing yourself out ❤️

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bloomety · 12/09/2020 17:22

Omg that's awful. What was wrong with him? I'm so sorry.

Oh I can't say that as my friends and mum knew how much I was counting down to this appointment. I think I'll say that hubby said it's too expensive. Blame him haha

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LittleTiger007 · 12/09/2020 21:36

I’m in my 40s @bloomety and I know it’s a miracle that I’m pregnant at all! I haven’t told anyone yet, this evening was tricky as I was at my nephews birthday and a glass of Prosecco as shoved in my hand. My hubby had half of it and he hates Prosecco! The other half was surreptitiously poured into a flower pot! My mum is sure to guess soon, but every extra week I can stay pregnant and keep it a secret is good. They will all worry and probably think it’s too risky at my age.
How wonderful that hopefully you won’t need ivf now!
Fingers and toes crossed for us all.

Emmaa124 · 12/09/2020 22:00

That was last time I was pregnant he had an overdose which his so called friends gave him he nearly died but he's all good now though

Mother2princess · 12/09/2020 22:25

Congratulations

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bloomety · 13/09/2020 10:02

Here's today's progression. It's darker.

11DPO and BFP but super faint line
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bloomety · 13/09/2020 10:03

I meant to say it's darker but not by much. DH says not to worry as HCG levels double every 48 hours not every day

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bloomety · 13/09/2020 10:05

I guess this is better to see the difference. I can see it more on the inverted image

11DPO and BFP but super faint line
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Mooey89 · 13/09/2020 10:12

It’s definitely darker and your DP is right. Congratulations OP.

Emmaa124 · 13/09/2020 10:28

It's definitely darker congratulations 🥳❤️

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bloomety · 13/09/2020 10:37

Thanks ladies. It's nice to get that reassurance as I'm sure you know after having MCs. When I had my son I got a positive test and just assumed I was pregnant. It's so different after loss

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Emmaa124 · 13/09/2020 10:41

Yep it's crazy emotional but good luck to you x

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