TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 7)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,
I'm missing loads of testing days, so just let me know your updated days if you have one and I'll make a note xx

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa

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@fafi- 17th July
@2020wish- 17th July
@fafi- 18th July
@HE88- 19th July
@Rainbowhope11- 20th July
@GraceG26- 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby- 21st July
@Renna- 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985- 26th July
@VP91x- 26th July
@Rb486- 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2- August?
@Northernsoul90- not testing
@Sallyjo27
@bxiiboo
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Banbi
@busby85
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Chickoletta
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@Sjk89
@Emsnewmum
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992

Update from me CD20, 3DPO (I think) 🥰.. Nothing going on at the moment, will wait impatiently for the next week xx

@Will867 sorry for your loss and welcome to the group. I found my pre AF symptoms changed after MC and became more like PG symptoms, which is normal for some, but I'd never had them before (like sore boobs). It seemed so cruel that after losing a pregnancy, my body would trick me each month. Now I try and read nothing as a symptom of anything. It's so hard to know how to feel after MC, but you're in great company here and I hope you find it a supportive place to be

@Rainbowhope11 so sorry to hear about your skin - must have been a pretty quick reaction to have stopped already. I hope they find an alternative for you. When are you due to see the doctor?

@VP91x I am baffled. Unless this now is implantation and you disregard to previous temp dip? How typical to get a UTI at this time, just to confuse things. Do you have a picture of your chart? I'm sure it's still fine - think about @SmileyT's advice and her last chart 🤞🏼. How are you feeling? xx

@vp91 I am confused as I can't find your older messages?? Are u pregnant again and this has happened?? I had this blood wiping with the 1st vaginal miscarriage on the 22nd June...it was exactly the same as this every time I wiped then I passed the baby about an hour later? Sorry if I sound like I'm putting a big dampner on things I just can't find your older messages to read your story hun xxx

@micht4 what does temperature dip mean?? Does temperature mean something?? I'm confused xxx

@vp91 I hope I didn't sound negative about comparing it to my MC it could quite well be implantation bleeding if u are pregnant...I got implantation bleeding the first time after 10days ...stay positive hun xxx

@Jodiem1990 yeah going to give them a ring at 8 when they open. I use the web version instead of the app for Mumsnet. Maybe see if you prefer it?

I hope you feel a little anxious over the new pregnancy soon. Is it really painful? Would you be able to contact EPU if you're concerned?

No it's okay! I'm about 5/6dpo so just in the wait at the moment before I can test to see if maybe pregnant Xx

@Jodiem1990 if you track temperature, it confirms ovulation occurred as you have a temperature shift after ovulation. Temps post ovu are higher than before.
Sometimes, you can get a sharp temperature dip a few days post ovu which can be a sign of implantation (called implantation dip).
@VP91x has her temperature shift but it has dipped - could just be fluctuations, could be implantation. Obviously alongside the spotting we are hoping it's a snuggling embryo 🤞🏼

@MichT4 I know so odd, what I thought were UTI symptoms have now completely gone. I just have a bit of twinging. Absolutely nothing when I went for a wee this morning, that pinky blood was just the once last night, never had anything like that before 🤷.

This is my chart now, yeah it is completely weird this cycle. Bodies are just 🤯🤯🤯.

How are you today? Xx

@vp91 5/6 post ovulation?? Sounds to me like that is deffo implantation bleeding as they say it can happen anytime between 7-10 days but I'm sure it could be earlier...wouldnt a test pick it up now?? I'm okay it's just like period pains..to be honest I never had a period since my surgery on 7th June so the last 2 week's I put the pain down to "starting my first period" But then it never came so I took a test because my boobs are really sore.

Spoke to EPAU yesterday and I'm there first thing in morning so I only have to wait 24hours now, I did tell them about my pain and they said if it carries on then to ring them back because they may need to admit me to the ward, I am just going to try and go with the flow and pretend I'm not pregnant at the minute because that way I can't be disappointed or hurt (if you know what I mean) xxx

@micht4 see wow u ladies know more than midwives haha...how clever is that. I never knew you could track by temperature etc aww @vp91 if there's no bleeding today then that's a really good sign. .fingers crossed but it sounds very much like you have conceived 😍😘

Xxx

@Jodiem1990 from what I've read on (non)trusty google is it can take up to 5 days to have a positive test post-implantation bleed if that is what it was. Going to try and hold off until Friday/Saturday to test.

That's good that you are there tomorrow morning, I'm sure everything is okay! Probably just early pregnancy twinges etc? For today, try and relax, look after yourself xx

@VP91x they are! Why can't things be textbook?? Now I'm wishing the days away til testing date. What do you plan to do? Will you call your doc today?
I still think the dip could be promising, especially as both have happened alongside the spotting. Maybe it latched first dip, and has now really gotten in there 🤞🏼

I'm fine thank you. Working at home today and need to do a food shop too. Might go for a walk as well, I feel so sluggish after a day in the office as I just move from car to desk and back again.

Much planned today? xx

Awww @vp91 that's just given me goosebumps...I am praying that it is implantation and that you have got to share this moment of finding out with us all...although I am so so impatient and will be stalking this page now waiting to see the results when you test, thanks hun I am not gonna think about it (try not to anyways) they will prob just do blood tests tomorrow anyways and prob get me in 48hours later to see if my levels and doubling as they should...But like I say I'm not holding my breath xxx

@MichT4 I don't know, I don't want to drive myself crazy testing daily. Tomorrow is 7dpo, Thursday would be 5 days pre-AF according to FF so I think I'll hold out until at least then. Depends what my temps do tomorrow I suppose!

That's good that you are WFH today. Yeah definitely get out for a bit, it's sunny again today which is nice.Did you do any OPKs yesterday? Not much planned today! Xx

@VP91x yeah I just decided to go with North Mid because it actually looks like the best place round me and just thought maybe it wouldn't matter what hospital had told me about the MC it still would've been traumatic. How are you feeling this morning? Anymore pink when you wipe? What was your temp this morning? Maybe coverline was a bit high because of gradual temp rise 🤔 attached my chart for you to have a look at but some serious dips in there (I marked one abnormal so it would give me a coverline) I was sure I didn't ovulate give it until Saturday and then do a test and don't lose hope before then. I've got Pom poms out for you x

Welcome @Will867 I'm so sorry for your loss I'm sure a lot of us understand the sadness that comes with AF arriving. The pregnancy I MC I was actively avoiding pregnancy so thought it would happen straight away when I tried aswell 😕 x

@Jodiem1990 thank you, I hope it is too🙏🙏

Stay positive about your tiny bean, I know you want to have a degree of self preservation, but stay hopeful ❤️❤️

@SmileyT ah that's good! I'm assuming you just self-referred? This time you'll be there in much better circumstances ❤️ not that it's relevant but I had my gallbladder taken out there and they were great, haha.

It was 36.13, nothing at all this morning, completely fine. Feeling okay just a bit twingey and like a dullness if that makes sense. Yeah going to really try and hold out as much as my curiosity will let me 😂. How are you today? Xx

@VP91x definitely don't let every day. Hold out as long as you can. Without the first dip, your chart is very similar to @SmileyT, and we know how that ended up 🤞🏼

I didn't OPK yesterday as I had drunk too much really. And I planned to hold after I got home but I was desperate 😂
I'm holding now so will do one about 11 I think xx

@MichT4 I've only got two FRERs, 1 CB early digi and 2 CB digi week indicators so don't want to waste them anyway. Oh and the 30,000 femometer ones. 😂

Haha yeah, holding is annoying for OPKs. There has to be a better way. Finger prick test daily? Xx

@Will867 Yeah it's only very early on after your mc so don't worry it usually takes a little while cycles to get back on track. Your cycles sound pretty regular to me which is a good sign 😊 xx

@Rainbowhope11 I'm so sorry the Provera didn't work, how frustrating 😞. I'm glad you've got an appointment at least you might be able to get some answers from them 🤞🏼 hope you are okay xx

@VP91x Im with @MichT4 in that your chart is similar to @SmileyT id maybe disregard the other dip as an anomaly... our bodies don't work as clockwork every month as we all know too well 😂. Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

@VP91x or just they LH can't be diluted. And HCG for that matter. Then it'd be way easier

😂😂 so many femometer ones. I just ordered the OPKs in the latest batch otherwise I'll be tempted to test daily when I do get a bfp again xx

I got a flashy smiley this morning ladies... please keep your fingers crossed that I don't get the smug flashy for days and days on end 🙈😂

@VP91x here’s a theory... iso flaves that u used can caused numerous eggs to release?? So maybe you have two implantation dips and two implantation bleeds because there is two

@VP91x £3.70 😱 crikey so it’s pretty much liquid gold at this point 😂 I will try anything though so I better drive to tesco soon. Making casserole in my slow cooker this as part of my healthy eating. Also been walking dog lots so last two days hit 10k steps on my Fitbit. I will post some pics of my meals I’ve been having x

@Rainbowhope11 aw I’m sorry is didn’t work for you :( let us know what your gp advises x

@Northernsoul90 oooo that was super fast after your negative hcg yday! Hope for me yet!

@Will867 welcome and sorry about ur loss. You will definitely find support here and basically answers to anything ttc related