TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 6)

[VP91x]

Hi lovelies,

Gorgeous to see some more BFPs!!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Chickoletta

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@Jazper
@Sunflower1988 - 8th July
@ManchNic - 11th July
@elliew818 - 11th July
@AC2020 - 11th July
@Eli2020 - 11th July
@littletandme - 13th July
@mrsssk - 14th July
@Rebecca1992 - 14th July
@fafi - 17th July
@chloedancer897 - 17th July
@Lollol86 - 17th July
@2020wish - 17th July
@fafi - 18th July
@HE88 - 19th July
@Rainbowhope11 - 20th July
@Bellabubble - 20th July
@GraceG26 - 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby - 21st July
@Renna - 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985 - 26th July
@VP91x - 26th July
@Rb486 - 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2 - August?
@Northernsoul90 - not testing
@Sophj19 - not testing

@Banbi
@busby85
@calimommy
@Quail15
@Re6ecc4

Update on me CD12 - in FW waiting on ovulation. On Soy Iso this month and doing a (reduced) SMEP approach. 🥰

Anyone else would like to join please do xx

@Girlmum83 thank you 🙏🏻

@Girlmum83 how r u?

@Pugprincess aspirin advice verifies. Some advise taking it from around 3dpo. Some advise taking it from your first BFP. I took it from 3dpo as I lose my pregnancies early and feel it’s too late to make an impact starting it once I get the positive . X

@2020wish ah ok awww good luck fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻 Will be watching and waiting for news x

@Pugprincess thank you. If you have anymore questions you know where I am :) xx

Ladies, i am 11 dpo and BFN.

I was searching online for info on when most bfp are noted so I thought I will share it with you ;):

10dpo: 35%
11dpo: 51%
12dpo: 62%
13 dpo: 68%
14dpo: 74%
15dpo: 80%
16dpo: 88%
17dpo: 92%
18dpo: 99%

I'm expecting to see bfp even on 9 dpo but with first pregnancy I got lightest line on 11 dpo. So indeed before AFP arrives you are not out ladies 😘

@HopeForRainbowbaby sorry about ur bfn. But those are good stats! As and as I said before in my previous pregnancy I tested negative right up until 14dpo!

@2020wish I’m doing ok thanks . Just Taking each day as it comes and trying Hard to stay positive . Re scan on Monday so slightly nervous About that but again trying hard to keep anxiety at bay . In process of de cluttering and packing up in preparation for moving house so that’s been a welcome distraction 😊

@Girlmum83 so excited for ur scan! Yes keep up with the distractions. But don’t be doing to much either. Precious cargo onboard. X

@hopeforrainbowbaby

Thanks for that info im only 9dpo and have started testing ( don't even think my tests are the advanced ones! ) and got a BFN

Ive never tested this early before but after 2mc I've just become impatient hehe.

Last time I didn't find out till about 6 weeks cos I think I got a negative after period was due and just thought mu cycle was messed from the mc. I then had sore boobs thought I was ovulating but I was pregnant!

Wish this tww would go faster but at the same time I'm finally back at work Monday so don't want to wish my remaining days off away xx wishing you look for your bfp! Xx

@2020wish thanks lovely, everything crossed your line only gets stronger 🤞🏻

Thank you @MichT4 it's such a drag isn't it 🤦🏽‍♀️. There was still a line but ever so faint, basically could be mistaken for an evap line. I could probably get away with calling it a negative and stopping testing but I want to see it go stark white so I don't get any confusion on the off chance we conceived again before af.

I know we do! Great minds think alike 😉 @MrsK21 I think I am going to do the same, I'm rubbish at taking my temp. I either forget or remember too late but have the same thought process as you in that I want to wait until my cycles have regulated to get one. I dont think they work effectively with irregular cycles or so I've heard.

@2020wish I can see the line 🙏🏼🤞🏼

@2020wish there is definitely a good line there, especially for 9dpo. I'm so happy for you but I know how you feel with the anxiety too. I'm only now starting to accept my pregnancy at 9w.. just take it one day at a time is the obly advice I can give. Each day is a small victory! So we will celebrate this victory of a bfp today! Congratulations ❤

Is this the right opk? These are also on offer not sure if anyone needs any 😁

@lollol86

These are what I have used and find them very reliable and such good value for money x

To those considering aspirin i think its important to notify your GP if you decide to take it, like @2020wish did. It just means if there is some other medical emergency eg an accident that it should hopefully be on your record that you are taking it- clotting times etc may be reduced which might be significant in surgery. Your dr might not encourage it but most people can take it at low dose and as has been said already they can't stop someone going out and buying it. Take with food to help protect your stomach. Stop taking it if you get any rashes or stomach pains. Couldn't help putting that out there with my NHS background 🙈 i sound like a medicine label lol

@Emsnewmum thank you, I will get these ordered.

😂😂 @1990EM thanks for the tips. I’m tempted as I’ll try anything but I’m not sure if I should be told to take it.

@1990EM @VP91x I just took another OPK and it’s about as dark as the first one yesterday. I’m annoyed I had a large coffee. I kind of want to hold and try later but I also want to have drinks so not sure what to do. To be honest, nice idea but I’m not sure I’ll ovulate so fast, so thinking a relaxed once a day approach might do for now. But then I think it could be really dark later..... 😂 mindgames xx

@littletandme @Lollol86 I'm sorry it's a negative for you both this month - @VP91x's advice on OPKs is good xx

@MichT4 the amount of times I have accidentally peed my OPK wee away!! It's so easy to forget.

@Pugprincess I think both the pregnacare types are fine to take whenever tbh! In terms of exercise you should check out the PopSugar videos on YouTube, there are loads that are fun and you can do at home without equipment. I also really like EmKFit dance videos on YouTube too, such fun workouts! You should do healthy eating and exercise for you, not just for TTC so don't be discouraged. It will serve you well during pregnancy if you get into good habits now.

@1990EM yes agree 100% that’s why I told my gp and I plan on telling the maternity unit once I get the chance to be far enough along to contact them

@Lollol86 yes those are the ones I use

@MichT4 ooh have you got a pic? Just do two a day? One at 2pm and one at like 8pm? That way you can drink more instead of worrying about every four hours xx

I've been machine sanding one of our doors outside in the garden and my hands are killing me. Also, I did not think it through, thought it would take 30 mins... I was wrong xx

@Lollol86 yeah those are good opks 🥰

@VP91x here’s a pic with today’s one on. It’s tricky to know what’s happening when it’s such early days. I think the one I just did looked more dilute but I also think these readings could be confused.

How would I do the longer waits? Drink and pee, then hold?

Gosh you are busy. What are you up to? Decorating? I’d love to do some decorating xx

@MichT4 gosh yeah they are high, pretty much positive. Yeah it is difficult to tell. Are you temping with your Ava? What is that saying if you are?

Yeah, we have been decorating for what feels like forever. The back door has needed restaining for ages so it needed sanding down to bare wood. I've finally just finished. Having a beer now then will continue tidying as my partner has been doing some painting. I should have just watched TV 🤷 xx

@MichT4 also, yeah you could probably drink and pee twice and then hold with that time frame xx