TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)

[VP91x]

Evening all 💕

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@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@Pugprincess
@IWM20
@Lollol86

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@VP91x
@MrsK21
@MichT4
@Hayley19835
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Northernsoul90
@Firevie
@chloedancer897
@Happyvibes
@Bl0ndi3
@eclipsechips
@Will867
@Jazper
@susiebluebell
@Cici89
@Fingerscrossedfor2021HK
@ladysamee
@Sully84
@LAcain
@gizmo167

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Good luck tomorrow @Lollol86. Can't wait to hear how you get on!

@VP91x 🥳🥳🥳 to the ovulation!! Keeping everything crossed it was all you needed to catch, and everything else has fallen into place.

@HappyVibes I can see another line but I didn't even know digital ones had lines. God knows how I thought they worked 🤯. Really hope you get a clear result on Sunday when you test again

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@Lollol86 oh no what a horrible dreams to have. I'm sure everything will be great at your scan tomorrow. You'll be just over 6 weeks right? We go on the 14th. Crazy to think I could potentially be pregnant then. I'm going to end up getting carried away with myself. Xx

@Runnergirl1 my partner is like that, very much does not like any pressure at all or knowing about ovulation. It's quite frustrating because then they double guess if you're instigating it. But if you wait for them to do it then we'll never pregnant haha. Fingers crossed sending you so much luck for this cycle too. Xx

@MichT4 🤞💕💕

Hope everyone is well and having a relaxing Friday Eve! I'm just catching up now so glad it's the weekend!!

@HappyVibes Sorry that it wasnt bfp this morning but as you said it's still early so still definitely not out yet!! 💕

@BEESY90 Amazing news lovely 💖 hope all is well with you xx

@MinnieMouse4 Still have my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼 xx

@MrsK21 I'm sorry that af arrived 😔 you seem to have a really positive outlook though which is great! Hope you are okay ❤️ its good that you have a had a first proper cycle now too after how long you were waiting after mc xx

@MichT4 Good idea I also feel out the loop, I'm back at work this week and have been mega stressed and not able to keep up with everyone as I normally would! I really hope af arrives for you soon 🤞🏼🤞🏼 Im 11dpo today and af is due Sunday/Monday, I'm planning on testing Monday/Tuesday 🙏🏼. How is Loki getting on? Xx

@HappyVibes Just seen your test post.. I can see something for sure 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

@VP91x Thank you for that 🥰 I will let her know. Woo hoo 🥳 I have everything crossed for you! Great news xx

@VP91x thanks for the info. Used my last cb digi stick today and still flashing smiley so not sure if or when I will ovulate. I have had quite a lot of cm so hopefully that’s a good sign. So happy for you that it’s been confirmed you have ovulated 😄. Really hope this is your month! X

Hope your scan goes ok tomorrow @Lollol86. X

@MichT4 @Wishingfornumber2 thank you xx

@VP91x I will be 7 weeks tomorrow. I really hope you are pregnant by then what a lovely treat that would be. Are you looking forward to a little holiday? We were looking at booking Butlins next year.
The dream was horrible, just praying it's good news tomorrow, my fear is it will be an empty sac. I hate that I have to wait all day xx

@Northernsoul90 thank you lovely 💕 hope you are okay x

@Wishingfornumber2 difficult isn't it when you aren't sure. Just try and do a random guess. I'm sure you won't be too far out.

@Lollol86 I know hopefully the girls keep you distracted until then. Yeah it'll be lovely to just be away without distractions and just have a little mental break. Praying for non rainy weather. I'm really sure everything will be okay ❤️the odds are always in pir favour to have a healthy pregnancy regardless of past experience xx

@VP91x so chuffed to hear you ovulated! And sounds like you have yourself covered too! So happy for you. Fingers crossed for a little September BFP for you xo

Anyone good at interpreting these bloody BBT charts? What do you guys make of this?

@VP91x fingers crossed you don't get rain but if you do put on some wellies and go jump in some puddles, Bella will love that.
I know the odds are in my favour but it still doesn't make it any easier. I was not this nervous after my mc before I have Neve. I think it's because I've had 2 now and you never expect to go through it once let alone twice xx

@chloedancer897 your chart looks so fab!! Your temps are skyrocketing! Thank you, I have everything crossed. Just have to (im)patiently wait now xx

@Lollol86 yes absolutely! Of course, I'll be thinking of you tomorrow. Let us know when you've been ❤️

@VP91x I will do lovely xx

@MichT4 the last two temps were after night shift so I don't know how much to rely on them 😐😐

@Lollol86 good luck for tomorrow xo

@chloedancer897 thank you and really hoping for good news from you too xx

@VP91x how amazing re your scan! So super chuffed for you. Nice and reassuring for you too that the OPK was bang on so you can trust them. TWW now for you then woohoo 🥳 Fingers crossed for you lovely!

Ooh where does it say how many miu? Never heard of these things sorry...so the lower the better? Thank you! Xxx

Hi @Sully84 thinking back to before my MC, I had lots of CM around when AF was due and afterwards. It was so much that I actually thought AF had arrived but when I went to check there wasn’t anything there. A couple of days later is when I got the BFP. I’ve never had that symptom before. Keep trying with the tests, I have everything crossed for you. Xx

@VP91x I am made up with this bookmarking lark. It has changed my life lol. Thanks for the info on the luteal phase, I didn’t know that. I have just checked the info on my apps for my previous cycles and it seems to be bang on 14 days. Looking at this cycle then the earliest I could have ovulated was 12 days ago (the day after I stopped using OPKs) so AF isn’t actually due yet....meh!

Congratulations on ovulation! I have everything crossed for your BFP this time around and sending lots of lucky baby dust! ❤️ Xx

@Northernsoul90 thank you! I’m thinking positive but if AF comes then I’ll be happy to know that I have had a normal cycle post AF xx

@HappyVibes sometimes it says on the packet. Sometimes you have to check the brands website for the full descriptions. But yeah the digital ones with the weeks indicator from clearblue are their most sensitive test. The lower the number the better thats why people use first repsonse alot because they are meant to be 6.5miu.

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@MinnieMouse4 haha yeah it is so useful. Ah that's good then, at least you kind of know when you're officially late. There's so much to figure out with our cycles xx

Hahah I’ve had my moment of madness now....crazy woman let loose for a while this evening wow haha. My emotions were all over place. But I’ve researched into it and I know not to take anything from it...lesson learnt not to be a freak and just follow instructions lmao. Although it was a nice pick me up & reminder for my optimism and glimmer of hope. We will test again either Sunday or Monday 😘

Good luck to the ladies testing tomorrow. @chloedancer897 your temps are looking insane! I have a very good feeling for you with these wow. 💓

Thanks @VP91x I did want FRER but I couldn’t blooming find any in Asda or Tesco this evening - I need to nip to town tomorrow so I’ll pick some up from boots or Superdrug. At least it’ll stop me testing tomorrow. Xxxx

@HappyVibes nothing wrong with being optimistic! The digital ones are unreliable before AF is due. When are you testing again? When is AF due?

I've never temped before so I don't know what to make of it. I'm just waiting for the big drop to be honest

@chloedancer897 to say you’re so many DPO and still high temps is so good!

We will probably test daily now just because I know what we are like haha. Even though I know we should leave it till Sunday...We will see. One app says AF Sunday & one says Monday 🤷‍♀️ but I can’t call it nowadays post MC. Have you decided on tomorrow? What test have you got? Xxx

@HappyVibes no I'm going to hold off until Monday, I'm out with my daughter tomorrow and working Sunday so Monday is the only day I could do it. AF due Tuesday for me. I went overkill with tests the last two months and started getting line eyes so if I get the BFN on Monday then I'll know AF is coming as pla. SD

@chloedancer897 well done girl for being sensible with the testing. I wish I could be so’s throng with my mindset! I know in my head I should, I just cave. I need to take inspiration from you for this strength and willpower. Enjoy tomorrow lovely 💓

@HappyVibes thank you so much xo fingers crossed for you tomorrow. Did you get some early response tests? I've also heard the cheap Asda and Tesco ones are good!

@chloedancer897 honestly your temps look fab, sending you lots of luck for this cycle. Monday isn't too far away! I hope your daughter has a nice day for her birthday xx

@HappyVibes good luck for your test this morning xx

Morning ladies.

Sorry I’ve been rubbish this week at writing. I’ve been reading every day on the tube and excited to see some possible BFP!!! Good luck to those who are still to test and sorry to those been visited by dreaded AF. I’m so overwhelmed by how positive you guys are. I totally agree about starting a fresh cycle and being grateful that our bodies are finally getting back into sync.

@HappyVibes
I definitely saw a line. All the best for this morning. Everything crossed for you.

@chloedancer897- your chart looks like it’s taken the extra rise up which is really promising!! Amazing chart!!!

@VP91x. Amazing news on ovulation! I’m due to ovulate In 2 days but let’s see 🙏🏼🙏🏼

@Runnergirl1
This same thing happened to us last night! So much pressure for the guys but us too! We can’t just leave it to chance!!! Well done on making it happen. I’ve got another two days of it! 😬

@Northernsoul90
I understand how you feel- I was also at work and feel out of the loop. Need to keep up with chat much better from now on! Have to say that it’s nice to be back too for the distraction. Are you teaching?

@MichT4
Hope AF arrives for you soon!

@Lollol86
Hormones wreaking havoc with your sleep and dreams! All the best with you scan today.

Sorry if I’ve missed anyone’s comments. Frantically trying to get back into the loop! So a bit of an update from me. CD 18 of a 32/33 day cycle. Close to ovulating now so in FW. DTD but like a few other suggested it’s not easy when DH knows it’s because of TTC and not for fun. I understand but still, needs must! Wish me luck for later 🤦🏼‍♀️ Might have to spice things Up a bit. 😂 💃 Flashing face on CB so waiting with bated breath for the static so can properly go for it this month. I’ve always ovulate slightly later into my cycle and then fell into the trap of googling short LH phase. What a minefield. Mine usually 10/11 days which isn’t great but I’ve been told it’s enough. Any knowledge or experience on this?

CM playing tricks on me. One day it’s clear. Then goes creamy again then back to clear. Good job I’m using OPK otherwise I’d be super confused. I’m temping too so i think it’s a good way to pinpoint.

Quick question, at this stage I’ve read it’s good to test twice a day for LH? In case you miss the surge? What are your experiences?

Have a very happy Saturday and all the best for those testing. B A B Y D U S T 💫💫⭐️⭐️✨✨