TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 11)

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@HE88 thank you, I'll definitely keep an eye out if it happens again!

@Sully84 welcome💕 sorry to hear about your loss. Thank you for sharing your experience, I reckon this might be the same for me actually. X

Thank you everyone for your congratulations!! 🥰 I've not caught up with everything today as it's been hectic!

@Sully84 welcome, I'm really sorry for your loss 💕. Wishing you luck in your ttc journey xx

Morning all.

@Sully84 welcome to the group and sorry for your loss.

So I tested with an FRER and an Asda cheapie. I'm 99.9% sure it's a BFN. I thought I could see squinters but there's no way by this stage I should see squinters! I want to know where AF is!! I'll call the docs Monday and see what they suggest xx

@chloedancer897 how was Ava?

@Diorissimo1985 have you tested again? Did you speak to your doctor? xx

@MichT4 that is so frustrating, there definitely was a line on previous tests. Definitely call the doctors Monday xx

@MichT4 how are you feeling about it all? Xx

@Lollol86 my overriding emotion is frustration that AF hasn't arrived. If it wasn't to be, that's fine, but I don't want this unknown. My later MCs cleared out quickly so for a possible chemical to take this long is a worry.
I was a bit hopeful it would be positive today so I'm a bit sad, but to be honest I had also totally prepared myself for a negative so I'm fine about it. Just want to be able to try again so need AF to show her face!!

I really hope they do something on Monday that makes me feel supported and that I won't be waiting forever.

How are you today? xx

@MichT4 so sorry to hear. I’ve been lurking every day waiting to see if u had tested again. U def had lines on the previous ones. Had the frer a line today? As they were completely negative before? Maybe try a clearblue tomorrow since that’s what u were testing on before? Fingers crossed the doctor on Monday is helpful

@MichT4 That must be so frustrating, I was waiting around to see what would happen for you too. And even though you'd mentally prepared yourself to be disappointed or confused, it doesn't stop the reality. Hope the docs can give you some real help on Monday!

@MichT4 bless you lovely, you’ve been up & down in this TWW. Was it the pink dyes that weren’t responsive for you early on, or the blues? I think calling the GP is a wise decision as then they can do a test for you at their end & if still not BFP, they are the best places to advise what may be happening. Sorry you’re still in limbo lovely. Hopefully you’ve still been able enjoy your time away. Be kind to yourself today xxxx

@MrsK21 @Northernsoul90 how are you lovelies today with your CBD/OPKs? We got our peak this morning & felt like I was getting a BFP haha! So we had 5 flashies, then a static. So thankful for this, as I was hoping so much that we wouldn’t have a repeat of last month’s 10flashies hahaha. Xxx

@2020wish thank you for checking in on me. I thought I saw a faint line on FRER but I also definitely think I have serious line eyes. I was tempted to go and get a Clearblue and use smu but I think I'm just wasting my money. I think a FRER should have been clear by now.

@susiebluebell thank you. You're right it doesn't make it much easier, but at least it wasn't a huge fall back down to earth.

@HappyVibes thanks Hun, it was the pink that never showed anything when I was getting the lines on the blue. But I'd have thought over a week after my first faint blue that the pink would show.
Yes I had a lovely week away, just wish I wasn't coming back to this, but here we are! I'm going to treat myself to loads of holiday washing today 😂

How are you all? xx

@HappyVibes yay to peak! We are ovulation buddies I hope!
Last night I got an almost peak on my femometer strips after drinking lots and this morning got my static smiley 😊 so I had 3 flashies and then my static. Honestly I agree it was like a BFP for me too. Hoping my temps rise to confirm ovulation over the next few days too xxx

@HappyVibes @MrsK21 🥳🥳🥳 get going girls!! Great news on your statics! xx

@MichT4 sorry to hear this. You have been through it recently. Hope you have had a nice time away. Hopefully af will show her face soon for you. There is a lot of waiting and hanging around in this ttc lark isn’t there and to be honest it sucks. But hopefully everyone’s wait will be worth it in the end 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@MichT4 ah I know hun I can imagine. Tbf although it’s a chore, it’ll feel good after you’ve done it all. Maybe yourself to a pamper session or online shopping or something that’ll make you feel good in between the chores. Maybe plan something for tomorrow to help keep you occupied rather than being in limbo for another day.

@MrsK21 amazing! Woohoo. I have a really strong feeling that this will be our month girl! May 2021 babies 👶 We have had so many signs that this is meant to be our month. Sending you lots and lots of baby dust xxxx

@MichT4 have u got pics?

@HappyVibes I can always be convinced with online shopping. We might go puppy shopping today, and later picking up an exercise bike so it'll be a nice day. I hope to get AF soon so I can join you on the May baby bus 🤞🏼

@2020wish here are the two this morning. Nothing to be seen on a pic on the FRER. Probably not IRL either. I have complained to Tesco about their tests as I think the false positive reviews must be right xx

@2020wish itchy pits are back today after being MIA all week 😂

@MichT4 sorry it’s not got stronger 😔 I hope you can get some support Monday. X

@HappyVibes @MrsK21 congratulations on your statics, baby dust to you both ❤️❤️ @Northernsoul90 hope your static isn’t too far behind 🤞🏻

@MichT4 yea so strange as that blue dye one is definitely positive no denying that and I can’t see anything on the frer... but then again frer never picked up my pregnancy either. If that Tesco one does infact end up being a false positive than that is completely shit on Tesco to continue to sell these tests . If I were u I would spend money one last time on clear blue and try again tomorrow even a digital as u feel a digital should be picking up by now and forget the pink dyes altogether

@MichT4 I dunno if it’s up putting itchy pits into my head but I’ve had itchy pits all week lol

And for laughs, an OPK 😂😂

@2020wish yeah I will probably get the same CB I've been using and see what it does. I'm sure it's a false positive from Tesco but I might as well check again I suppose.

Thanks @Pugprincess I think and hope the doctors are good and get things moving quickly. The way they've been suggests they will do 🤞🏼
How are you? Any more spotting? xx

😂😂😂 @2020wish we can start our own club xx

@MichT4 my head is blagged now you’ve just shown that OPK! What on gods green earth is blooming happening. I really think you might still be well and truly in the game and just be having a shocker of a time with these tests. Ride it out till Monday & test again with a digital CB one OR wait till GP to test. Blimey!!!!xx