TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 11)

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@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@Pugprincess
@IWM20
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@Lollol86

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@MichT4
@Hayley19835
@Mommybear05
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@Renna
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Wishingfornumber2
@Northernsoul90
@Jazper
@Bellabubble
@Firevie
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@MrsK21
@LKMH
@Happyvibes
@Bl0ndi3
@Lemondropsandgumdrops
@TJM123
@eclipsechips
@Will867

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@HappyVibes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you just made me literally LOL! Funny old time ay!? I'm sure the tests are all just being dicks and I'm not PG, but it's comical - have to laugh or I'll cry xx

@MichT4 I'm not surprised you are feeling like that, it's the waiting around and not knowing that's the hardest part. I really hope af shows her face before the end of the weekend.

@HappyVibes yes girl get dtd, sending lots of baby dust xx

[quote 2020wish]@MichT4 yea so strange as that blue dye one is definitely positive no denying that and I can’t see anything on the frer... but then again frer never picked up my pregnancy either. If that Tesco one does infact end up being a false positive than that is completely shit on Tesco to continue to sell these tests . If I were u I would spend money one last time on clear blue and try again tomorrow even a digital as u feel a digital should be picking up by now and forget the pink dyes altogether[/quote]
I agree @MichT4 do another good quality test tomorrow!

@MichT4 what is happening with that OPK?! 🤯
The Tesco one looks properly positive to me. Gaaaah this is so confusing!

@Pugprincess @HappyVibes yes fingers crossed the baby dust makes it way to me ASAP! Xxx

@MichT4 omg how is that opk possible? Xx

@susiebluebell yeah I will do. I'll go and get the ones I used last week later on

@MrsK21 @Lollol86 😂😂 you couldn't make it up! For the record I absolutely think my body is super confused and it's not a pregnancy. The Tesco one is weird because I think it's a false positive but it is actually darker than the one I got last week. So it's a very intelligent shit test.

I'm excited to wear Ava later and see if she backs up this balls malarkey or if my temps are low again

@MrsK21 I think your few months of your body's resting phase has gathered a whole load of baby dust for you. She's ready now to catch a lovely sticky bean xx

@MichT4 oh my goodness you must be so confused (as am I!) I honestly don't know what to think/suggest other than contact your GP Monday as you already are doing - they may take bloods to give you some answers! Sorry you are in this limbo it's really frustrating xxx

@HappyVibes @MrsK21 Woo to static! Get going ladies haha! It does feel like a bfp 😂. I'm on my 7th flashy this morning 🙈 and my temp has dropped a lot to 35.95 from 36.20ish most days so I kinda thought it would be a static. I'm just hoping now though that ovulation happens at my usual time of cd19/20 which will be Monday or Tuesday xx

@Northernsoul90 yeah hopefully the doctor will have words of wisdom!

A temp drop could mean ovulation is coming. Remind me if you are also doing cheapies?

I'm really annoyed with my sister (the one I went away with). She was really good all holiday about everything and was really supportive. I've just told her about my test this morning and she just said I need to let my body recover from the miscarriages and relax. Couldn't have said anything more triggering to me today. Basically now I'm not with her she has the balls to tell me she thinks we are trying too soon and all the crap about relaxing. It's really peed me off.

As if it's not hard enough and you have people you think care saying stuff like that to you. Aarrrgggghhhh 🤬🤬

Anyway.....😂

@MichT4 it's easy for someone to say that who hasn't been through what you have and are still going through. If only it was that easy right?
Also having a mc makes you want it more as you have fallen pregnant and then it gets snatched away xx

@Lollol86 exactly. I am also just annoyed as I feel she just lied to me with all her positivity all week. Clearly she wanted to tell me it was way too soon. I've told her that I wouldn't have tile her about the faint lines if we weren't away with them and that from now I won't be saying any more as I can't be arsed with other people's judgement.

Oops, emotions high after that! xx

@MichT4 my gut is telling me u are pregnant and that frer aren’t ur friends like myself. That Tesco one and opk suggest hcg!! Deffo get clear blue and no more cheap or pink dye. I know exactly how u feel about ur sister. My best friend hit me with that nonsense when I had my chemical in may but I told her straight in a nice way that I didn’t appreciate her telling me I should hold off for now for she is not in my shoes and her commenting things Like that does not help me or make me feel like I want to share the news with her if I was to get a BFP again. She quickly apologised and minded her own business x

@MichT4 what a head f**k. I'm so sorry you're going through this. That first test is 100% positive. Maybe get some bloods to check your hcg? You read all the time about people never getting positive tests! But the bloods will be more accurate x

The Ava was great. I love it! I was so excited this morning to sync it 😂

@MichT4 good for you for replying with that. It's actually no one else's business. We haven't told anyone we were trying again, family and close friends have asked me but I just said we haven't decided what we are doing yet. We aren't going to tell anyone until we get our 12 week scan out of the way and see a healthy baby. Xx

@MichT4 also sorry about your sister. I think people just don't know what to say and end up saying the wrong thing. I'm sure it was from a place of love, they don't know how triggering words can be xo

@MichT4 there is definitely a line I would say wait 2 days and retest don't count yourself out yet stay relaxed so long as you have no bleeding and cramping its not over yet.

@MichT4 and If you think your sisters words were harsh I would avoid gp as that what I was told after my 2nd mc. She also said I should not worry until I'm basically near 40 as if she knows what I have planned for myself or how many kids I want.

@2020wish I love your positivity, and I'd love for you to be right. I think sadly that my hormones are just a little confused and I think it's probably going to turn out to be negative. I'll hold on to some of that hope though

@chloedancer897 yeah I'll ask for them to do blood tests on Monday.
Haha it is always fun syncing it. I like looking at my sleep too.

@2020wish @Lollol86 @chloedancer897 yeah she's really upset me actually. I know she probably means it well, but it's just not ok really. I screenshotted this the other day and it's exactly right.
@Lollol86 I wish I hadn't had to tell her but of course I had to being away with her. She wanted prosecco out the minute we arrived 😂. I think once you've MC people assume you are trying again. It's wrong really. I have told her I'm going to stay off the alcohol now so that i never have to explain myself or raise suspicion. I feel teary now xx

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@MichT4 sounds like there could still be some hope this month for you 🤞🏻 it all comes good. I’m still getting a tinge in discharge this morn and little specks. My friend had it with hers though and she was ok. Aslongs it’s not like before I try not to worry but I’d be a lot happier if it wasn’t there. Husband has just majorly pissed me off to the point of me moving into the spare room and no it’s not my hormones he’s done something very disgusting. Why does he always stress me out around the 6 week crucial time? He did this last time too. I’ve ran a bath and will try to calm down.

@Pugprincess what's happened?

@MichT4 hopefully u will have answers either way come Monday. So annoying, I dunno how u must be feeling.

@Pugprincess what’s he done? I hope ur ok x

Let’s just say bogies on our bed and on floor next to his bedside table! I had a word about it earlier in the week and he’s done it again. Reckons he’s done it subconsciously or in sleep?! Maybe I’m overreacting but I think it’s gross and I work hard to make our bedroom nice and that’s how he treats it. I refuse to share that bed with him until he changes the sheets and books his ideas up. I feel like I’m with a man child 🧒

@Pugprincess like actual snatters wiped on the bed an table? Get away. I’d expect that from a toddler not a man child. No way I would be livid at a grown ass man doing that

@MichT4 I totally understand why you told her and if I was in your situation I would too. Your emotions are high anyway because of all of this and it doesn't help people saying stuff that you really don't want to hear xx

@2020wish one was on bedsheet and one was rolled up in a ball on floor by his bedside table!! Worst part is I have tissues on my bedside he can easily lean over and grab one?! I don’t buy the sleep thing or subconscious thing. He reacted really badly when I confronted him and stormed off into the garden!! Even had the cheek to deny it and imply it could be me?! Since then he’s hoovered the whole house but he was meant to anyway as I can’t. I don’t know what to do. It’s not exactly divorce stuff but I can’t deal with that. I’ve told him before. This is not the first time unfortunately