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Conception: TTC Baby no1. The crazy lot. Thread 3!!!

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butterfly5291 · 07/09/2020 07:40

Starting a new thread...

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QFT123 · 07/10/2020 10:14

@Mia1985x Thank you - it's amazing the bond you all have. It's not an easy time so it's even more important!

@Originalusername6432762 the worrying is not great at all! It can massively affect my mood for days at a time! I'm going to need to consider some sort of mindfulness activity to help I think!

@Crayon7 Oh goodness, I really hope so!

Stabal · 07/10/2020 10:59

@butterfly5291 that is very strange! It must be the temp today that changed it back? Not loving this limbo cycle 😂

Just want to say hello to the newbies! I'm not feeling too great but didn't want to read and run. Welcome and I hope you all find some support here 💕

LT103 · 07/10/2020 12:37

Hello to all the new people. I love this little group and everyone is so helpful and encouraging. Just hope we all get our NFL’s soon.

I can’t remember who said it now but it’s so true about wishing you had met your partner earlier. I’m now 38 and it’s only in the last couple of years I felt I was in a place where I wanted to try. Took my other half til earlier this year so we only started around 5 months ago. Really wish I’d been in this place several years ago and I wasn’t also worried about timing!!

LT103 · 07/10/2020 12:38

Hahaha. Clearly that was meant to be BFPs 🤣🤣

Originalusername6432762 · 07/10/2020 12:50

@LT103
Yes!
My other half wanted to wait until we had a house, so I had to push that forward really quick and stopped my contraception as soon as we found the place we liked 😂

Sjevin · 08/10/2020 08:53

Hey hope everyone is doing ok? Sorry I haven't been on here for days, been so busy with work, then we've had a mouse in our kitchen and we've been trying to get rid of it. Haven't eaten homecooked food for a week, its just been takeaways.

Anyways I think I am 7DPO today and AF should be here next Tue/Wed. I've had quite a lot of white discharge sorry this, but I've had lots of cramping like AF will be here soon. Feel so down now, its been 13 months since ttc and evey month I try not to get my hopes up so I'm not disappointed.

Crayon7 · 08/10/2020 11:25

So this happened this morning.

Had two chemicals in the past so lines never got darker for me so I am VERY CAUTIOUS

Conception:  TTC Baby no1. The crazy lot. Thread 3!!!
Crayon7 · 08/10/2020 11:26

10 dpo today temps still up AF due Sunday.

butterfly5291 · 08/10/2020 11:46

@Crayon7 I want to say the C word but understand you are cautious. What days did you get positive tests before? Have you had one on clear blue before?

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Crayon7 · 08/10/2020 11:55

Yeah with my chemical in the past had vvvf FRER and digi showing 1-2 weeks on 12dpo and then they got slightly stronger next day and then faded and 16dpo was negative on all tests.

Stabal · 08/10/2020 12:04

@Crayon7 I really want to burst.. But I will remain with a tentative congratulations! Enjoy the moment, right now you are pregnant 🥰 everything crossed for a very sticky bean!

Crayon7 · 08/10/2020 12:23

Thank you ladies ❤️

Sorry to pop out out of nowhere again I know I been rather quiet recently it was due to DIY in the house being exhausting.

Hope I don't trigger anyone.

I want to believe but I am very cautious.

Sjevin · 08/10/2020 12:42

@Crayon7 hope its not a chemical for you and that it gets darker!

LT103 · 08/10/2020 14:06

@Crayon7 fingers crossed for you!!! Hope to see that like get darker!!! Praying it’s a little sticky bean for you!!

Originalusername6432762 · 08/10/2020 16:33

@Crayon7
Fingers crossed for you 😊

CAG14 · 08/10/2020 19:22

@crayon7 ahh really hope this is the one for you!! Have everything crossed.

AF twinges have started today and I lost my shit at my OH at lunchtime when he asked me to wash a pan..... so I think that's the PMS lol! Looks like I'll be drinking this weekend on my bday

crazycatlady1981 · 08/10/2020 19:31

@Crayon7 keeping everything crossed for you!!!🤞🏻Really hope it’s a sticky bean!

Stabal · 09/10/2020 00:14

Hi everyone. My dad's anniversary today (well yesterday technically now it's after midnight) and we scattered his ashes this evening. Was lovely to have the family together especially to see my brother who we haven't seen since Christmas. Very weird day though. 8DPO for me and feeling super nauseous and crampy so think AF will be showing earlier than usual. Probably due to stress. Anyway, wanted to pop on and get the day off my chest lol

@Crayon7 how are you feeling? Do you feel any different this cycle from others?

butterfly5291 · 09/10/2020 07:58

@Stabal glad you had a nice evening all together and remembering your dad. Maybe nausea was just down to stress.
FF still keeps flipping for me between CD23/24, my boobs are starting to feel heavier and have had random stabbing pains between belly button and pubic bone. I know I should wait....but I want to have a glass of wine tonight....only did an IC and stark BFN
@crazycatlady1981 happy wedding day! Hope you have a lovely day.

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Crayon7 · 09/10/2020 08:03

@Stabal so far no, except temp is still high and readying heart rate and also have heartburn every now and then (not sure related)

CAG14 · 09/10/2020 08:15

@stabal i hope you are okay. Im glad you got to spend the day with family and honour your dad the right way. Look after yourself this week. (And always!)

@Crayon7 heartburn is definitely a sign

Iloveoreos · 09/10/2020 11:32

Hello ladies. How is everyone doing. Happy friday.

@stabal hope you are feeling better now

Ladies.. as you know im waiting to hear back from fertility for a letter to book appt etc, but wondering meanwhile should GP have done something? Like to kickstart AF or something? Or do i wait for fertility to do whatever needs to be done?

Originalusername6432762 · 09/10/2020 11:41

@Iloveoreos
I keep bugging my doctor. It's great as I can send messages through an app to them 😂
Every time I talk to her I ask more questions and let her know I haven't got an appointment date yet.
I'm waiting for her to get in touch actually.
No harm in you calling them to see if they know any more!

Iloveoreos · 09/10/2020 11:44

[quote Originalusername6432762]@Iloveoreos
I keep bugging my doctor. It's great as I can send messages through an app to them 😂
Every time I talk to her I ask more questions and let her know I haven't got an appointment date yet.
I'm waiting for her to get in touch actually.
No harm in you calling them to see if they know any more![/quote]
Haha.. well its been only 4 days since i spoke to her so ill wait another week. I was just wondering since i told her i havent jad af yet neither a bfp so should she have given me something to bring a bleed. Its all so confusing 😔 i dont even feel like using opks as no idea where i am in cycle and dont want to waste em

Stabal · 09/10/2020 11:57

@butterfly5291 that's really annoying it keeps flipping. What DPO are you now, 10, 11? Enjoy the wine, god knows we need it sometimes!

@CAG14 thank you 💕 how are you doing?

@Crayon7 heartburn definitely a sign! Are you going to do another test to compare lines or not consume yourself with that?

@Iloveoreos no harm asking them if they could give you something. They will assume you don't know anything about medication to bring on a bleed so won't offer (saves money!)

@crazycatlady1981 happy wedding day!