TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 11)

[VP91x]

Hi ladies 🥰

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@VP91x That all sounds positive re the tests and scans, it will feel good to have a plan in place and be moving forward 💖! Xx

@Diorissimo1985 Thinking of you this morning 💖 hoping and praying for a good outcome for you xx

@SmileyT Good, glad you are getting on okay ☺️. I'm good, 2dpo today so in the tww - trying to keep distracted! Xx

@chloedancer897 I would day you have definitely ovulated with your static and the temp dip/rise 😊. Don't panic! And you've dtd plenty so are more than covered.

@VP91x I've actually been wondering about my temps - they have risen for the last 2 days but I thought they should go over what your previous temps were? I did have a big dip though so maybe it's just taking longer to rise back up. I've put a pic of my chart on xx

Caved in tested, bfn as I knew it would be, I'm officially done with it all, I've held in to glimmers of hope too many times !

@Northernsoul90 oh my god, super impressed with how many times you have DTD! lol I can't get my DH to DTD more than 2 days in a row usually 😂

Thanks ladies, yes still spotting today and really achy. Bit of cramping too.
Thinking of you all too xx

@Diorissimo1985 what time are your bloods? I assume it'll be another 2 day wait? xx

@gizmo167

Caved in tested, bfn as I knew it would be, I'm officially done with it all, I've held in to glimmers of hope too many times !

Oh dear, I wouldn't give up yet, I know it's stressful but it's still really early days! Not saying that to give you false hope, I just think often our bodies will do their own thing till they're ready with regards to testing this and that. Hugs x

On my end things are looking surprisingly normal, I've got all my usual pre FW symptoms on time, increased cm, facial nerve pain (from an old operation - handy telltale). In all honesty I'm a bit surprised as it's my first cycle post MC. May it continue 👀

@susiebluebell I know I sound so deflated but I just desperately wanted to see those two lines, I know its too late now and honestly the MC was probably my last chance! I hope all works out for you this month xx

@gizmo167 how many DPO are you? It might be too early. I know it's so easy to feel deflated. I totally gave up last month but was able to jump back on the horse a few days later. Seeing a negative test is so horrific, especially when you pin all your hopes on it. I hope you're ok xo

@chloedancer897 Poor DH is knackered now 😂 we will definitely be having a break for a few days xx

@gizmo167 Sorry that is was a bfn it's really hard to see 😣. It still may be too early to test - everyone is different and you aren't out for definite until af arrives. Hope you are okay 💖 xx

@Northernsoul90 good for him though! My DH is drained. I think if I mention DTD one more time he will cry!

Thanks everyone, again so sorry for the negative vibes!

I don't know for def when or if I ov, we just dtd at least every other day, usually I see a lot more ewcm between cd16-19 so assume ov round that time, in either case would assume by now that test would show positive, it's just so hard!

@gizmo167 try and stay positive, you never know what's coming over the next few days 🤞🏼

@Diorissimo1985 how are you doing?

Do we have anyone testing soon? How is everyone? xx

@MichT4 thanks for checking lovely - bloods were at midday and it was actually the second lot (had first lot last week as soon as I got faint bfp as GP ordered them straightaway). So results by Friday afternoon apparently x

@Diorissimo1985 it's annoying they take that long. I'm sure everything is fine and have everything crossed. How are you feeling? Any subsidence in the spotting? xx

It’s the longest wait isn’t it @MichT4
It’s more pinky cm now than spotting? But the pain has got worse - so I’m none the wiser!
How are you getting on? X

@Diorissimo1985 hopefully it's just irritation or something. Not long until you know.
I'm fine, looking forward to knowing tomorrow. My bloods are at 11 and they said I should know tomorrow afternoon. I'm a little worried because my temp dropped last night. I wouldn't normally wear it if pregnant because I don't want the worry, but as I'm cautious of the result, I haven't stopped yet. So now I'm worried if it was ok, now it might not be. But I can only wait until tomorrow now. Trying to remain hopeful as no one has told me I'm not pregnant yet. It's hard though as I assumed I knew what was happening until yesterday xx

@MichT4 @Diorissimo1985 fingers crossed for you both that you get some answers.

@Diorissimo1985 pain can be normal too. It's so frustrating because early pregnancy symptoms and MC symptoms are so similar. But you'll hopefully know by Friday and I have everything crossed for you.

@MichT4 have you tested any more or are you just waiting for blood results? Why do they take so bloody long to come back!?

Where is everyone in their cycle? I'm CD14 today, think I may have ovulated last night (but who is to know anymore!?) so stocked up on the Pom juice and onto the second half of my seed cycle. Taking Calc Fluor now too along with all the other vitamins. Fingers crossed for everyone x

@chloedancer897 I'm quite lucky as I should get mine the same day, so I should have more clarity this time tomorrow. No I'm not going to test now, there doesn't seem any point. I'll worry if it's faint still, or negative, and I don't want to spend the next day panicking. Especially as I've already prepared mentally for it not to be. Plus, I don't have any blue dyes in, and the pink ones hate me 😂

Ooh the TWW begins. This is exciting! Looking forward to seeing your temps climbing tomorrow

@MichT4 you're just right. I wish I had your patience! I'm 100% not testing this time unless my period is late. Last month almost killed me. (Watch this space though.... I'm forever going back on my word).

@chloedancer897 it's easy to say though, as the days get closer it gets more and more difficult. I think I would always prefer waiting for AF but temptation is a bugger 😂

@MichT4 @Diorissimo1985 I have everything crossed for you both 💕. The waiting is a killer and just adds to all the stress doesn't it 😣. Thinking if you for your bloods tomorrow @MichT4 xx

@chloedancer897 We are both in the TWW wait now 🤞🏼 are you 1dpo? I'm 2dpo today xx

@MichT4 I have my fingers crossed for your blood tests tomorrow xx