TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 10)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies ❤️

BFP list
@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@calimommy
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@Pugprincess
@IWM20

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@VP91x
@Runnergirl1
@Hayley19835
@Mommybear05
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@Renna
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Wishingfornumber2
@Northernsoul90
@Sallyjo27
@Jazper
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@MrsK21
@LKMH
@CasperFlamingo
@Scrambledeggy
@Happyvibes
@Bl0ndi3
@Lemondropsandgumdrops

Update on me - there is no update 😂 CD20, not even a sniff of a positive OPK and no temp rise. Will have bloods done in the next couple of days. Gynae appt on 16th Sept is the plan xx

@fafi thanks lovely, looking forward to test tomorrow xx

@Lollol86 congratulations 🥳

@Firevie ahh I'm sorry AF arrived but definitely enjoy the wedding and catching up with lots of family and friends while you're home, it will be lovely for DH to arrive tomorrow and give you some much needed support x

@VP91x @chloedancer897 glad it's not just me that didn't do the dating, marriage, baby thing in order 🙈 OH asked me to move in after our 4th date, then I fell pregnant 3months later 🤪 the storms should be heading my way soon then, I've got home after the longest bus ride (3 stops but got stuck in shedloads of traffic) had a cold shower, now laying naked in front of the fan and still roasting 🥵

@MichT4 i actually didn't use any of my CB early detection, still got the triple pack unopened so I'm going to vote FRER for Thursday morning as they worked for me. On another thread I'm on we decided that Oreo choc in the TWW was essential for implantation so that sounds perfect 👌🏾

@chloedancer897 bath bombs sound lovely, although maybe a luke warm bath in this weather, so lovely your family is so supportive... so much love there and I'm really hoping when you start pursuing private treatment it's when your body decides to give you that 3rd child you so deserve x

@HE88 sorry you are feeling rubbish and I know it's so cliche but you really aren't out until AF arrives I find having hope in the 2nd week of the TWW is so hard but really helps if you can hold onto it a bit x

@2020wish I feel like your time is flying and mine is slowing down, in my head you'll catch up with me soon 😂

@Firevie ohhh sorry you are feeling so rubbish but let the tears out. It's always hard when af turns up especially your first one. Just remember you have lots of support at home and here xx

@fafi I went for a drive yesterday just to get some air con time. Do you have to wear a mask and gloves to learn? I saw a learner on my way to Superdrug and she had all the gear on 🥵

@SmileyT good shout for naked fan action, not so much if it isn't working.

I think I'll use frer tomorrow morning (makes me feel sick thinking about it). Though I'm sure that if it's white as snow I'll blame the test and then do a CB to get a double whammy
Oh good, I knew there was a reason I bought 2 bars 🍫🍫 xx

@2020wish surprisingly no! It is 25miu in the triple check pack and 10miu on the weeks indicators. Makes no sense!

@MichT4 I got a pack of oreo biccies 😍 will have some later with a cuppa instead of dinner.

@HE88 I would absolutely test anyway, especially with the difference in RHR. I'm okay, I've had my bloods done this month. My specialist appt is on 16th Sept so waiting for that xx

@Firevie sending you a massive hug, totally okay to have a cry. Go and get some chocolate if you can or some wine ❤️

@SmileyT I was just thinking of you actually! Haha, no definitely didn't do things in the right order. I'm still waiting for a ring too, haha🙄..
Oh no way! Were you back in Chingford or did you go to TH to get the bus back? Xx

@VP91x @SmileyT 🙋🏻‍♀️ also waiting for a ring

@SmileyT @MichT4 how much oreo choc is necessary for implantation if you probably haven't ovulated? Asking for a friend 👀😂 xx

@VP91x an Oreo dinner sounds fab. We are having Chinese 🐷😫 xx

@MichT4 omg, chinese 🤤🤤🤤 xx

Thank you @SmileyT @Lollol86 and @VP91x this group is so amazing! You were the first ones I turned to when af arrived
I think I underestimated the impact the first af would have
I have updated my premom app now and it puts me around 18sept for ovulation now / does that sound about right? DH seems to think that’s too long and ovulation May be earlier?! What says you? Xxx

@Firevie that's over a month away! Definitely too far away.. What's your normal cycle length? Xx

@Firevie it might be a bit confused because the MC will look like you have a long cycle maybe. I'd have thought it'll be earlier than that

How long are your cycles normally?

I'm so glad you are home with family and friends for AF's arrival. You have so many things to look forward to (aside from the drive maybe) so I hope you are suitably distracted. When do you come back here? We are always here, wherever you are in the world xx

@2020wish that's good they are keeping a close eye on you xx

@SmileyT ah I know but it's the same routine every cycle I do try to hold onto some hope. Hope you and baby are keeping well how far on are you now? Xx

@VP91x yeah I'm going to test so I know either way! Fingers crossed for your appointment next month xx

@HE88 thank you, I hope it ia good news on your test. When do you think you will? 12dpo?

Thank you, I just want all the drugs now, haha zx

@VP91x love how you’re my resident doctor / fertility expert here haha. Cycle lengths have been irregular since I started my new job in Nov. Cycles ranges between 30-52 days....I’ve attached some pics. Note I didn’t have one this March and fell pregnant in May after my April period so that cycle length is showing as super long as I’ve had my period in April, none in May June July because of pregnancy and mc - does this all make sense?

@MichT4 aw thanks so much hun so sweet of you. Have just posted a pic of my cycles from my fitbit app. As you said the last cycle is super long cos of pregnancy and mc.
When do you ladies suggest I start testing with cheap OPKS? My Fitbit is putting my FW between 3-9september and ovulation on 8 September / sounds more like it?! Have to say my Fitbit got my ovulation right in May when I fell pregnant and that too without any OPKS results on there
What do you ladies think?

I’m coming back on 1st September so just in time to be back with DH for ovulation lol 😂 he is only here for a week xxx

@SmileyT hahah I feel like I’m miles behind u and time is going to so slow. Feel like I’ve been pregnant for ages cause I found out at 7dpo lol

@VP91x so strange why they put that one in the triple check 6 days early pack lol I’ve always held off using my weeks indicator thinking they were higher sensitivity lol

@MichT4 ur like me, I just tests every day with an frer, clear blue and cheapie alongside each Other lol frer always stayed negative tho.. I really wanna know why they did that on me tho lol annoying

@HE88 thank u. Fingers crossed for u when are u going to test

Just got a few pains on my left groin there :( scared me a bit but they went away when I stood up, maybe laying awkwardly?? So tired also so I’m taken myself up to my room with my new pillow I bought which is amazing and the fan on and going to take a nap. Knocked over my nail polish remover bottle all over the floor so it’s smells rank in my room but literally now energy to even sort it lol the joys

@Firevie I would say OPKs just in case because your body is still settling and you might have a 30 day cycle or anywhere after. So maybe from CD12 just so you can track what's going on? Especially when you've ovulated on CD17 on some of your shorter cycles xx

@2020wish I know haha, I hope you have a nice nap! Don't worry too much about the niggles and stretching pains. So much is going on in there even though bean is teeney xx

I've missed the thread today and a lot of chat has gone on, just trying to catch up now! ✨

@Firevie So sorry that af arrived lovely. Definitely look for that silver lining though with your hormones going back to normal - a perfect excuse to have a drink and enjoy yourself at the wedding! Xx

@MichT4 Sorry that you've had a bad day - this heat seems to add so much stress as well doesn't it 🥵. I hope the headaches are a good sign for you 🤞🏼 xx

@Pancakes7 The brown blood should just be old blood cleaning out and nothing to worry about!! I know it's such an anxious time and easy to say try not to worry, I bet you're on pins. That's so lovely for your garden ❤️ xx

@chloedancer897 Hope you are okay I know it's hard seeing af arrive xx

@HE88 Nice to hear from you! Hoping for a bfp for you soon.. like the other ladies have said you still aren't out until af arrives 🤞🏼 xx

@VP91x thanks so much! You always know what to do and that is so helpful. I have asked DH to bring my cheap OPKS from home so I can start testing from cd12. Let’s just hope this means I get back to 30day cycles and ovulation on cd17 so at least I don’t have to wait too long.
What cd are you on? Are you doing OPKS every day? Xxx

@Northernsoul90 thank you hunny! I’m in your club now lol
What cd are you on? How many days post ovulation did you get af? Xxx

@VP91x and @2020wish I'm going to test tomorrow morning no point in drawing it out I guess. Also @VP91x yay to all the drugs lol. Xx

@Northernsoul90 thank you we shall see what happens tomorrow. Hope you are well. Xx

@MichT4 mega jealous of your Chinese What are you having? we just had sausage, mash and veg (little ones favourite) finished of with a random twirl I found in the back of the treat cupboard xx

@Tink20058 twirl is a fantastic chocolate choice. I'll be having chicken curry and fried rice. It's amazing from this place, never had a curry sauce like it.
I also love sausage abs mash. We are in an empty the fridge mode ready for holiday so take away is the only option 😂

Girls.....😂😂😂