Disclaimer: Psycho B*tches - Sep Bus 16

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June BFPs - 24
July BFPs - 10
August BFPs - 18

September testing dates:
@mrsbear1122 - August 31st
@Juno231 - September 4th
@LV1987- September 4th
@franklydear September 4th
@frolicmum - September 4th
@florence13 - September 6th
@2020mission - September 8th
@mrsi2020 - September 12th
@vil10 - September 13th
@notyetamumbuttrying - September 14th
@Katao - September 19th
@Laceymermaid - September 29th
@minster2012 - October 9th

@lucyrp so glad the doctors phoned you back!! And definitely get OH to get checked the more you know and sooner the better!! Also i agree!! My OH isn't too shy about things like that but they get off so so lightly compared to us!!

@Minster2012 yep 10dpo today!! I'm going to try and hold off until the weekend!!

@lucyrp oh I see! I wonder if it's just stress for the both of you then. Hard to know isn't it. Yeah they get off so lightly! Men always do in most things I find.
@Vil10 good resolve there and good luck for the weekend!
I'm calling the hospital again today to see if they have any cancellations for today. Otherwise my day 3's are gonna be on day 5! They said 2-5 was ok, but I think my period will be over by tomorrow evening and my appointments at 530!!

@lucyrp ha ha I don't think POAS works if it's got jizz in it! But it's better to have jizz in you than not! It's so spit on what you say about guys though cos when we were doing all the IVF stuff & I had been told that my eggs were basically rubbish, & we might have to consider donor eggs I was obviously distraught but coming to terms with it, get to DH's bit & all of a sudden he broke down & went "what if there's a problem with me?? What am I going to do???" I was like "eh?? You've just watched me get told for 2 weeks my eggs are basically frazzled to dust from my treatment & what we might have to do cos of that & you were like it's ok, now it comes to checking you and it's the end of the world?" He was mortified it just showed his swimmers were "average". FFS.

@Vil10 stay strong 😘I'm waiting in the car park now 🤞🏻

So much luck to you @Minster2012 thinking of you! X

Well I'm in it for the long haul again, my womb scan showed my lining was in between 5mm & 6mm on the 3 measurements so that's not good, it should be over 7mm the week before. Another week on upped estrodil for me. Blahhhhhhhhh and DH didn't even wish me luck this morning he's so wrapped up in his own work WHICH I'm also helping him with cos it's running a business which I help with so my "day off" yesterday was mostly spent sorting his admin on my phone whilst on the beach with my mate & DS I was being so rude.
I'm now going into his office & I didn't bring the extra tablets with me, plus I was followed to the women's & children's hospital by one of his friggin trucks so one of the drivers may twig something.

urgh I'm so blurgh

Thank you @notyetamumbuttrying 😘

Hope it goes well @Minster2012 great to get it done early in the day

I did a frer this morning bfn. No idea where I'm at. Had spotting for a few days but af never arrived but don't even know dpo or anything

Any tips how to make it not look like you've been crying when you've got no make up to hand & you now look like shit?

@katao same for me, at the end of August, I am still waiting, headfuck I started having náuseas again, but is part of my pms, so maybe af is near...
@Minster2012 upward and onwards, don't you dare go down on us, we'll prop you back up, queen

@notyetamumbuttrying @Minster2012 I'm in 2 minds, because these feel like actual af pains but getting them on 9 and 10dpo is way too early for me and my friend who is now 27 weeks pregnant told me that her first symptom was bad af pains and she only took a test because af didn't show up!! So I don't know😩

@Minster2012 so sorry you didn't get the news you were hoping for but at least you aren't far off!! Do they book another appointment for another weeks time to see how thick your womb is then? Also men are a bag of dicks sometimes, they don't have a clue about how we feel when they're wrapped up in their own shit! Dust yourself off and keep your head up x

@Franklydear i know i was thinking we are in the same boat. Frustrating!

@Minster2012 the 😘 so sorry. When will they scan again?. I'm a great believer in a good cry. Have a feel sorry for yourself dayandthenstart fresh tomorrow. Think OH could also do with a bit of a talking to. Like you say you have to do all the hard part so he needs to have your back.

Sorry you didn't get the outcome you wanted @Minster2012 sounds like you're having a shitty time. Feel for you x

@Vil10 take a test tomorrow morning, just make sure it's a FRER.

@notyetamumbuttrying I got a pack of 2 frer last month and have 1 left so I'll use that! My tummy has been really funny too these last 2 days and just had a wave of nausea, sometimes a bad tummy can be a sign of af too, it's all such mind games!!

Morning ladies, well I've just started brown spotting and cramping at 4dpo so I am definitely out this month. I am on cycle day 74 so at least AF is on her way 🤷‍♀️
Hope you're all okay x

@Vil10 can't believe 3 of them phoned me back and then said we're so unorganised and I was like hmmm that's the problem in the first place! Trying to get him to the doctors is a pain he keeps saying "I don't want anyone looking at my willy" and I'm like hun how do you think I feel 😂 although because I've had a child all my dignity immediately left my body as soon as he popped out 😂

@notyetamumbuttrying they definitely do!

@Minster2012 I tried it anyway and got a blank circle which is whag I was expecting ! I really enjoyed having jizz in me I must say as I was expecting us to miss like a whole week because I'm still being off Standish with OH following our argument the other night about having sex. Typical bloke!! Oh no sorry to hear about your womb lining ☹️☹️

Awwww thank you ladies!
I had a wander round Tesco, wanted to buy something nice & shitty to eat to make me feel better & some make up so I didn't look like shot but the make up counter bits were all locked up & I was in such a shitty daze I couldn't even find a cheese pastry twist or anything 😂🤷‍♀️so I just bought pizza for tonight instead
@Katao yes I have another scan for next week at 1pm and upped the dosage of estrogen but I don't have them with me to do it now which is stupid of me, but she just said "then we'll just do it the week after that no matter what" whereas previous they always said "it was a waste of an embryo to put it into a womb of less than 7mm the week before transfer as that means it Won't be 8mm at transfer.

Ah well. But I'm laughing now as I'm pretty sure I just stood in shit too 😂🤣🤔see exhibit A. So hopefully the ladies & guys at the office will look at that rather than my puffy face 😂

@Katao so you d had spotting & bfn eh another mindfuck. What???

& @Franklydear still not knowing! I thought you'd have AF or knowing by now??

@Minster2012 bird shit is lucky, maybe maybe dogs is too 😂
Everything is a waiting game isn't it. Honestly my cycles are being so ridiculous I'm not feeling very fertile. Don't know why I wasted the test (she says....off to buy some more 🤦‍♀️)

Hey ladies I was on your chats many threads ago! I've followed every single one even though I've not commented for months. But wanted to jump back in as feeling soooooo shitty & this is the only thread that actually cheers me up & makes me smile! There's such a good bunch on here! I'm not going to bore you all with what's been happening but long story short, I finally fell pregnant after 15 months of trying, had it all confirmed on a CB digital & it said 1-2 wks, then on Friday at 5wks I started bleeding & lost it! Fucking gutted. So back to square one I go.
@Minster2012 I'm so sorry to hear that the scan didn't go to plan, there's nothing I can say to make you feel better. & sounds like both our OH's are being shit about everything atm, when I went bk to hospital yesterday morning to have scan & get the loss confirmed mine didn't even msg to see how it went, he forgot!!!! His excuse was he's sooooo busy with work. Well fuck you then dickhead!! Obviously work was more important 🙄 I'm so angry at him! So high five to shit unsupportive OH atm ✋🏼
@Runnergirl1 @DKDK123 im sorry to hear about your losses aswel ladies😔
Right I need to get on Amazon & order more ovulation sticks, Coq10 & some DHA. Time to start shagging again soon once this bleeding stops!

Welcome back @Chlo2701 but I'm so sorry to hear why. What an absolutely shitty thing to happen after so long trying. Hopefully you catch quickly again x

@lucyrp they're a nightmare doctors surgeries sometimes, it's like it's not the type of place for you to be unorganised!! hahahaha that's so funny😂 oh god I can imagine, I once had a little cut in my vag that obviously I got mega worried about, ended up just being from "wear and tear" and just needed some cream😂 but I had a female and male doctor and 2 trainee nurses looking inside with a torch and my legs wide open, I thought well I have no dignity after this!!

@Chlo2701 so so sorry to hear about your loss!! I can't imagine how you feel, but hopefully you'll catch again soon and this thread can cheer you up along the way!X

So, I need someone who is good with the RHR and TTC kinda stuff, I'll attach my rhr from my Fitbit from this last week and month and someone please help and tell me if it's looking good or bad, currently 10dpo

@lucyrp they're a nightmare doctors surgeries sometimes, it's like it's not the type of place for you to be unorganised!! hahahaha that's so funny😂 oh god I can imagine, I once had a little cut in my vag that obviously I got mega worried about, ended up just being from "wear and tear" and just needed some cream😂 but I had a female and male doctor and 2 trainee nurses looking inside with a torch and my legs wide open, I thought well I have no dignity after this!!

@Chlo2701 so so sorry to hear about your loss!! I can't imagine how you feel, but hopefully you'll catch again soon and this thread can cheer you up along the way!X

So, I need someone who is good with the RHR and TTC kinda stuff, I'll attach my rhr from my Fitbit from this last week and month and someone please help and tell me if it's looking good or bad, currently 10dpo

@Vil10 thank you! And no 10dpo isn't, though I'd personally wait a couple more.

@lucyrp yay finally something happening for you!

@Minster2012 thank you! Yes I finally feel hopeful again as opposed to expecting disappointment 🤞🏼 really hope it amounts to something. PLUS I've got in some reinforcements (see pic). Pretty sure the Oreos will make me preggo!
Ahhh sorry you didn't have the outcome you wanted! So frustrating, but it WILL happen. And it's ok to have a bleurgh day x

Welcome back and so sorry @Chlo2701 that's crappy. It's good you've come on to talk x

@Chlo2701 welcome back and that's absolutely fucking shit! I'd be hitting the rooooffffff mate he sounds like my OH!! I've been going mental at mine for being too cold about things they just don't get it but considering you're going through a loss! The least he could do is contactvyou 😩 literally those things make my blood boil I want to argue with him for you!! Grrrrrr

@Minster2012 ahhhh I'm so sorry that's super shit too for fuck sake why is nothing straight forward? Love your attitude towards it though you're so strong! I have a sneaking suspicion ill have to go the iui or ivf route so now I just feel like the next 4 months is a waste of time lol but hey fingers crossed I get pregnant before January otherwise it'll be another process! I feel so bad for you and my sis it's just so annoying x

@Chlo2701 so sorry lovely, we are always here for a good rant!

@Minster2012 ah gutted for you, stupid womb not being juicy enough, how dare it! Hopefully all goes to plan with the oestrogen and you're super thick and juicy next week 🙏

Here here for the OH rants! Mine is shitting himself about getting his SA appt through... I used it as ammo when getting him to DTD yesterday as I said if he gets me pregnant bow then he doesn't have to go! Think I peaked Monday night so hopefully ovulated yesterday and will DTD a couple times just to be sure.
Off to Edinburgh Friday for long weekend so all about the drink til it's Pink!

Oh no @Chlo2701 and yup high five to the shit OHs FFS 😩😫they literally can only fit one thing in their heads at one time I think 😂so sorry to hear about your loss and sad to see you back but you are very welcome back

@Newbie0818 ive just got myself an awesome looking Oreo brownie 😂😳hoping it will impregnate me by eating it. Not make me fat!

@Missgoldilocks don't feel bad & keep shagging ' & wanking 😂there's still hope!

@SarahTTC2020 that's made me laugh so much!! I know how dare it right!! Have I not drank enough shit ass fruit Pom juice???!!