TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 9)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,

Fingers crossed for lots of BFPs this month as we are definitely due some!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@calimommy

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@VP91x
@Runnergirl1
@Hayley19835
@Mommybear05
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@Renna
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Wishingfornumber2
@Northernsoul90
@Sallyjo27
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@LKMH
@Cici89
@Blondecomment0703
@CasperFlamingo

I'm CD11, waiting for something (anything) to happen this month 😂. Only taking my Inofolic Alpha this cycle and nothing else.

Hope I've tagged everyone xx

I have my fingers crossed for all of you ladies currently in the tww 🤞🏼🤞🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 we are desperate for some more bfps!! Baby dust to everyone 🌈✨

Sorry @IWM20 just saw this. So nice to hear from you, massive congrats ❤️ I hope this is a super sticky bean for you xx

@Northernsoul90 that's good that it has lasted a few days and if you've always had light periods then maybe it isn't too off from your usual xx

Hello everyone, its been a few days since I have been on since by BFP. What an eventful few days I have had. I had a seizure and hit my head hard and fractured my neck :( so painful. Then to top it off. My partner turned round and said he never actually thought I would get pregnant because of my PCOS and has walked out. Does anyone have any words of encouragement? Positive news I have a scan on the 22nd. -Sorry this is a self centred post . I am going to catch up now x

@BEESY90 oh I am so sorry to read this. That is awful of your partner - so he happily continued ‘trying’ because he didn’t think you’d fall?! How are you holding up? Good luck with your scan on the 22nd

@BEESY90 omg, firstly I'm so sorry you have had the worse few days. I hope your neck is ok?
Sorry but why did your so say that? I'm shocked anyone could do such a mean thing to you especially in early pregnancy, is it shock or do you think he generally means it?
Sending you the biggest hugs xxxxx

@BEESY90 WHAT??? Are you ok? What made you have a seizure?
What on earth with your partner? Has he actually left?? I'm gobsmacked! I don't know what to say!

I am so glad you are well enough to update us, and such lovely news about your scan. Not too long to wait. How far along will you be?

xx

@Pugprincess thank you for the tips 🤞🏼 xx

Does anyone else who already has a child/children find themselves obsessively comparing things from that pregnancy to any current things?! I keep looking back at my temping chart from my daughter and comparing what they are now to the ones back then! This was my chart with her - I had mistakenly thought my temps were higher in the 2WW with her but actually they’re very similar at the moment so hoping that’s a good signs that things are ‘working properly’ and even if I don’t get a BFP this cycle that it’s a good sign anyway?

Oh @BEESY90 that’s awful. Do you have some family or close friends for support? I hope he comes to regret that! And I hope you are recovering from your neck ok. Take it as easy as you can xxx

@MichT4 @scrambledeggy @Pancakes7
Thank you ladies ♥️ I am struggling but it's not even been a week yet so I'm probably expecting too much of myself. I'm just conscious of time because if I do wanna TTC this cycle then we need to start DTD soon as I'm "CD8" now and I'm just feeling a little anxious and confused at the moment.

I 100% want to try this cycle though, I know that much. How have everybody's cycles been since their MC I normally ovulate around cd18 or so because my cycles were around 32 days... have you found you ovulate similar time scale since MC or have they been haywire?

My sister has had a miscarriage before but she's actually the last person I want to talk to about it so I haven't and won't. I am glad I have all of you lovely ladies who do get it otherwise I'd be an absolute mess! My OH has been supportive but he's not the most empathetic or emotional guy so I feel like I'm running out of time with him being understanding because whilst he gets I'm upset to him it's just a setback we can try again it didn't take that long the first time (8 months!!!!). He does get it tho and I've explained it to him so I am probably being silly but I'm trying to be strong whenever he's around and only let myself fall to pieces when he's not.

@BEESY90 oh my god, what on earth!? Fuck, did he actually leave you? That's insane. I can't believe he's done that! Have you heard from him since?

Even worse after your seizure, I really hope you're okay. Do you have friends/family nearby who can be with you? Xx

@Bl0ndi3 hey lovely aww this is time to get excited again girl! So we had our MMC in June - ovulated CD18 (counting the first day of the medication bleed as CD1). We tried that cycle & we were successful after just 2 weeks from the MMC so it was amazing! It was unfortunate ya chemical but still gave us so much hope and faith!

After that I had a MEGA long cycle but I think that’s because of the chemical rather than the MMC.

Good luck girl with the cycle this time around. This so exciting now girl. Sending you lots of healing vibes & positive fertility dust. Your hormones will be soaring right now so you’ll be mega fertile so keep the spirits high 💓

@BEESY90 Omg!!! You poor thing! That sounds so painful and scary. Do you know why you had the seizure? I can't believe your OH has said that & left?! You must have got pregnant previously before your mc and he now isn't interested? That's so awful. I can't believe he would do that to you. I hope you've got family/friends around for support. X

@BEESY90 I'm so sorry to hear that babe! What a prick!!!! How are you feeling now??

How are the rest of you?? Things have been crazy busy for me but all is well - I've been struggling with logging on to MN which is why I've been MIA but I'm back now. I've missed you guys 💕💕

@BEESY90 omg I e just woken up to your news? How come you e had a seizure? Is it okay now??
Fingers crossed for your scan on 22nd!
Now to that awful partner of yours - like WHAT?! So he never wanted children but didn’t tell you? I don’t understand.
Make sure you talk to someone if you can and take care of yourself and the bean xxx

@BEESY90 Bloody hell, never mind self-centered, how you are managing to be so positive about things when you've broken your neck and had your partner do that to you is a miracle! If you can still think about the future when things are like this, I bet you can overcome anything. Still crap though. Wishing you healing and certainty. Do you have a pre-existing condition that can cause seizures, or was it out of the blue?

@Bl0ndi3 If trying to be strong gives you strength because it makes you feel like you're protecting your OH, go ahead, but if it's because you feel embarassed than just let it out. My OH is also one of these strong silent types who will just look sympathetic and bring me a cup of tea when I'm sad, so I end up feeling ridiculous, but for me (and this is just me mind) it's so much more cathartic to get upset openly.

Boobs even more painful today , but no AF yet.

@IWM20 wow! Your super fertile... congratulations 🥳 hope this is what you say! Third time lucky... I’m sure it will be 😃 good luck 👶🏼

@BEESY90 omg, hope your okay? Did you go to a&e? Do you have a history of seizures or this completely new? Do you think maybe your OH is just a bit freaked out as he didn’t expect it to happen so he’s just got to process it all. Maybe he’s a bit scared/nervous about this new life change! I’m sure he’ll come round to everything and apologise. Just rest and take it easy.

So today I got my static on CD10, compared to my CD20 last month? Seems so strange. Anyone have an opinion on this? Haha! My af finished on CD5, we dtd CD 6,8&9

@Rb486 that’s amazing woohoo super happy for you to be at your static now. So good that you’ve been DTD already too, so already ‘have a few in the bag lol’. Fingers crossed another 1 or 2 today/tomorrow & you’ll have a BFP this time in two weeks eek! 💓

It’s completely common post MC for cycles to be a little different. My ovulation has been a bit shorter / longer the cycle after. Sometimes even without MC it’s common & even healthy to have 1 or 2 cycles that are a little different to the usual for you.

Your body is completely doing it’s thing which is amazing. & perfect that you’ve covered all bases. So excited for you now girl woohoo 💫 💓

@scrambledeggy the sore boob situation 🤔 & when is your AF due? You had CM too right? So hard not to symptom spot but these were my 2 major symptoms for my BFP. I’ve got my fingers crossed for you - sending you lots of excited & motivated super high vibes 🧡

@Rb486 when I conceived I got static and we DTD that night and the night after, we had also DTD 4 days before my static also. So I'd DTD tonight too if you've got static this morning give yourself the best possible chance x

@scrambledeggy I think it's more that I don't want him to think I'm wallowing and that I'm not ready to TTC. He's fine about it all, he doesn't need protecting, but I just know after a certain point he will start thinking I just need to get on with it if I'm just openly crying every day in front of him so I'm just trying to hide it and be strong around him and falling apart when he's asleep or downstairs lol

@HappyVibes thanks lovely you're so positive I love it!!

@VP91x those temps are crazy stable, will be clear when you ovulate though, what day did you ovulate the one before you started taking the soy iso? randomly took my temp this morning and it was 36.95 🥵

@BEESY90 I literally read your message about 10 times to try and understand but I'm just blown away, I could understand if he is just in shock that it happened quicker than expected, when you say he walked out was it out of an argument or actually out of the house for good? Please look after yourself and this little bean and if there is a risk of more seizures I hope you're not alone ❤️

@Bl0ndi3 for me, pre-MC cycles were around 28days and post MC they were 31, 27, 28 and think last cycle would've been 28. First cycle I ovulated CD18 but the following ones were CD14/CD15 but everyone is different. We started DTD on CD6 after surgery but don't rush yourself if you're not ready x

@Niisa hi 👋 how are you doing? Why so busy? x

@Rb486 crazy the difference in dates of your static, no ideas why but just go with it and hopefully it's lucky for you x

@SmileyT I know they are so freaky, haha. Just had a look back. The last cycle I ovulated without soy iso I got a peak on CD19 (I'm CD20 now) and ovulated CD21. Oooh, that's a super high temp. Even FF has given up on me now 😂. Has work been okay? Xx

@Niisa hey lovely, how comes you've been so busy? Hope you and bean are well xx

@MichT4 how are you this morning lovely xx

@BEESY90 really hope your ok sounds like your having a really rough time ❤️❤️❤️ Xxx

Hey @VP91x. I'm fine thank you, tired as usual 😂. WFH today as we have a guy in sorting some snags, he'll be gone soon, then I better actually do some work. Temp went up a bit again but as they go up, my hopefulness comes down 🙄😂

How are you? xx